VERY TRUE.
Ladies: don't let a guy "guilt trip" you into sex. Or assume you have to have sex with a person in order for them to commit to you. It doesn't work that way.
And I REALLY hate people that assume you need to put out after x amount of dates, otherwise, s/he doesn't like you.
If a guy isn't willing to wait for when you're ready and comfortable to have sex, or pressures you into it, he's not the one... he's just after sex.
If someone really wants and cares for you, they will wait until you're ready. Call me old fashioned, but I don't sleep with a guy until we're in a relationship together. By that point, ideally they're committed and willing to be with you. Because if they put in that much effort to show why you should date them, that shows me they want more than just sex.1 0 0 0If they are on a timeline they aren't really concerned about you. Does that mean they don't like you? No, right now all it means is they are so set on having sex they aren't really considering anybody but themselves.
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I don't think it's as much as they don't like you because I'm sure a part of them does but it's that they don't like you as much are as deep as you would like them to because they're being selfish annoyed thinking of themselves and in saying that.
This is also a guide to let you know exactly who the person is every day our life because if it can't wait. Then that kind of tells you how much they respect you and really care for you
I have always told girls did they should do this and watch and see what happens the guy will tell you everything about himself when he's put in this position1 0 0 0it means they do not really care for you, your feelings, your needs and your well-being
comfort and trust and respect are KEY to any and all aspects of a relationship
if they are not willing to wait is because they don't care about YOUR situation only THEIRS
but, I still think they do like you... well, they would like to get in your pants, ASAP2 0 0 1@beebella edit/update... if they have a certain time frame... and they, will subject you to it... then this is also careless in my opinion it is pretty much an expiring date... if you do not give them sex before it, the time frame is there for them to move onto someone who will give them sex, quicker
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8 33If this is the case, it means they don't really love you. Love is sacrificial, selfless and unconditional. If he/she can't wait, it's a pretty good sign they tend to be selfish and conditional in their "love." For them, their view of love is based on their conditions rather than yours. Do yourself a favor and don't invest your heart in this relationship if this continues. I've been there and I've done that. It didn't end well for both of us.
1 0 0 0Theyre probably just impatient. I think they like you just not enough to wait for you. So theyre not for me
1 0 0 0It just might mean they have different beliefs about sex.
1 1 0 0Option C. It's different for each person.
1 0 0 0Different people react differently and we can only pick what seems the best answer, realizing that the individual may have a completely different take on it.
By not willing to wait, if you mean either forcing you or leaving you, then it is probably true. But if he keeps trying to convince you but does not force you or leave you, then there is a good chance they do really like you.1 0 0 0I'd say it's more that they don't respect them.
1 0 0 1Some new relationships take time before sex happens.
1 0 0 0It may not mean they don’t like you. It does mean they don’t respect you.
1 1 0 0If the person actually cares for you and thinks your feelings are important to you and him then he should be happy to wait. I guess there are time limits for some people though. A question on here some while ago said something about a couple that had been together for 4 or 5 years and hadn't had sex yet, can't really remember the details, but I thought damn thats a long time, not sure I could wait that long.
2 0 0 0Yeah 4 or 5 years is too long in my opinion
not true we want to have sex with you from the beginning some are better at controlling this but you may wanna respect the person that doesn’t fake it for you and accepts that you may just not be the right fit at that time and move on then a man who act’s like he doesn’t want to js 🤔😂
2 0 0 0Mostly true but it depends on how long you want to wait. If she's not comfortable after a couple of months of weekly dating, I'm going to wonder if she has much of a sex drive.
2 0 0 0This could be true or not but I think that if the person you're seeing is not willing to wait for sex then he/she doesn't really care about you and your feelings
1 0 0 0Bella I think there's a lot of truth to that. The person not willing to wait is probably sexually attracted more than having any kind of meaningful connection.
😊1 0 0 1I don't know if it means they don't actually like you, but it definitely means they don't respect you. They are only thinking of their own selfish wants, and not caring whether someone is comfortable with/ready for something sexual is a BIG red flag
2 0 0 0Extremely true
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1 1 0 0Yes, this is true I would not have sex with a girl or woman to I know that things are official also I want her to be comfortable with things
1 0 0 0For me I would think it's the opposite. If I didn't like you I would stop wasting our time and move on but if I were willing to wait it's because I think your worth waiting for. At least that's my feelings on the situation
1 0 0 0They don't value you.
1 0 0 0Every relationship should be cooperative. If one is obligating the other they don't value the other as their equal.
in my opinion it means they don't respect you if they aren't willing to wait till your comfortable with it.
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