Is this possibly a foot fetish or no? Why would a man deny having a fetish?

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So I've thought for awhile now that my man has a foot fetish but is in denial. He says no that he doesn't have this fetish but his actions say otherwise...

I'm just gonna list a few of the things he does and I wanna know yalls opinion if it sounds like a fetish or just being flirty/playing with my feet for fun.

Likes to give foot rubs, will literally beg to give foot rubs.
Tries to kiss and lick my feet during sex.
Wants footjobs through clothes (like socks on the underwear) and with no clothes.
Will put my legs under him while giving oral to be able to hump the tops of my feet till he cums on them..
Cuddles my feet/ at night. (Sometimes I sleep reversed in the bed so my feet naturally end up near him).
Gives weird compliments everytime I paint my toes (I paint fingers, do other beauty thing won't receive compliments)

And like I HATE my feet being touched because they are ticklish and sensitive so anytime he does these thing it makes me scream so maybe he's trying to mess with me but I don't know this kind of seems like a fetish... but I don't get the denial part if it is since I'm very pro fetish

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

He definitely has a foot fetish , it’s a pretty common fetish for most guys’ most people in general have fetishes so some can be too extreme about it and some aren’t as extreme , I can admit I have a foot fetish as well , I wouldn’t consider myself too extreme , but it definitely turns me on , if a girl has sexy feet and she looks good wearing sexy shoes , it’s a huge turn on to me , so I guess I have both lol girls feet and girls’ sexy shoes lol I have no problem going shopping with a girl I am in a relationship with, finding her shoes , that I think she would look sexy AF in , as long as she is wearing them for me lol i don’t care if she only puts them on for a few minutes , i would so be turned on lol Now if I was wanting to jizz on her feet or shoes , or suck on her toes for a long time , I would pretty much know I had an issue and that I I definitely have a problem lol but no I don’t go that extreme , I have seen some extreme Fetish people that even makes me SMH at times , thinking WTF are they doing? There was that show on HBO called Real Sex that focused on fetishes and some of the fetishes on that show were crazy to me and made me SMH and laugh , but for each their own I guess. So my advice to you is to be honest with your man that you don’t like your feet tickled and that it does nothing for you , compromise with him and tell him the things he can and can not do to your feet , he will more Than likely compromise with you. If he doesn’t? then he doesn’t value you or appreciate you , he is only thinking of himself , tell him to go find some other girls’ feet to fuck with if he can’t control his fetish, cuz it does nothing for you and doesn't turn you on. Being honest and open to your partner as to what you like and don’t like is the best way to go , Most girls I have been with just let me do things to them that I thought they would like but really they didn’t , and I would be like well why the fuck did you let me do it then? And they would say I just wanted to make you happy , Ummm making me happy is making you happy as well , if you were doing something to me that I didn’t like I would stop you so it’s ok for you to do that to me as well, I never really understood females for doing that? Just be honest , I been with girls’ that loved anal and I been with girls that didn’t , the girls that didn’t would just let me do it and then tell me afterwards they just do it to appease me , I’m like I would tof did it at all of you told me the truth. Like come on Girls’ we aren’t fucking mind readers lol

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

See, he has foot fetish..

But the pool of foot fetish people is really cringe and weird people.. He just doesn't want to associate himself with them, because he isn't sick like they are.. Yes he loves feet but not everyone's feet and won't pay online for feet Pic..

Take it like, lot of girls have "Daddy Kink.." not every Girl who has a "Daddy Kink" actually has daddy issue, some just like because it's Spice in Sex..

If 70% of the Girls have "Daddy Kink" then only 30% of them would have serious "Daddy Issues" and only 10% would try to seduce of get in bed with their Dad or someone at age of their dad.. Remaining 60% would be in relationship with same age guy, but want to have "Daddy Kink" as part of sexual foreplay..

Same in Foot fetish, there are these 10% really messed up men, and your man doesn't want to be associated with them..

So please don't force it onto him..

And keep your feet's perfect and soft and maybe learn to meet the bottom part of your feet, create a crevase like a Vagina and let him have a go at it!..

