Girls, is this normal or I should be afraid?

Well, I am 19 years old and I am virgin. But I wanted to ask is it normal that when I was 13 years old I tried wearing my sisters panties and it was great, so I did it more and more and even went further to fingering my ass and putting objects in it. I dont like men I think, but I had fantasies about them. I like girls, but I dont have fantasies about them and for now I only kissed two girls. So do you think this is normal, or I should be afraid? I dont know what to think, is this a phase or not.
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  • Hard to say. People's sexuality changes throughout their life.

    I wouldn't rush to put yourself in a box or label yourself. Nor would I say you need to be afraid.

    Fuck whatever's "normal", too. No one's normal nowadays anyways - and if they claim to be, they're definitely not normal.

    I'd say explore. Don't worry about whether or not you fantasize. Just don't hurt yourself or others while you explore, and be respectful of boundaries and personal property.

    But take this time to explore. Maybe you enjoy a different way to expressing your gender or sexuality. Maybe you don't know what quite attracts you, yet.

    Be open with yourself and allow yourself to explore without judgement.

    • Thank you for your amazing answer, Growly. Its really hard to say. Maybe I dont need to be afraid, but I am. Yeah, you are right about the normal part. What you mean by explore? To explore my fantasies with men, to try it with a man? Once again, thank you!

  • I think clearly you gay

    • Oh, but why? Can you explain?

    • Obviously you have a sexual fantasy towards guys.

    • well, yes, but is that mean that I am gay?

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  • It's just a kink or a fetish. Nothing wrong with it

    • Lets hope you are right!

    • I know I'm right. You will either grow out of it and give it up or you will become more obsessed with it and go even further with little control over it. Just the way it happens is all.

    • So what you mean that I will be obsessed with it and go even further? Because I think I am heading to that direction..

  • Definitely not normal. Seems like you are just trolling.

    • I am sorry, but I am not trolling...

    • Then maybe you should see a Psychologist because it is clearly not normal.

  • A-OK, you are just yourself =)

    • But what that means, haha?

    • A-OK = all OK =)

    • Ah, okay about that, but I asked what you meant by saying that I am just myself?

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  • I don't think you should be afraid of anything. You're just figuring out and exploring your sexuality, possibly even what clothes you like to wear too.

    • Yeah, but I am afraid of the possibility to be gay...

    • He's trolling as he keeps arguing that he is gay.

  • from what I understand a lot of boys have done what you have done, wear girls knickers, I think that is a normal way to grow up. you could be a late developer in such things, and going by todays standards quite normal,

    • Well, you might be right in the part that a lot of boys have done that, I dont know, but I guess many of them are not straight, right? I dont know. And I dont think I am a late developer, because I started, when I was 13, 14 years old..

  • It does sound like you could have some sexual interest in guys.

    • Yeah, it could, so I should be afraid..

  • It's a normal phase. But you're growing up so you will eventually find out about your sexuality.

    • So what you mean, that I can find out I am gay for example, or what?

    • Yes. We live in a judgmental society that expects everyone to be straight or live in a certain way. But we all are different. You might not be gay but bisexual.

  • Well you kinda sound bisexual to me

  • Bruh
    Wtf?
    U made my face screw up like a ball of paper

    Ur disgusting

  • No, I dated a few crossdressers and it basically became a new way of life for them.

    As you get older. The need to dress get stronger and stronger.

    First you'll start out hiding it. Then you will get caught. Best to come clean before you get serious with someone.

    Because if they find out. They are going to think the worse and feel like you don't trust them.

    • Oh, maybe you are right, I mean I also feel like the need to dress is stronger now.. But I think I am gay too..

    • So if your gay your gay. But weather it's a girl or a boy your with. You still have to tell them

    • Yes I know.. And I want to actually look sexy and slutty for the guys..

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