Is this ok for friends with benefits?

I've been casually hooking up with this guy since August last year. At one point we were seeing each other on a weekly basis. He's been going through a difficult time lately. Recently he told me his mother was sick with Cancer, he got laid off from work. And then he was assaulted by his friend of 10 years after he let her and her kid move in with him.

I told him to let me know if he needs help with anything, and he said he would. I know Friends with benefits is only about sex. But I guess I'm just trying to be a friend to him regardless of sex. I mean sometimes people have a difficult time and may need a friend. I am just thinking about myself and how I would feel if I were going through a difficult time.

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  • It's human compassion to want to help another person.

    It applies to friends with benefits.

    Just a word of caution: some people abuses relationship for material gain. Beware of con man.

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  • Why wouldn't it be ok? I'm sure he appreciates the gesture. Don't be mad if he doesn't ask, though.

    • Don't be mad if he doesn't ask? I'm not sure why you're saying this...

    • If he doesn't ask for your help or ask for you to talk or hang out. Things like that. He's going through a difficult time, he may just want to be left alone. I don't know him or his personality, so he may or may not call you at all.

    • Obviously, I know he's going through a difficult time hence the reason why I told him to let me know if he needs help with anything. I'm not sure why you're saying he won't call me or ask me to hang out etc when you don't even know him. I'm trying to be a friend to him and I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Sometimes people need a friend you don't know him personally to say what he will and will not do.

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  • There are no rules. Do whatever you feel is best. Be careful about lending or giving him money.

  • At least your fuck buddy gets his balls drained, that worth something.

    • Go away troll.

    • Not trolling, getting his balls drained genuinely does help with his overall mood and stress reduction.

    • @krakenattackin dude just hush. That's not what she needs to read or hear. None of us here need that.

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