Is this normal for your first time?

[Anonymous]

I had sex for the first time today and i was wondering if it was normal to just barely feel a thing. Sure it felt good a little bit but i barely felt anything. like a little shove, no pain of ripping or nothing pretty sure my hymen is still there even. then i got on top which didn't really make any difference but i did feel something more when he hit from the back other than that not a single orgasm and i don't use toys so its not that, i have fingered myself a few times but i didn't feel the overwhelmness of being ripped everyone spoke off. He had girth but he wasn't that long maybe that was it?

[petitedollbabee]

I didn’t feel any pain or ripping or anything during my first time. If you had penetrative sex then your hymen is definitely broken. As for whether you were supposed to feel pleasure or not during your first time, that depends on what he was doing. He could’ve been thrusting on the wrong angles or positions. I didn’t feel much pleasure during my first time because the position we were doing wasn’t pleasurable for me, and he made no effort to help me orgasm. Not every woman can orgasm from penetration alone, so your experience sounds normal. I wouldn’t worry about it. Try out different positions next time, and get him to go down on you first and if he’s any good at it, you should be able to orgasm, which will then make penetration feel much better.

[Asker]

thank you

[7Phoenix7]

When I had sex for the first time, there was pain in the beginning but once the pain disappeared it was the best feeling ever. But I had never fingered myself before either. Maybe that has something to do with it? I don't know

[Berethor]

Virgins tend to be tight, how you barely feel anything? well at least it was not painful for you.

[Asker]

when i sy not painful i mean there was a pang right but then i didn't feel like i was dying but when i say feel nothing i mean the pleasureable part there wasn't really much he got a few spots that felt nice and i clenched around him a few times which i knew i knew fr him telling me to relax before i take hs dick off but there really wasn't anything wow cloud nine pass out blurry vision can' tell up from down.

[Berethor]

Maybe you expected too much from it, but it's not matter anymore, you no longer a virgin.

[TotallyAlmost]

Small penis perhaps?

[Charliefretz329]

Sounds like he was no good

[Asker]

he wasn't absolutely horrible.

[Anonymous]

It's all in the motions... sounds like he just didn't do it right.. was there foreplay?
Another factor is the time during the month, your sensitivity changes with hormones.

[Asker]

not really jut kissing and he sucked on my breast and then he worked it in which felt weird. i did bleed but it didn't hurt as bad a they put it guess i have a high pain tolerance.