Is this guy using me for sex?

It’s a guy I have known 7 years since I was 18 , we dated wen I was 23-25 but we never met family , he used me for sex.
I never had a boyfriend so I thought dating & texting daily was a serious boyfriend that loves you& that maybe some girls had to wait 1-2 years to meet family.

I broke up with him last year , so I no longer see him at all for dates , he texted me today, & wanted me bring him donuts tonight , but I made it clear I won’t have sex with him as I will only have sex with a boyfriend that meets my family. & since I said that he no longer wants donuts or to see me.

& he gets mad as I said I proved I’m right , if he truly liked me, he would want see me but as I said I won’t have sex with him, he no longer wants donuts. 🙄🙄🙄

I’m 100 percent sure he wanted sex. I’m not a friends with benefits. Period!

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  • Sorry to say, but he was only interested in one thing and it was definitely not a life partner.


    If you want, I can give you whatever tips I have available you seem sincere.


    I wish you the best and have a good day.

    • This is y I never had a boyfriend, I waisted 7 years with him, & I met a new guy a crush I had at job last year June , but he got fired August so we neevr were able to meet but then my crush returned back to the job decmeber & we met and spent 3 days together but then we got separated after Christmas, & I wasn’t able gvie him my number. He was a nerdy quiet guy, no one talked to him at the job.

    • Maybe he cud of been the right guy of my dreams. I’m still looking for my crush outside the job weekly , & I hope a miracle happens and we reunite again.

    • He was only guy that has treated me very good & nice in my entire life, then march I met a lookalike from a dating app & he also treated me very nice & good to me, we spent 2 days together , but then we got seperated too , he had to leave back to the state he lives at

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  • He definitely wanted to use you again. You did the right thing. You scare jerks like that away when you tell them no sex unless you are boyfriend/girlfriend

    • He refuses let me meet his family , he would want meet me forever as buddies only

    • I even posted a vid with the new guy im seeing & I don't know y that doesn’t make him leave me alone.

    • Sounds like it, guys like that ruin girls.

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  • Damn. Block is his ass.

    • Im 26 and neevr had a boyfriend. This is what I go through,

    • I never dated anyone before tooo. But God given a fiancee who haven't been in relationship nor a sexual one. God is great. Block his ass.

    • I don’t think I’ll get married , can’t find a guy that wants meet my family …

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  • Yes, he was using you for sex.

  • Yes, absolutely 💯 using you for sex

    • I guess since I said I want a boyfriend that meets family he said I’m gaslighting him 🙄

  • He either really loves donuts or really loves sex. It can’t be both. It has to be one or the other. So, yes, he is using you for sex.

  • Yes he wants sex that's why when you stated you wasn't have sex with him he didn't want to see you anymore

  • yeah

    • Im worried cuz I’ll be 27 and never have met a guy that wants be my boyfriend. I worry no guy will love me. Can’t even get a short term boyfriend. I feel no guy desires me. 😔

    • I have many guys show interest in me but no guy wants be my boyfriend. The new guy I recently met treated me very good I’ve never been treated good in my entire life. But I don't know if he’ll be my boyfriend in the future. I have no idea.