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Is this normal? BJ question?

So I recently gave my first blowjob and after a minute the guy stopped me and came in his hand.
Is it normall for him to cum in his hand?
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Superb Opinion

  • Mu guess is that he didn't feel like you were ready for a mouthful of cum. Were you?

    • It was my first time hiving a Bj do nope

    • So he was being very much a considerate gentleman. Would you be as considerate a lady and swallow his load when he cums in your mouth?

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  • He probably felt that you wouldn't like it if he ejaculated in your mouth. I have had girlfriends in the past give me BJ's while I was wearing a condom for that reason. If the woman is fine with me cuming in her mouth I will still ask her if I can when I feel an orgasm coming on.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's unusual, I suspect his previous girlfriend didn't like him to cum in her mouth so he developed that technique

  • He was being considerate usually they prefer ur mouth

    • @zannika02 do u like a warning?

    • @MarkyMark77 yes

    • @zannika02 can u tell when he is gonna explode?

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  • Probably has had oral off previous girls who gag from getting a load in the mouth or spit and felt it more courteous to cum in his hand.

    If you wanted to swallow offer to lick it off his hand if he does it again.

  • He probably didn't know if you wanted him to cum in your mouth and he didn't want to just assume that you did, especially because it was your first time. If you view it in that light he was just being respectful.

  • yes that's the normal thing to do unless said otherwise by you or him

  • so you wanted to swallow cum,

  • He must have been being gallant and stupid. He probably did not want to cum in your mouth. Sounds like Patriarchy in action :-D Thinking for you. You should decide that, not him.

  • maybe he is being considerate, not knowing your comfort level with the idea of a mouthful of cum. communication communication communication

  • Well that was nice of him I would have made you sallow it

    • Not sure if it's normal but it's a good reaction for him Would you have like him to cum on you that hot and all but you would need to clean up and maybe he was trying to keep it clean I don't know If you want it somewhere else ask

  • Perhaps he didn't like your bj, being inexperienced.

  • Yes. If you didn't make it clear he could cum in your mouth. If you want him to. Talk dirty first or whilst doing it and say you want him to to cum in your mouth.

    He'll do it then.

  • No that's pretty weird

    • @soashley92 yeah it is for sure! what would u think if a guy did this that u were sucking on?

  • Sure! He probably didn't feel comfortable with spraying His Cum on you or in your mouth, so the hand was probably the best option (for now) As far as how quick He was, it's common for a Guy to be quick with a Blowjob!

  • Umm no. Not really.

  • maybe he felt bad bc it was ur first. did u want him to cum in ur mouth? what did u think abotu sucking his dick/?

  • Thats weird

  • No, most guys will cum in your mouth or on your face...

  • if that's happen to me I am prefer to cum inside mouth..

  • I also think i did it to be gentle to him... just ask him why. Next time maybe u... taste his cum after he did... than u can deside if u want him to cum inside ur mouth and/or swallow

  • I’ve never seen that. They’ve always finished in my mouth except for one guy. He decided to finish on my boobs.

    • which do u prefer and why?

  • maybe he didn't want to kiss you with a mouthful of cum.

    • He didn’t even kiss me afterwards 🙄

  • It was probably his first bj, that is not how you want to be finishing.

    Do his a favor and next time don't let him pull away, grab his ass and hold him there as he cums in your moth. He'll thank you for that.

    • It was not his first time he is older than me, but i think he did that because it was the first time i ever gave a bj

    • Well, you know my advice. If I've learned anything in life it's that google has a tutorial for everything.

    • @Asker did you want to swallow his cum?

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