Is this normal for blow jobs?

My partner took 10 mins to finish last night and got close to finishing 4 times then lost it each time until he did finish.

He also needs to close his eyes (which makes me think he needs to imagine) during it too.
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  • In all honest very few Lady's I have had an experience with were very good I would say less than 5% . It is hard to know how to satisfy what you do not have.

    A few pointers

    1 Constant motion without pause
    when the motion stops , often its like going from 90% complete back to the 30-50% range instantly.
    Thats why a lot of guys will try to push a girls head down It feels good but they are trying to reach the finish line.

    2 No teeth
    from 90% to 0% instantly

    3 This is very important super important not as important as 1 but a runner up

    Range lets say your going deep for a little while and he is loving it then you go back to a smaller range that will sometimes do a small reset if you do it too long it can take way longer. Keep a good range

    4 eye contact helps a lot men are very visual when it comes to this if you are not making eye contact he might just be imagining that you are its one of the most attractive things you can do it will help him finish if he is in to you
    5 stopping because your scared to catch it is a major turn off and can ruin it completely
    6 make sure your mouth is well lubricated
    7 switching back to the hand and not being constant is a reset
    I hope this helps I just gave you the level up cheat code !!

    • What do you mean being scared to catch it? Him organising in your mouth?

    • There’s many times I do all these thing well and give like a really good blow job but there’s days I just can’t

    • Well when you know your not up too it you really can't be worried about how you did.

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  • A way to avoid him "re-starting" is to always keep building sexual tension. Do not slow down or pause even for a few seconds. He will lose momentum and have to start working toward orgasm again.

    Yes, I close my eyes diring a BJ. Do I sometimes stream fantasies through my mind to get over the top? Yes. And those fantasies can be my partner blowing me "PIV" because it is often awkward to bend my neck to watch her do it. They can also be other things, but they do not have another girl's name attached to them.

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  • I think it sounds pretty normal. I have often been to the point of finishing but end up going a few more minutes. The slightest variation can change everything

  • A lot depends on how long it has been since he last had sex/bj or jerked off.

  • Your guy may be easily distracted. Closing his eyes blocks some of the visuals that are keeping him from the finish line. I doubt he's imagining something different. What could be better? I don't know.

    10 minutes doesn't seem like a long time from start to finish. It might be tiring for your mouth, etc. If that's the case, try changing it up. Switch to using your hand for a bit. Or, ride him. After the achy jaw has relaxed, you can return to the BJ. Or, not. Just have fun!

  • If he came then its fine

  • Normal unless that happens all the time.