Is there such thing as being too tired to have sex?

Question

My boyfriend is perfect and all. We both have our own apartments and ever since we moved in we sleep at each others place every day. he calls me after his classes get done or just texts me about his day.
or just calls me about something that happened to him randomly even tho i see him in the evening. his parents know about me and everything.
literally a normal perfect boyfriend.

anyway sometimes i want to have sex and he just says he's too tired. he does cuddle me or (tmi) grab my boob and just falls asleep. even when he's alseep and i move away he cuddles me into his arms or grabs my hand.

he told me today he's too lazy to have sex. last time we had sex was 4 days ago.

i asked him if he doesn't want to fuck me ( i know sorry tmi) and he says that he wants to every day but he's just tired.

his school schedule is all over the place and he does have a lot to do but even when im tired i want to have sex. i dunno. thoughts?

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I have been too tired for sex. Sometimes I just rally and get it done. There has been a few times where I just did not want to do it. My wife has had times when she was too tired as well. We went away for a few days. We went to New York city. We ran around so much during the day that the both of us were to pooped to pop when we went back to the hotel.

MTC29 · Accepted Answer

Just looking at the declared age range, is he in grad school? When I was working on my master of engineering degree, I came home exhausted every night, yet I still had hours of study ahead of me. I purposefully kept social life to a minimum, but if given the choice between a few extra hours of sleep verses sex. Good night!

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

Yes. It happens. Tell him you would like him to make it more of a priority. If he is too tired at night; fine. But then set a sex alarm in the morning or plan a sex lunch date.

kyleelyn199723 · Accepted Answer

I think it’s reasonable but kind of sketchy that he has gone 4 days without it. Sounds like he may be masterbating too much

Apple1996 · Answer

I don't believe that's a thing. I've been extremely sleep deprived after having my son and still wanted and had sex in those moments.

readyplayer001 · Answer

it is possible. but for me even if i was tired, i would tell him go to it if you want it.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Tell him you'll do the work, use lazy sex positions like cowgirl and see if he's up for that, and all he has to do is get UP for that!

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Yes because women use toys too much. Im not a robot, if your foot cramps up after 23 minutes its too much. Her 🐱 has lost sensitivity

jeremy_09 · Answer

I have been too tired for sex, but not very often. I especially wouldn't miss it after 4 days. Sounds like something more is going on here, like another girl or something.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Not much for me! Even if I’m tired I’ll just say you gotta be on top. But I like sex more than most.

AHary · Answer

Give him a blowjob every morning before he gets out of bed. Swallow his cum everytime and tell him you love swallowing his cum. Then he will always say yes to fucking you, because he will know he has to before he cums in your mouth.