Is this a sign that my guy doesn't really like my pussy?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we fuck pretty frequently. Like, 5 or 6 days a week. We have a good sex life and he has told me that I'm the best sex he's ever had. But my sex drive is higher than his, because he's a couple years older than me. He told me that I can have guys fuck me on the side... I'm kind of offended by this, because most men get mad at other guys if they even talk to their girlfriend.. like, why is my man okay with another man fucking me? Why is he okay with sharing me? Does this mean that I'm not good in bed or that maybe my pussy is trash, so therefore he's okay with sharing me with another man? I feel so confused and bad about myself.
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  • It's a fetish. Some men just get off by seeing their girl with other men. It's nothing to be offended about and should give you some insight into his kinky side. It's not that he's not up to having sex with you more often, but that his motor runs on a different type of fuel. Y

    Communication and trust are absolutely key. You will need to have a lot of discussion with him to find out what exactly he wants to get from you doing it with others, and he may not even know other than a general sense that it turns him on. Look up all the various forms of cuckoldry *together* and you will see that there's a lot of variety in types of play involving 3rd parties. Also stag / hotwife relationships too. If you aren't into it, you and he will need to come to terms with it quickly.

  • Sounds like he understands that your sex drive is higher than his and he’s saying it’s ok for you to satisfy your needs. Simply because he may not be able to engage you all the time sexually so he’s ok with someone else doing it. And maybe he’s a cuck!!!

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  • There are some guys who just don't get jealous over things like this. If he doesn't want to join in then I don't think he has a cuckolding fetish.

    The alternative explanation would be he just isn't deeply in love with you, which I hope is not the case. Maybe try asking him why he is comfortable with this and tell him that you feel a little insecure about it. Communication is always key.

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  • Maybe he likes to be a cuckold and understands your needs outweigh his own.

    Some cuckold's get really horny if you recant your experiences so he might be looking for that extra drive!

  • He's a beta-cuck. Google the term cuckold or cuckoldery.
    Giant red flag. And in case you don't know what a red flag is, IT'S A HUGE WARNING SIGN.

    No man worth his salt would ever even CONSIDER sharing his beloved.

    • Is it a sign that he doesn't really like sex with me if he's willing to share me?

    • Please lmk..

    • I don't think it has anything to do with liking sex with you or not. I think it's a failure in attitude about what's important and valuable and what's not. How can you respect a guy that would farm you out for fucking?

  • some of us are actually ok with an ooen relationship kind of thing. sounds like thus is him finding a way if putting away any jealousy so that you can be more sexually satisfied (happy). also, him knowing you have a higher sex drive and his inability to satisfy you as much as you want (deserve in hia mind as well), he can hope to keep you from leaving him if he opens the relationship for you to get more satisfaction this way. in a strange way, it could be out of love that he makes the offer.

    • I understand. And I asked if he wanted to fuck other girls, but he said no? I guess I just felt like he wasn't that into me or the sex if he was okay with sharing me.

    • does not mean he is not into you. quite the opposite. he wants to stay with you but may be feeling inadequate aboyt tge libido difference

  • You sht

    • You should feel fine. It means he knows you won't cheat on him even if he wanted. Though it is a red sign he is okay if you sleep around and earn and become a pornstar probably

  • Yeah that is crazy.

    • Does this mean my pussy or sex isn't great so he's okay with another man taking one for the team and hitting it for him?

    • I have no idea. I know i wouldn't let anyone touch my girl. Even if lets say i got tired from all of the sex. Hell im happy laying there and letting her ravish me. Lol

  • Maybe he’s a cuck.

  • No, they all love your vagina that's why at least for 5 years licking it constantly.

  • if he didn't care about you he would have left long ago. him knowing you have a stronger sex drive, he knows he may not always be enough. that is not a slight on either of you. he is giving you permission because he loves and trusts you. talk to him about it. more sex and more partners will not ruin you.

  • He probably wants you to give him permission to fuck other girls too

    • I asked him about that and he said no. Is it because my pussy or my sex is trash? He says I'm the best sex he's ever had, but I don't know..

    • Can’t you ask him...

    • Already did... he said he didn't want to fuck other girls. He says that I'm the best sex he's ever had. I just dint understand why he is okay with me fucking other guys. He says its because my sex drive is higher than his...

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