Is this a normal fetish? Should I be concerned?

I have a boyfriend you is obsessed with watching girls kiss and trib on a daily basis via porn websites, he's been in throuples in the past, and knows I am bi sexual but definitely monogamous. Sometimes I wonder if I'm enough for him even though he doesn't show signs of not being fuflled sexually. He does occasionally joke around and tells me to kiss a girl but I just want to know if I'm overthinking it? Is it normal to watch that every single day?

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  • A fetish is by definition something abnormal. Thus, your boyfriend is a person that is a red flag in any relation and even more, for watching pornographic content while in a relationship.

    What your boyfriend does is nothing less than emotional cheating, the step just before full physical cheating. There is absolutely no need or reason why anyone would watch pornographic content while in a relation. It is a total no go and a slap in the face of the partner.

    No, you are definitely not enough for him since he has the need to watch other girls. He probably also manipulates his body to induce spasms and muscular contractions. That type of behavior is not compatible with a serious relationship and I personally would just leave this cheater.

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  • You’re never going to satisfy him. So you should find another man. If that’s his fetish, that’s fine. As long as everybody’s consenting. But since you’re not willing to fulfill that fetish of his, he’s not going to be happy with you

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  • The fetish is okay as is the choice of porn. The "joke" telling you to kiss a girl is the beginning of a red flag. As long as, like you say, he's still having sex with you and you're both fulfilled, then his porn thing is probably okay. Watching porn, even daily, does not automatically mean that he doesn't enjoy sex with you, or its not enough, or anything bad.

    So, be concerned? No. Keep your wits about you and keep an eye on it? Yes. You're not overthinking it.

  • Being addicted to porn sucks! It makes people do all kind of stupid. I can definitely tell you that from what you told us he is not feeling unsatified. He may on the other hand be tempting and trying to tease out a fantasy for a threesome or a side girlfriend for you both to enjoy together. I mean have you asked him if he wants that? He may just need to talk it out.

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  • Yes. Be concerned.

    • Is it normal to watch porn everyday even if it's just to watch and not get off to

    • No it is abnormal. He is addicted. He will eventually become numb to normal sex.

  • Girl on girl is hot trope, I think that he date you in the first place because you are bisexual.

    • Is it normal to watch porn everyday even if it's just to watch and not get off to

    • Guys tend to be more sexual than girls so yea, does he prefer watching porn over sex?

    • Sometimes he does and sometimes I watch with him, but I'm not sure if I will please him long term, because the only porn he watches is lesbian porn

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  • Sounds like a porn addiction smh

  • Seems normal to me. Twice as much fun as watching a straight couple.

  • Oh there are going to be genres of porn we like more than others.

    Lots of guys like lesbian porn. Daily is heavy usage but it is there so why wouldn't we?

    It's not any judgement on you

  • That's quite normal in my opinion.

  • I mean it's a normal fetish pretty much most guys will have some interest in. However watching it on porn daily is not normal. Seems like a porn addiction.

  • How old is he?

    • He is 39

    • He's 39

  • ur lesbian and he is gay u r both wrong

  • Yes, very very normal fetish. you worry too much.

  • Pretty normal

  • Just get out there and do it

    • Do what exactly?

    • Kiss a girl and get it over with. After he's given you permission

    • Do you think after I kiss a girl he would expect it all the time?

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  • no not normal