Girls, is this pain/sensitivity normal?

Hi, so basically I've been practicing masturbating recently, I still haven't had an orgasm yet but I have been trying for a while. Among other issues and questions that I have that I'm not comfortable to post about here, I do have some pain that happens sometimes.

Firstly, after about 20 minutes or so, my clitoris area starts to hurt and become oversensitive. Is this normal? why is this happening? how can I prevent it?

Secondly, I've never been able to put a finger in, it feels extremely tight and when I press on it two things happen - firstly I feel a little bit of pain because of the tightness and secondly - I honestly feel like I'm going to piss myself. Not the best feeling and it makes me feel pretty weird. Even if I pee before doing it, it still feels like I'm going to. Nor sure if this is normal or what I can do to correct this.

My DM's are open, please feel free to comment anonymously as well if you're more comfortable. Thanks in advance. I will be setting up an appointment with my doctor when I can but I wanted to ask on here first cause I've gotten a lot of help in the past but my current BFF isn't online right now, so I'm hoping maybe some of you will be able to help.

Once again, thank you!
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  • The pain you're talking about regarding the clit, seems like you're sore after about 20min of rubbing your clit, and is very sensitive which is why you are feeling uncomfortable when it gets swollen when aroused. There might be few other reasons but you can try lubing yourself to see if it works.

    Secondly, you are small and tight down there as you said and therefore inserting finger is not so comfortable, is is lubed enough when you try it? Also the peeing sensation is after you get aroused & turned on enough and likey going to orgasm? Insertion is not always comfortable on the beginning so that maybe the reason, try lubing up and investing a bit of time playing before you try, also try slowly day by day if its the tightness & lube issue you'll be able to eventually.

    Feel free to ask or share if I can be of any help.

  • I’d be happy to talk about this privately but you have to follow me first

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    • Wtf that's so frustrating