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Is virginity still a valuable possession for a girl to have?

In a world where experience is so overhyped, do virgins still excite men? They are tight in the right area so?
Is virginity still a valuable possession for a girl to have?
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  • For me personally, she doesn't have to be a virgin, but I would actually prefer it if she was. I don't want one night stands or sex friends. I want a serious adult relationship with a future. I would really appreciate it if I was the one who taught her about sex and how good it can feel with a guy who actually cares about her. I also find inexperienced girls pretty cute because I get to be the first and possibly only man to ever touch her. But finding a virgin over the age of 21 is highly uncommon nowadays with people trying to lose it as soon as possible. My first time was with a girl that didn't love me and it was a one night stand. I was 18 and my friends pressured me to lose my metaphorical virginity with a girl they knew. I ended up leaving after only 30 minutes because she didn't actually want to have sex with me, she just wanted sex, she didn't give a shit about me and neither did I about her. I didn't enjoy it and I couldn't cum. It meant nothing, it was pointless. I ended up feeling like crap afterwards. I need more than just a pretty face. I need her to care about me and want only me. Sex isn't about getting off for me, I can do that just fine on my own. It is how I show a woman I love her. It means I am claiming her as mine. Of course I'm probably in the minority of guys that feel that way. I think it really depends on the guy. Some guys only care about sex and want a women who is experienced. Others would like being the one to guide her through her first time.

  • Is virginity still a valuable possession for a girl to have?
    *Absolutely.
    In a world where experience is so over hyped, do virgins still excite men?
    *Yes, but there is a responsibility to go with her.
    They are tight in the right area so?
    *A vagina does not lose tightness except from some childbirth. A hymen is a temporary obstruction.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys love virgins for the reason that they aren't sluts and that they get to be the first ones in there.

  • like your sexuality in general, It only has "value" if its given to someone you care about.

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  • I guess it depends on the level of brainwashing in certain cultures.

  • Does it matter? Making men happy shouldn’t be your goal. Making yourself happy should.

    • It’s not my goal but I’m just asking out of genuine curiosity. Also, there is nothing wrong with making the RIGHT man happy.

  • Sure, if a girl is a virgin is the best proof for her not being a slut. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex

  • the value of that only lies in her own opinion, doesn't matter what men think

  • I have never thought of a virginity as important or valuable.
    Never had "loose pussy" before...

  • Virginity and body count have zero value to me.

  • I don't believe the tight thing matters as much as being first.. as weird as it may seem.. there is something that is a turn on to be the first one to get inside.

  • no, not at all and actually it's a negative thing to have.

    • Why?

  • virginity isn't a possession. it's not something you can give away to someone. the girl i had sex for the first time with doesn't have anything now that i don't have anymore.

    • It’s called a first time. It’s called a hymen. It’s called you tore it.

    • yeah it's called a first time. there's a first time for everything. do you lose something when you ride a bike the first time? you as so many people have not been properly educated on human biology. i'm not blaming you. this is really outdated shit that a lot of people still think is true because sex is such a tabu topic in our society. hymens "can" break during sex. it's not like popping a soda can where that happens 100% of the time. but not every time a hymen breaks it's because of sex and not every hymen will break during sex. some never break. actually in the vast majority of cases, bleeding during sex is a sign of you doing it wrong. a big chunk of people don't even know that the vast majority of hymens are not even blocking the vaginal path so much that a tear would occur if the sex wasn't overly rough or rushed. in the majority of cases where the hymen is so restrictive, it most likely tore way before sex. for example during exercise, or general movement. i know that sounds weird but it's true and that makes most of the outdated myths about first sex that we still hold in society utter bullshit :)

    • @genericname85 the first time having sex is different than just the first time riding a bike.

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  • Getting the chance to open the eyes of a virgin does really excite me. I've never had one. Looking for an over 18 to volunteer.

  • It should be. I'm a guy and I value mine.

  • I think so, in my opinion!
    What do you think on MEN with their Virginity these days?

    • I admire it as long as they’re not nerdy and ugly. I don’t admire fuckboys regardless - virgin or not. A high body count would make me rethink the relationship

    • That's a good point! Well said.

  • So is a nonvirgin. The vagina is elastic so having sex doesn't loosen you up. I guess the appeal of virginity outside of religious reasons is that the guy is the first person the woman trusted enough to have sex. It's a pretty big ego boost

    • Well it is true that some pussies are looser than others. Not all have the same amount of tightness

    • I am saying that virginity is independent of tightness. Granted if you've given birth recently or frequently, you may be a, bitclooser than you were, but a penis and the length of penetrative sex isn't long enough to loosen it, nor is a dick thick enough.

    • Ok so are you trying to tell me that just because I’m a virgin and have a really tight pussy (one finger fits snug, no more can fit) that doesn’t mean every virgin is the same and there are looser virgins? So it depends on genetics now?

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  • It depends on how she carries herlself

    • Herself

  • Not any more, BUT, A girl shouldn’t have sex with a guy right away or else he might think that she does that all the time

  • because you think non virgins are not tight? you do know the vagina is stretchy so it can stretch and come back to its original size + it has muscles so you can tighten it...

    • I’m not saying ALLL non virgins are not tight but I’m saying compared to virgins there are more non virgins that aren’t gonna be tight. That’s just a fact. The first time will always be extremely fucking tight.

    • yeah and painful as well because of the Hymen...

    • Ur just a little sissy

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  • Not really. Traditional relationships are in decline and men are dropping out of dating in hoards so, sex and women in general are largely losing value in the eyes of many men.

    • Ummmmm... someone gets rejected lol

    • Yup. That exact type of ignorant ass response is why y'all are in decline.

    • U an incel

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  • It should be valuable to men and women but our society demonizes people who don't believe in certain forms of fornication.

    • Fornication?

    • Sex outside of marriage, whether premarital sex, extramarital sex.

  • it is.

    • Why so?

    • it shows she's smart, has morals and values-and self-respect.

  • Vaginal tightness has nothing to do with it, women aren't loose because they have had sex, it's a muscle and comes back to original in a bit of time.
    That being said, I think there are men that feel the same way and value a woman that saves themselves for one man.

    • Virgins are guaranteed to be the tightest of the tightest when you penetrate them because that muscle hasn’t been touched ever.

    • Actually the more you use a muscle the stronger and tighter it gets, not only that the vaginal floor gets stronger as well. Many people assume porn stars are loose, but their vaginas are so strong they could grip a dick and almost rip it off, due to working it out constantly. A virgin vagina hasn't had the workout and would not be nearly as strong. This is a common misconception about virgins being tighter etc.

    • Well I cannot even fit 2 fingers in there so I can guarantee you for a fact I’m tight.

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