Is this perhaps the most important fact about men that women should know to save themselves heartache, abuse, and confusion?

Fact: Men want sex and will be disingenuous/deceitful in all sorts of ways to achieve it.

Now, what exactly does this mean?

Well, it means that men will disguise their true intentions with different ones so that the woman is not alerted to what he truly wants, therefore, rejecting him and him failing in getting what he initially wanted.

To be more specific, this means a man will be deceitful/disingenuous about how nice your dress is, how kind you are, how he truly wants to just be friends, etc.

Women, even the SMARTEST of women, can be quite easily fooled by men who say they just want to be friends.

Why is this a thing?

In short, evolutionary biology.

It’s hard to escape and it’s not always easy to alter, change, or contort when there is a chance to do so.

Should women always be on guard?

Yes, I think so.

Now, this doesn’t mean be rude, insensitive, or disrespectful.

But, it should mean to set boundaries and to not believe in certain things.
Is this perhaps the most important fact about men that women should know to save themselves heartache, abuse, and confusion?
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What should women do? •Be friendly with him, but this is not the same as becoming friends with him. These types of men that want to be friends with you and only friends with you are nearly impossible. Most of the time? in my opinion, they aren’t truthful over what they feel over you and what they would want to get if you offered.
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Relationship-wise, spending a lot of time with a man and going through tough situations with him is one way to see what kind of person he is and how he feels about you. Ask him questions about where he sees each other in a few years, what his sexual past was like, what he likes to do, and goals he has for himself. These are just a few of some important questions you NEED to know.
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  • A lady told me that her sister was fooled twice on dating sites. You might find this very hard to believe, but women fall for this.

    He was a very handsome and rich doctor from India. Someone stole his wallet and he just needed cash to get to America so he could marry her. She fell for this twice. I maybe can see being fooled once by it, but twice? lol

    Fool me once, shame on you.
    Fool me twice, shame on me.

    There is one point that you didn't touch on, and maybe that's because you aren't aware of it. But some women want to be tricked/used for sex. I know a couple of women who have been on the same dating site for 10 years. They are always crying to me about how all men are assholes and just want sex. I just wish I had the chutzpah to ask them how they have managed let themselves be duped for 10 years. lol

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  • here is what people should know instead...

    these are not MEN... at the most, they are males...

    but they´re not men, just a bunch of inadequate mitches, should not confuse the two

    a true man cannot, and will never be reduced to just one allegedly biological marker that will dictate it´s whole life and persona

    but if this is your case, then you´re just a mitch, a male... but not a man

  • What you say is true. It is not all men that do this but I would guess it is most. I am guilty of this too. It seemed I never could pull it off.

    • Thanks for the MHO😎

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  • How you gonna say all men are abusive or manipulators? Liar. Don't blame biology for bad behavior.

  • This isn't true of all men though.

    • Read what I wrote in response to @CloudMassacre

    • Not much of an abswer, but ok..

    • How is it not much of an answer?

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  • Men will give intimacy to get sex.
    Women will give sex to get intimacy.

  • I don’t think this is true all the time

    • I don’t think a lot of things are true all of the time. Still, we can all make general statements about things. For example: Women can get pregnant Is this generally true? Of course Are there women who, of no fault of their own due to birth issues or other biological/physical defects, cannot get pregnant? Yes. Again, it’s still a biological fact that women, not men, can become pregnant.

    • I think with a biological process it’s easier to generalize, but I think peoples psychology and actions are too diverse to generalize behavior and intent

    • Well, what I’m talking about is biology. Specifically, evolutionary biology. It’s not simply a different taste in music, food, color, etc.