Is This Statement About Purity Culture True Or False, According To You?

"It doesn't matter if you're a virgin, why you're one makes all the difference"

Like a lot of guys say misogynistic things and then complain how women won't screw them...
And a lot women try to find loopholes in the concept of virginity and say they wouldn't go all the way in so that they don't feel ashamed of not being one...

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  • I don't think the statement is true. Not in terms of what I believe (I'm not telling folks what they should and shouldn't do with their sexuality) but I think it does matter to a lot of people whether someone is a virgin, not just why (in fact, the why is probably irrelevant).

    • That's problematic. But to each their own.

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  • There are no loopholes in the concept of virginity.

    Also, this question's main statement is half true and half false.
    Yes, devotion to God is admirable. So if that is your reason for keeping your virginity, that is definitely a plus.
    However, even if you're a different religion or agnostic or atheist, if you are practicing abstinence on principle, it is still just as admirable.
    But if you're trying to get fucked and you just haven't found a boy to do it with, then you're just as bad and you make me sick.
    ... BUT if you're undecided and you're just trying to figure things out and you haven't decided what route to take yet, then I can work with that, as long as you are open to the idea of waiting for marriage.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

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  • Everyone is born virgin.

    Some choose to save their virginity due to principle (religious or otherwise). I think their endurance is admirable.

    Some wants sex, but cannot get it (aka INCEL). I pity such, but don't admire them.

    Some fake it. Being religious but fuck the butt hole and still claim to be virgin. I find them hypocritical.

  • I am not going to lie I used to bitter about virginity, but then I understood women have problems of their own which is why they are very selective.

    • I am just more mature and not bitter about anymore.

    • That's good.

  • There is never any good reason to be a virgin unless you are asexual and just don't care about sex. Otherwise it's just a bad reason that's stopping you from experiencing pleasure you want.

    • Security reasons

    • I'm quite the coward, it appears

    • Pay's to be a coward I suppose. But can't say much myself lol

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  • That sounds truthful

  • I think that it is false. Unless you are going to become a monk or a nun and take a lifelong vow of celibacy, the why isn't as important. Just like washing your hands after going to the bathroom. I don't care why people do it; I just care that they do do it. Also, society puts too much emphasis on sex over the actual relationship. This imbalance is what leads to incels and women that think soaking is not losing your virginity.

  • That's true.
    A person who is looking for sex but can't get laid is not necessarily a virgin in spirit

  • Is galsez purity comes from one soul, emotions and love cam be pure above everything and anything else