Is this normal for a guy to feel this way?

[abraaakadabbra]

Is this normal for a guy to be this way :

He has NEVER ever had a female friend , has always been shy and awkward around the girls , NEVER had any relationship , is a virgin... does feel horny , masturbates frequently and even watches pornography...
But thinking about a real life girl and having to get in romantic and naked sexual activity with a girl makes him feel awkward and creepy... if a girl shows interest he feels really creepy thinking about sex with her...

[jess54]

i think it’s perfectly normal, especially if the guy isn’t used to female company, it will feel weird and wrong to think about it too. especially sexually, if you’ve never had a sexual partner. i think a good starting point is just befriending girls, treat them the same as you would with guys. that’ll get rid of the awkward feeling. i think if a girl shows interest and your mind thinks of sex straightaway, obviously you’re going to feel creepy, as that is a bit objectifying. it’s always a good starting point to be friends first, and then if the chance comes then you can take it further.

[Secret6620]

Yes it is normal for a guy to feel this way... No worries... 💓

[Secret6620]

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[Anonymous]

Stop talking about me. I know I'm not normal; but I am straight (granted it probably took longer than it should have to figure this out). Also I am not shy; I'm socially inept. Also, how did you know all of this stuff about me when you have never even met me?

[abraaakadabbra]

Never had a female friend? Do girls talk to you?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really; friendly acquaintances though. Women talk to me; but it is typically work related. As I have the most experience in my department.

[jakerson181]

Not so common. Some things this person needs to get past to have a productive relationship.

[abraaakadabbra]

What things?

[jakerson181]

These things: But thinking about a real life girl and having to get in romantic and naked sexual activity with a girl makes him feel awkward and creepy... if a girl shows interest he feels really creepy thinking about sex with her...

[abraaakadabbra]

Does thus mean he is gay?

[jakerson181]

No, of course not.

[JosyJosy]

Nah seems off

[abraaakadabbra]

Off as in?

[JosyJosy]

To me it's strange to not have befriended one girl whatsoever

[abraaakadabbra]

He is shy , and physically not strong and tall enough for a male.. Hence so

[JosyJosy]

If you were born with a dick, you're a male there isn't no too weak or too short

[abraaakadabbra]

Okay... he is a male because he has a decently sized dick... But he is short and slim built for a " man". Ok now

[JosyJosy]

Much better.

[abraaakadabbra]

Now you understand why he is this way

[JosyJosy]

If you have a 'big dick' attitude though, you can still get girls, whether how small it actually is, or your height or how weak

[abraaakadabbra]

How tall should a man at least be , according to you... and how strong built?

[JosyJosy]

My shortest guy friend is 5'3 and he's tougher than some of the taller friends I've got

[abraaakadabbra]

And how tall are you

[JosyJosy]

5'11

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[Anonymous]

It sounds like this guy has anxiety in regards to sex. If he gets into a romantic relationship, this might improve over time! Seeing a therapist might help too, it's never wrong to seek help.