Guys, Is this a bad kink to have?

I have this kink with guys where I want them to force themselves on me while I am screaming "no".. It happened last night. he was eating my pussy when I didn't want him to but then he fucking licked my clit and was like "no, this is what you get for turning me on" and i came everywhere...
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  • Bad kink. Sort of arouses a guy and this sort of thing isn't to be encouraged.

    Bad kink, only encourages bad behavior.

    Anti heroes are a great example. Loki/Tom Hiddleston. Done plenty of bad things that led to the deaths of quite a few. Yet he's attractive. This might just encourage the idea that people who do bad things can still be good.

    Another example is Authors explicitly placing Sexism in their books. Some fantasy Authors do this.

    Another is was a book series that HBO was going to make a series out of. The main character is a great guy, loveable character who does a great many good things. Yet he owns some slaves.

    Filming this book series and showing this character could damage or influence other people into thinking slave owners can be good people. No. Slave people cannot be good and so this series never went ahead.

    Bad kink, it's existence is damaging and dangerous.

    • Your logic is flawed. Slave owners can be good people in every moral aspect except for the aspect about slavery, for instance they could think highly of women's rights and be upstanding members of society who give to donations. That doesn't excuse the slavery of course, but it shows that they can still be generally decent people. As for that book, so what? Displaying something, even in a good context, doesn't mean you approve of it. Also, history books have sexism explictly placed in them too, is that wrong

    • I'm not here to have an argument. But displaying bad ideals under a likeable character is not great. Slavery is still slavery, and disguising this sort of qualities alongside heroism does not help. That said, wars have been fought over ideals and different values. Slavery still exists. We don't need to perfume and cultivate such wrong ideals by placing them in a false light that makes a anti-hero more interesting. And back to that story, this is exactly what I mean.

  • This is the weirdest thing I have ever heard. You shouting out no and they forcing on you seem like a rape and no man in his right mind even if he is your boyfriend won't do it. We all know what consequences a man can have when charged for sexual assault. You are the type of girl I try to avoid. Thank God you are not nearby

    • you know who i am

    • My girlfriend?😅

    • No! You are someone else. Who are you?

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  • Consentual non-consent is actually a very common kink. My advice, set boundaries and a safe word. If your "no" doesn't mean "no", you NEED a safeword. Red is by far the most common and easiest to remember. But make sure you COMMUNICATE.

  • Rape play is actually a pretty common thing in BDSM. Although what you described was actual rape.

    • nah i loved it.

    • Then enjoy. Just make sure you have a safe word in place.

  • It’s hot but needs to be handled carefully.

    If you wanted to behave like that with a safe word behind the scenes I could get into it and enjoy it. A lot.

    But

    There’s no way I’d just do it not knowing if you were actually okay or not. And if you want it to be -real- where the guy is -really- raping you then yes it’s bad because it’s going to put you in danger.

  • What you write makes no sense.
    "I have this kink with guys where I want them to force themselves on me while I am screaming "no""
    Guess it's not too uncommon.
    "... he was eating my pussy when I didn't want him to..."
    So not only do you want them to force themselves on you, you literally want them to do what you don't?
    "... then he fucking licked my clit and was like "no, this is what you get for turning me on" and i came everywhere..."
    What? He licked your clitoris and in revenge you "came everywhere"? This sounds solely like a bad attempt of being funny.

  • It's called a rape fantasy

    • More common than u might think Do you enjoy abusive sex aswell

  • I can't do it that's fucked up ! I had a beautiful little cutie she kept my dick rock hard for hrs at a time just cooking or cleaning walking down my long ass drive way. She could have been my babies mama! Nu the fact that she told I had to take it in order to get it was the deal breaker. She even purposely started physical fights with me try to make me take it !! Tool her home finally and had to throw her out my jeeps window actually drag her out of it to get her out and home. Never again to fuck n freaky for me !!!

  • As long as you have a safeword then it's all good.

  • That's hot af.

    • You're hot af. Ima message you soon ;)

    • Lies.

  • Yes, unless you have a safeword between you. Then, have at! :) If you teach a guy that your "No!" means yes, then how will you communicate when it doesn't?

  • I'm little confused here

    So you actually didn't want oral but he force it anyway and then you discovered that you love this kink?

    Or you where already have this kink and was just role playing because it turns you on?

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