Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is trading oral for anal fair?
Anonymous
My boyfriend won't give me oral and I really want it but he really wants anal and I don't want to. I'm afraid that if I ask him for oral he'll ask me to do anal. Do you think that's fair?
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I do give him oral but he says he doesn't think he should get it since he doesn't give me oral. But I love giving oral almost as much as I love getting it. What should I say to him if he says that?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 27No it's not fair at all. You could try it and both get over it and have fun as well.
Your boyfriend doesn't know what he's missing out on
Yeah
I think it's fair 100% because you are both doing something you don't want to do. Do it once, maybe you'll like it after all
Pfft no...
Oral > anal
In a way it is.
Yes its fair.
yes.
You two are not sexually compatible. Either you respect each other and want to sexually please each other or you don't.
No. Oral for oral is fair, but anal isn't the equivalent.
Sounds fair to me
Receiving oral is something that can be reasonably expected within a relationship, anal isn't, so no not a fair swap at all. Don't let anyone ransom you like that.
It's not fair but relationships are a give and take type of thing unless you find someone that likes what you like, which is called sexually compatible but doesn't always happen
Not fair.