Is this a sign that I'm not satisfying him anymore?

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So my guy and I have sex almost every day and he cums inside me in either my vagina or ass and sometimes my mouth. Well, he has admitted that he masturbates to porn before sex sometimes and sometimes he masturbates a couple hours after sex with me. I'm not mad of course, he can do what he wants. But I'm wondering if I should be concerned that I'm not satisfying him sexually or something? We are in our very early 20s and we do not live together yet, so maybe it's just because he's a young guy? He says he loves my body and he is constantly all over me, hugging me, kissing me, cuddling on me, etc. And we have sex once or twice almost every night and he always says he cums. Should I be concerned that if he masturbates a lot, it means that he is losing interest in me sexually?

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Hawner Xper 7
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Doing it before could mean that he is trying to last longer during the act.
After... Maybe he is still horny (kinda normal for his age) but doesn't want to bother you with sex again. If that is the case, and if you are ok with doing it multiple times until his balls are empty, just tell him. Maybe that will solve the problem.
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- Asker
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  I do tell him that I'll go again, but he says he is done after 1 round most of the time. Sometimes he will go for a second round.. maybe he doesn't think sex with me is very good if he has to masturbate like this?
- Asker
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  and he moans really loud during sex and he says that he cums and I see it dripping back out of me but I don't know..
- Asker
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  And he says it's like a couple hours after sex, not immediately after. So is that enough time to get horny again after sex even if the sex was good for him? He says it's always great for him, but I don't know what to believe anymore since he admitted this.
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- Hawner
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  That is what I've been saying. You did it already a could of times, he is done, but in a free hours he might get horny again. Since you already had sex, maybe he thinks you would not want to again undress and go at it. One thing is to go several rounds in one go, another is going several times (I am not sure if I am explaining myself here). Basically, if I have sex with a girl, all is perfect, we both are spent and in heaven, after a few hours I feel myself ready to go again, I would not tell her to do it again. It is not that I am not satisfied by her, but I don't want to treat her like a sex you, available whenever I want. She may want to rest, do something else, maybe she thinks one go a day is enough... That is why, if you are ok with it, just tell him that you are available for a fuck at any time of the day, no matter how many times, even if you already did it (to put it bluntly). It may not be that, I don't know.

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boggboss Master
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No because he most likely masterbaited like this before u was in the picture
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- Asker
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  Is it a bad sign if he masturbates after sex sometimes?
- Asker
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  Not immediately after sex, but an hour or two?
- boggboss
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  Means he is horny again could be that he is addicted to print or wants to go again when u are asleep or not there
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- Asker
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  Okay thanks for your help.

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loves2learn Master
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If your sex life is satisfying I would not worry about it. Some men need to release more times during the day than others.
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vanshh Xper 5
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After sex is a sign he’s not getting pleasure or satisfaction
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- Asker
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  He says he is cumming and I see it drip out of me.. and he moans loudly during sex. But yeah, I don't know why he thinks he needs to masrurbate like this if I'm doing a good enough job..
- Asker
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  and he moans really loud during sex and he says that he cums and I see it dripping back out of me but I don't know.. And he says it's like a couple hours after sex, not immediately after. So is that enough time to get horny again after sex even if the sex was good for him? He says it's always great for him, but I don't know what to believe anymore since he admitted this.
Sam854647 Xper 2
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He maybe just masterbates before sex so he lasts longer and doesn't blow to early.
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- Asker
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  Yeah, but if he masturbating to porn a couple hours after sex, he most likely isn't getting pleasure or satisfaction right?
- Sam854647
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  If he's had sex with you and then couple of hours later he's masturbating that would make me feel useless
- Asker
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  It does make me feel useless. Maybe my pussy is bad and he prefers his hand.
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- Sam854647
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  Has he ever told you if your to tight or wide.
- Asker
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  He says I'm really tight but I don't know what to believe anymore after he admitted to all of this.
- Sam854647
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  Also depends on if he has a small or big penis
- Asker
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  His penis is average. Maybe a little longer than average.
- Sam854647
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  If he says your tight then you must be
- Asker
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  Yeah. I just feel useless if he cumming by himself a few hours after sex. He knows I'll give him whatever he wants during sex, he just has to ask me. What could be wrong with me to cause this?
- Sam854647
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  The problem isn't you the problem is him. He should be happy your tight and he can feel you. Personally myself I couldn't have sex with a girl who is tight because I'm 11 inches.