Is this offensive to say to a guy?

[Anonymous]

This guy made a joke about sleeping with him and I said I wouldn’t because I don’t know where his dick has been and he got offended.

[HSalenko]

I don't know why the other guys are saying what they're saying, they don't know the whole context and neither do I. This is my response based on a few scenarios. If he approaches you out of nowhere coming on strong and talking about sex, he was rude. If he already knows you're not interested it's still not rude for you, he's in the wrong and needs to take a hint. If you're the types to rib each other and are friends or something that's a little more complicated. But, if you weren't trying to insult him give a friendly apology. Judging by how you refer to him as "this guy" then I don't see how this could be rude. Sometimes people need to F- right off.

[ManOnFire]

Oh that is super offensive, but it's hard to blame you, especially if you're not interested in him and if he's saying that without having really gotten to know you for a bit. What you said is most definitely downright rude, but he was probably being rude with that joke too if it was random.

He's also be offended because what you said might be true and he knows it.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Joking about ppls sex life in general is offensive, unless it's already established as joke topic. In this case he's the one who brought it up, based on ur question he even brought u into it too. So I'd say he just needs to get thicker skin or he needs to not bring up sex life as a joke next time. Cuz seems he can dish but can't take it. 🤷‍♀️

[Nikki1989]

You touched a nerve. That is a red flag right there.

[ImHere22]

That's not offensive. He's being an emotionally immature and fragile idiot.

[236color]

He was offensive first. Tough shit for him.

[Billlewis]

I don't think that's offensive. It would have been more offensive if you told him that you weren't worried about it, because you doubt whether he's had sex with a woman for quite a while... lol

[summiter]

Well it is true but u should have followed it up with a comment like" But if the dick has a condom on it all the time I would be interested"

[SnowedIn]

That's funny.

But I can also see why a guy might get defensive about that.

[Fireguy17]

nope, it is the truth.
Nothing wrong with being truthful at all.

[sheenagwapa]

yes it's offensive

[Lokiion]

I mean it’s the truth why he even get mad over something that doesn’t involve himself unless he can relate to what you said

[DerekC321]

I don't think so. Just a way of trying to say you'd like to know him better before you go forward?

[DrKrieger]

You basically implied you had no intention of sleeping with him because he has an STD - that didn't strike you as a thing you probably shouldn't joke about?

I'm as big of a fan of dark jokes as the next guy, but you can't just spring a lvl 10 joke on a lvl 4 conversation when you haven't even ran the bases yet

[zagor]

Avoid the snowflake.

[AngryCarl2]

That doesn't seem offensive to me, just factual. There's no way you could possibly know where his dick has been. It's certainly no worse than a guy calling you a dirty whore.

The least he could do is offer to wear a condom.

[shanshu]

Imagine 8f he said that to you about your gentials

[LEGENDARY4200]

I don't think so could of been a lot ruder lol

[Anonymous]

Could hurt his ego since you pretty much called him a hoe but you're not wrong for your response lol