Is this abuse in your opinion?

Iceseeyou25 Xper 5

Jerry is 21 years old. His girlfriend, Nora is 23. Nora is a very horny women and Jerry has a much lower ibdo.

She touches Jerry inappropriately at times and even though Jerry doesn't like it, he accepts it anyway because he knows if he doesn't then she won't cuddle with him. He hates when she grabs his penis randomly or tries to watch him in the bathroom but he puts up with it because he wants to make her happy. He's also done sexual things he personally didn't want to do, but he wanted to make her happy.

Jerry eventually starts to have a hard time getting hard due to anxiety. She yells at him, hits him, and shames him for not being able to keep an erection.
She also says, Jerry must not love her anymore and what a horrible person he is.

Jerry left the house and when he was finally alone, started crying.

Yes this is abuse

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I_make_me_anxious Xper 4
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I don't know If you’re ‘Jerry’ or ‘Nora’ or maybe you’re neither of them. But if you’re ‘Jerry’, you need to get out of that relationship because you don’t deserve to be treated that way and you shouldn’t have to do things you’re not comfortable with because you want to make ‘Nora’ happy, if ‘Nora’ loves you she’ll understand.
Now if you’re ‘Nora’ you are an abusive partner, it doesn’t matter if you’re a female, you have no right to hit him, or to degrade him in such a way, if your partner didn’t want to do something you shouldn’t force them to do it.
If you’re neither of them but you’re aware of this situation you need to talk to ‘Jerry’ privately and get him somewhere safe or at the very least help him.
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Anonymous
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The part about her yelling and hitting him for not being able to keep hard is definitely abuse. Also withdrawing affection when not satisfied is also another type of abuse
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Pyrofox Guru
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JUST RESPECT THE MANS SPACE. YELLING girlfriend's ain't gonna make the man have an errection or keep it any longer than it already is. Not to mention if you are making him scared of ya that is only going to make the erection leave EVEN FASTER. O... O
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- Pyrofox
  +1 y
  The idea is to keep the blood in the erection not scare it else where XD.
Alexandrubaschet08 Guru
+1 y
He is a pussy boy. WTF DUD.
Thous person never understand they have a fucking D to give to the girl.
All my girl did what this girl do and they make me hard all the time.
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- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  Some like to be pushed around, some don't 😌
- Iceseeyou25
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone he doesn't like it. He's just use to putting his needs and wants aside
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  I wasn't referring to the guy in the story but the one whose answer is above.
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- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  That is fucking not normal. 2 girl and 1 dud give me dislike. Thous people are a whaist of pussy and dick. Why don't you guys hold yourself thill you get maried. Humans and delphins are the only creatures that make sex for pleasure. If a girl will ever ask to suck me and fuck me thill deatch i will accept to die like that.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone If a guy refuse to give the D to the girl or feel unconfortable that guy should never be alowd to have kids
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  They disliked your opinion cause it was pretty inconsiderate. Not everyone enjoys being pushed around like you do.
- Iceseeyou25
  +1 y
  Shouldn't he have the right to sex when he wants?
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  I favor the idea both partners should be into it. But that's just me 😌...
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  Guys have a much bigger libido then womens. Exept in this stupid situation. A man should be all the time redy for his girlfriend/woman needs. In all relationship a man should give the D when a women want and the women should give the pussy as well when the man want.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  That's a weird state of mind...
- Iceseeyou25
  +1 y
  What if she's on her period
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  From Whitch country are you girl? If she is on her persiod, what? The D can't go in? The sex will not feel good for both of us? I still did it whit all my ex at the period, no problem. I ask them if they still like the sex and feel good in that time, because some friends tell me like you girls "you will not be alow to do it at her period". Bullshit, the period become less painful, more constant and she will not lose as much blood like whit no sex. If any girlfriend will say to me "no sex today" and don't have a specifical indication from a doctor not to do it because some intimate diseases then i will open the door and say "you can go"
- Iceseeyou25
  +1 y
  That's pretty awful
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone Why? All my relationship whas like this and nobady complain. Evrybodi is satisfact, is not like i can have sex when i'm alone. I have needs as wel the woman, so that why we are both for each other. Woman take care of man and man of woman
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  why?
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  Because is no more pain and blood and constant period?
- Twalli
  +1 y
  Dude, every animal enjoys sex. It feels good for all of them. Those that have cycles when they're in heat aren't different apart from only wanting it at certain times, yet they all enjoy it.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @Twalli nop, they are not reproducting in captiviti so you can say that, they have time in the yare when they make kids, they don't have time to have sex for fun. Example-a tiger have only 1 week on yare when he start to reproduce "have sex". THIS IDEEA OF YOU CAN SAY "NO" TO you're PARTENER IN A RELATIONSHIP IS A SHIET. If you don't want sex all the time don't get in a relationship. I expect like 2-3 time sex evry single day whit a partener.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  Maybe you should get a job then 😅
