Is this common among Girls?

Me and my Girlfriend have great sex. Lately she was on Top but didn't feel much pleasure. She said that it's not pleasurable to be on Top and doing the thrusting. It's way more pleasurable for her when she holds still, doing no thrusting by herself, which is totally fine for me, though we'd like to know why its only great for her when she is mostly or completely passive. Is this common among Girls?
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  • I tend to roll my hips & that gives us both pleasure. I also lay forward on my man & he wraps his arms around my back & holds me tight, then fucks me that way.
    She can always scoot back & forth , that's not a lot of effort on her part & it feels good for you both. She can also lean back & scoot or roll her hips that way. Or you can fuck her while she's 'reclining' .
    But if it doesn't work out for her , find another position. It took us a while to get our positions right when I started to get on top.

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  • What does it matter if it's common? Do what works for the two of you. If her not liking it on top is a deal breaker for you, then so be it. Hopefully she's not just laying there like a dead fish, but again, if it works for you, why does it matter?

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  • She’s just fwckin LAZY. That’s it. My experience has shown the most enjoyable position for a woman…where you can tag one spot and she can tag the other with little bit of effort is reverse cowgirl 🤠. And when her ass falls over like a tree…give her 3-5 minutes and finger Clit.
    —From that night on…she’ll be puppy dog nipping at your heels.

  • She might not just be good in cowgirl. Lack of experience and likely a stamina issue.

    But actually also for cowgirl, girls get more pleasure from riding back and forth vs up and down (the latter gives more pleasure to guys).

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  • My wildest guess is that, given the overwhelming number of replies received till now by girls, that this is not something that is very common among girls. Of course I could be mistaken.

    If your girlfriend tells you that something displeases her, then you can reasonably assume that a number of girls will also concur with her on that topic but bear in mind that you can have several opinions on a given topic.

    Just listen to her and you are probably fine. Good luck with your endeavors.

  • I think it's just a liking, some may find it pleasurable and some don't and that's ok

  • Being top isn't super pleasurable for me but I still enjoy it. Feels a lot better when the guy is in control. My guy usually will just hold me up and fuck me that way if I'm top instead of me riding.

  • Try missionary and Doggy?

  • Not common at all

  • instead of thrusting, have her lean forward a bit and rock in the saddle like a cowgirl, rubbing her clit against you like she did her pillow, look on youtube how to ride a horse if you are unfamiliar, you might even put your finger or hand there for her to rub against, keep trying, you can find a way

  • Sounds like it's been easy for you to get a girlfriend most of your life

  • It doesn't really matter if it's common or not, but just take her word for it. Not all women are comfortable in the dominant role.

  • Not sure how common it is among girls, but do whatever it takes for her to enjoy it.