I shared a nude picture with my long distance partner, he said "you look pregnant" in that picture, I felt bad and upset about it cause I'm not even fat I weight around 120 lbs and I'm 5"4. He said I'm making a big deal of his remark on my body 🙁 well it honestly made me feel self conscious and I felt "less attractive" for him
Sigh. This is why sharing nude pics with someone who has never seen you IRL and who you do not actually know in a longtime dating relationship is usually a bad idea.
YEP. This is a giant red flag. What person who likes and respects you, cares about you would make such a comment? "You look pregnant," can never be construed as a compliment to a woman who IS NOT!
Dump this jerk and find someone who lives near you who you can meet and date IRL. And don't let anyone ever put you down that way again. Then he gaslights you by saying you're making a big deal about his remark!!!
Block him and ghost him. There's no need for further conversation. He already knows how much this upset you. He'll realize after that he was an idiot. I hope. But my feeling is, he never apologized to begin with and thinks talking to you in this manner is OK. FORGET HIM...
HOIST THE RED FLAG AND RUN
Regardless there is Shit You Don't Say and that is definitely in the top 10 next to asking about homework at the end of class or it's work equivalent
Maybe it was the angle? I don't know. It was rude of him to say that. My girlfriend isn't skinny but would never call her fat or pregnant.
Yeah I felt hurt 😞 I'm not even over weight, perhaps it was the angle, my tummy was kinda bloated in that position as I was sitting and I'm starting to compare myself with girls on porn on onlyfans who have the prefect body in no matter which angle and position 🙁
Don't do that. Please that'll be stupid. Never compare yourself with anyone else because you'll never be satisfied. Now, you said it possibly was the angle. Get yourself in a different angle. Take pic and send. If you're unhappy with body start a diet, work out, change life style. BUT DO IT FOR YOU NOT HIM!!! Do for your health.
Well I'm not even overweight as I mentioned, and I do work out and eat clean but I don't know why he still said that 🙁
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That was a mean thing for him to say.
Its more rude than anything else.
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