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone no need, i'm payd to do nothing :) 2020 the best yare of my life :) hope we gone stay izolate forever :)
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  I understand now... 🤣
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone i'm alergic at work/jobs, i get angry, depresion and think to suicid, i hate to work for somebody (boss, governament, society). I want just to stay, do nothing, eat, sleep and have sex.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  And overall being lazy... Well... If you find a girl who doesn't work either and has time for sex 3 times a day... Good for you lol
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone I know i'm lazy and is bery bad that all the people are hypocritical, because evrybody like to stay home and not been obligate to do what somebody else want. Evrybody enjoy to go in holidays, to stay home whit family and friends and all people feel sad when they need to stop doing what they like in order to go to work. Girl who make sex 3 time in a day ar not something that is imposible, a nymphomaniac girl will be perfect. I find 1 in this life and olso on thie site are some. So is not imposible. All my ex has done sex when ever i wanted.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  Cause you were with passive/submissive girls. That's it. Not everyone want to be dependent on another's money. Some want to be independent.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone They win more money then me :)) I don't obligate them to have sex whit me, if they want to not give me say and say "no" i brake up. No mather if she win more money then me or not. Olso i will never accept a girl who stay whit me for money. Thous are whore, cunt!
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  You're the gold digger here lol.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone I will take you "Gold Digers" in a very nice place in this world (Brazil, Thailand, France, Itali..) and at the end of holiday i will put you to pay you're own airplance tiket (the location will be far from you're home) and say "good luck whit the money".
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  I never said I wanted to travel with you. I don't if it wasn't clear 😌...
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone i whas meening about any Gold Digger in this world. Olso if you don't give sex all the time when i ask and you have a low or midium libido i will olso not be interested in traveling whit you.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  I will never travel with someone that disrespectful 😃
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone On the contrary, I am very respectful of the girls who don't mind serving me and who like sex. I belive only in love at the fist sight. A girl who will make sex/love whit me from the very first moment will be like a queen in my eyes.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  That's an odd idea of respect 😄
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone Is simple, if i want sex all the time, i need to be nice and respect the girl. Help her whit hous work, moral suport all the time in her problems, some time come home whit flowers or presents, make some nice surprise. What so strange? Tell me 1 reson for not having sex evry day? I'm whaiting.
- Twalli
  +1 y
  Animals that go into heat are only able to ge pregnant at t bv at time, nevertheless they enjoy sex while they are in heat. In the US the lockdown was not favorable of the people. Vacation means leaving home. Going somewhere you don't. It also means you saved up enough money to do so. Most people in the US couldn't afford to stay in their houses during the lockdown. While people may not like working as much as they do, they NEED the money. Granted there was a way to prevent the problem, but it did not happen, and while most of our problems dealing with COVID-19 can be attributed to Trump, our GINI coefficient is a product of the Reagan administration. You need a reason for a girl not to have sex; how about being in labor?
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @Twalli is logical you will not be even able to put the D in because the kid get out, olso that is a good reson and one that any normal person agree here. I meen moust of the time in a relationship, like i hear reson like "i'm not in the mood", "i'm at my period", "my head is in pain", "i want to watch the show"...
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  @Twalli When you wake up at 4 am and stop working at 11 pm, you're just too tired for it. But you can't understand that 😅.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone No i can't, when my girl ask for sex i'm redy to go, even if i die. Sex feel to good to finde an excuse. (exept medical reson)
- Twalli
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone I was just giving ONE reason. There are more. I was half asleep when I responded to that. Pregnancy was the first thing that came into my mind.
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @Twalli and is a good reson. But is a medical one, if the partener is in pain then for shure will not enjoy any sex.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  @Twalli OH yes, I wasn't answering to yours actually. My bad.
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  What about no wanting it? Then you ask to go the fuck away?
- Alexandrubaschet08
  +1 y
  @BlackCatBone Yes, if she is in my hous. If i'm in her hous i will simple live and never see each other again. :)
- BlackCatBone
  +1 y
  Good for her then lol.

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Agape93 Master
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Yeah it’s clearly abuse
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chriscdi Master
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what she did was fucked up but jerry shouldve gotten some dick pills
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Numbnuts89 Xper 7
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prob.
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Anonymous
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It's definitely abuse.
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