Guys, Is this true about vagina’s?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know how to tone this down but here it goes:

Forgive my inexperience mind in advance. I’ve only had sex once in my entire life and I was barely penetrated - just my hymen was broken, no action. I’m starting to move on from my ex. I’ve been talking to a guy and he knows that I’m not experienced. I asked him: “What if one day you don’t desire me anymore?” I asked him this because I don’t have much experience so he may find me boring in the bedroom.

His response: “I’m assuming you’re extremely tight. Once I insert my d—k inside you enough times…your vagina will mold to my d—k and would be tight enough for me specifically as your boyfriend every time.”

My question is…what if we break up? If my vajay-jay molded to his winkie…will I ever be good enough for another man? Will that make me less desirable? Will guys think I’m trash because of that? My mom always said men don’t want a woman who’s had multiple sexual partners.

[MrOracle]

There's a BIT of truth to this, but not nearly what he's talking about.

I'm going to give you a kind of "worst case scenario" here. Let's assume you're from the US (you may not be, but for this, it doesn't matter). In the US, the average penis size is 5.6" long, and 80% of men have a penis that is between 5.2" and 6.1" long. That's the VAST MAJORITY of adult men.

But let's say this guy you are talking to is one of the exceptions, and that he has a very large penis, so much that he's in the top 0.2% of men: 8" long and 5.5" in circumference. Your vagina will stretch out to accommodate him over time, but he's always going to feel huge inside you, and while the vagina is elastic, it won't "snap back" to original size completely, especially if you've been having sex with that guy a while. Now, you break up with him and you start dating an averaged-sized guy. It's definitely possible for your vagina not to feel as tight as it did before you started having regular sex with the huge guy, and the average guy isn't going to feel the same. And if the guy happens to be below-average in size - as about 10% of men will be - then that would make the problem worse.

This is a problem many "size queens" have: after they've slept with a couple of guys with huge dicks for a while, they are stretched out, and sex with normal guys isn't going to be satisfying for them. Many then end up chasing bad boys with big dicks, who often treat them badly, but it's the only way they can enjoy sex. Or, they end up using giant toys because they can't find a regular man that can please them, which is kind of sad.

As I said, that's kind of a worst-case scenario. Most guys aren't going to have huge or tiny dicks - most will be in the average range, and in that case, there's really no concern. It's the guys with huge porn cocks that could mess you up for good, so if you avoid them, then you won't have to worry about it.

[NamerOfStars]

Only if they're made of Play-Doh. Trust me, that's not how human bodies work.

Don't worry too much about being inexperienced- we all start out that way, and you'll learn as you go. Don't be afraid to try new things, and ask for feedback (I'm told guys tend to be worse about that, but sometimes it can be hard to tell whether someone enjoyed something, or was just going along for your sake; clear communication helps!).

And while it's true that guys are often leery of women with many previous partners, that's more about what that says of your loyalty (will she stick around? Will she have sex with someone else behind my back?) and your prior knowledge base (has she been guys who're far better than me?), with a heaping helping of concern for diseases (which you should make sure you're BOTH tested for before doing anything- it's not romantic and it's not sexy, but once you know you're both clean, you're free to go nuts) than of "Eugh, she's been with another guy; she's damaged goods now".

[PenkWing]

None of this is true. Vaginas are incredibly elastic. Think how you can have sex after giving birth. There is no molding or anything like that. The most that can happen is that you get used to it after a couple times, if you never had it before.

The issue here is that even if that was the case (it’s not) people shouldn’t judge you based on your sexual experience. People have sex, duh. Women have sex. So what?

[MrKinktastic]

Your vagina doesn’t change shape because of his penis. You might get used to whatever size he is but you can also get used to other men just as easily. You get used to it by stretching slightly but it goes right back just like if you stretched any other muscle in your body.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Thats bullshit, thats not how bodies work

[AndyOh]

The beauty of the vagina is that it is flexible and will shrink back to a 'normal' size. So if you and the clod who talks about his d.. k like you are his personal vagina, break up, it will go back to normal in a week or so.
It is an amazing body part and can stretch and shrink as needed.

[DonkeyDan]

It doesn't work like that, nothing about your vigina changes, only enlarges during arousal. It's very elastic and will return to its normal state after sex. This isn't anything you need to worry about and stop listening to him, he clearly doesn't know what he's talking about either.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it's not true! If it was, after you had a baby, you'd have this huge gaping hole between your legs! If you stepped outside naked on a windy day you'd hear a loud TOOOOOOOT coming from your crotch!! Like, when you blow across the top of an empty bottle.
Inside of your vagina, there are MILLIONS of very tiny folds of skin (when the head of a guys dick (his clit) rubs against those while fucking you, that's what makes us want to cum.) and they are there specifically to allow you to expand big enough to shove a baby through there. It may take a short while, hours, days, a week or two (I don't know the specs on that) but, your innards will revert back to their original shape and size with MAYBE just a LITTLE play after having been stretched out so far.
Your puss does NOT mold to his dick and stay that way forever! It will only stretch a bit to allow his dick to get into you. When he's done fucking you, your puss will go back to the shape and size it was before.
Nothing to worry about in that department.

[Jamie05rhs]

I commend you for having the foresight to consider these things before commiting an irreversible action.

I have heard that it is true. It seems to be the popular consensus as well as the medical and scientific consensus.

My advice to you is to develop a serious relationship with a serious partner before engaging in sexual activity.

[Caliguy88]

You won’t get lose. Lol. I was with a tight girl for like 8 years and we had a lot of sex…. A lot…. She was tight the whole time.

[Twalli]

The vagina is extremely elastic. Eventually his duck won't be uncomfortable or painful for you, but bigger ones might be. The vagina's tightness rarely changes throughout life though. If you have a kid it may take a month to get as tight again, but it will get there.

[Pterodon]

He’s full of shit. That doesn’t happen