Join them like in the pic and see how he reacts 😂😂..

Please do tell me his reaction..

Cal4576 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like a fetish. But people with a foot fetish are generally grouped as being weird/creepy to the extreme which probably makes it uncomfortable to admit

Markm3212 · Answer

haha never heard of a bigger foot fetish guy in all my life. he is definitely into foot fetish territory. if he wasn't and i am not into them. yes i would oblige if the lady asked me to, which has happened in the past. but as soon as i moved on, i never touched them again.

Billlewis · Answer

Why would a guy deny having a fetish? Look at what happens to guys who are interested in cuckoldry... lol

strateguy632 · Answer

deny because he is telling truth

Bricealan · Answer

Never understood a 'foot' fetish! Makes no sense to me, it's like having a 'breast' fetish?

I have always like nylons on a woman, and understand that is classified as a fetish, although, from what I understand about a 'fetish' is that the person cannot have sex or get an erection without the particular 'article' or thing, whatever that is is present.

Fetish is an overused and not understood term,

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have a foot fetish, and so does he.

MicroJ · Answer

He definitely has a foot fetish, as do I. I'm always checking out women's feet whether they're barefoot, wearing sandals, flip flops, or heels. He shouldn't be ashamed.

RealMarek · Answer

Sounds like it could be a fetish, but if he doesn’t want to call it that I suppose that’s fine. Maybe you could wear some sort of socks with very smooth material when you give him a foot job to keep it from tickling you.

JackCarter · Answer

Yes of course he has one! I love the first two too.. but I just found doing it cute and not fetish lol

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

This sounds like a foot fetish/ but in denial of it.

Anpu23 · Answer

Sounds like a foot fetish to me

TCredo · Answer

Sounds like he is a footie :) And as others have mentioned, I think it's one fetish that has a creep association so maybe that's at the root of his denial - coupled with your dislike of having your feet touched, he doesn't feel comfortable admitting it.

Interesting related note - I know some porn folks who produce stuff like OnlyFans and they've said many of their highest $ fans are feet folks - seems like it's something if someone is into it then they are really really into it :)

P. S. I am not a footie but... I do enjoy giving my wife foot rubs as a comforting massage type thing - and... sexually, there is this one thing that drives me wild - when I am going down on her while crouched on the floor with her at the edge of the bed, she lightly rubs her foot against my cock. It's awesome but it's not because it's her "foot" as much as how it feels and how it's an unspoken indication of how she wants to be fucked.

Kreneman · Answer

He definitely have a foot fetish and he love your feet.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I never saw the appeal. Dudes are fucken weird that have a thing for a girl’s fucken feet 🤣💀 Clean pussy, nice ass, pretty face, small waist, proportionate titties is 👌🏼

Andres77 · Answer

This is showing adoration for one he loves deeply

Mansearching · Answer

Yes. I'll give foot rubs to girlfriend, especially if she's had a bad day. It makes her relax. But i don't have a fetish.

Unit1 · Answer

That is likely due to "Foot fetish" carrying a creepy association and being told having it carries a negative aspect with it for the average lover of well maintained and exfoliated feet feeling it is sexy like nothing else.

I saw some of these "foot fetish" guys and they were one of the creepiest humans I have seen.

Huntingnfishin · Answer

If he doesn't flat out ignore your feet and pretend they don't exist he's a creepy foot guy!

Jennz6 · Answer

It’s definitely a 💯food fedish

Kinkyhubby · Answer

That is pretty much everything I try to do to my wife's s feet. And I know I love feet but they have to be cute. I don't have a foor fetishe for ugly feet

AverageNerd · Answer

He definitely has a foot fetish. If he knows you don't like having your feet touched then that could be part of the reason he's in denial. He might be worried that by telling you he has that fetish, even though you're pro-fetish, it will place you in an uncomfortable position between having to deny him so you can be comfortable or indulging the fetish at the cost of not enjoying it. Unfortunately there's also a negative stigma around foot fetishes.

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