Is using a vibe unattractive?

My boyfriend does understand that it’s my anatomy and that many women simply just require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but i still feel kind of embarrassed that I use a vibrator during sex to come. He doesn’t seem to mind but he’s really sweet and could just be pretending not to care so that I feel better. Im wanting other peoples opinions because Im just curious and I do wonder how many guys feel about this but I also would like maybe some recommendations? I have two sex toys, the rose vibrator and a small wand. The rose is kind of difficult to incorporate into sex because you have to hold it in a certain position as the external area isn’t what vibrates. The wand is easier to use during partnered sex, what positions would you (preferably girls for this one) recommend? Thanks
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  • no, not at all.
    If you don't have a happy ending why get naked and all sweaty in the first place?
    My wife has her favorite one, and when she is tied to the bed it is a lot of fun to make her keep cumming and cumming.
    She can't really get away from it, and after 3 or so orgasms she really isn't in any kind of position to put up much of a fight anymore, and she is always good for a couple more.
    Also during sex it can be used during intercourse to enhance her pleasure, and it feels good to me as well.
    My theory is the better sex is for her, the more often she will want to have it.
    Kind of a win win.

    • My clit would be numb by then 😂

    • but it would be a good numb!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some guys take offense to it, some think its hot. If he hasn't gotten upset with you yet, he probably either finds it hot or is indifferent and wants you to get the most out of it.

  • No and I wouldn’t want to be with a guy that gets weird over toys…

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  • I wouldn't have any problem with that. Have you considered getting him to use a vibrating cock ring with clitorial stimulator, that way he is still part of your achieving your orgasm.
    Something like this
    Rabbit cock ring

    • well it’s not that he isn’t part of the orgasm bc he still would be, i love getting fucked by him. i just can’t come from that alone

  • Hell no. A woman using a toy us HOT! Doesn't matter if it's with me or on her own. I love it when a woman pleasures herself.

  • Absolutely not! Go for it, and don't skimp on cheap models. Look at toys like the Hitachi Magic Wand. Or if you really want to splurge, get a Sybian. Thank me later.

  • It's fine, he should understand :) Tell him to start licking it though, that might work too.

  • I think you're too young to not only be having sex, but having a boyfriend as well

    • i’m 17…

    • Yeah, TOO YOUNG

    • you’re crazy if you think 17 year olds that have sex are abnormal

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  • I find it hot to use toys while having sex, it enhances things and can get quite fun, especially when she has nothing to say about how I use the wand on her for example 🔥💦👅😋

  • It is so hot when there is a vibratory involved.

    You can feel the orgasm so strong and you are not stressed about cumming too soon and the girl not getting off.

    You could always try a vibrating cocktail ring - slides down the base of the shift and the vibration are sits on your clit.

    Missionary or face down (spatula) works great with a vibrator

  • Quite the opposite tbh

  • doggy

  • Not a turnoff but you can try toys he can use with you. Like a vibrating penis ring. Which can both help him last longer and you to orgasm quicker.

  • Don't know
    Never used one

  • My SO occasionally likes to use a wand style vibrator during especially in doggy style or cowgirl and it never bothers me. It feels good to me too. My SO also likes it if I use it on her while I eat her.
    If you want to take a BJ to the next level, put the tip of his dick in your mouth and use a vibrator on the shaft. When my SO does this I squirt cum into her mouth in no time. Keep the vibrator going until he finishes then swallow. Some guys can't handle the intensity of a vibrator on their dicks so start slow if you decide to try it.

    • That vibrator on my dick would definitely make me cum so fast