Is wanking off to Porn considered cheating? Why so?

[Anonymous]

My opinion on it is that it isn't considered as cheating. If it's mutual then its better. Both parties should be willing to be ok with it. Ofcourse booking up with others etc is off limits.

I feel its ok as it helps let out sexual tension sometimes or just takes away the effort of having sex. (to make time and have the proper environment and person)

On the other hand, I feel it is bad if people make snarky comments by comparing their ex to the actor/actress or make their partner feel less special, loved both in the realm of sex and the relationship itself. What are your thoughts on this? I'm curious

No right or wrong answers here. Could you mention where you're from too if possible (you can answer anonymously not a problem)

[SueShe]

If you are in a relation and you manipulate your body to induce those pathetic spasms while watching pornographic content WITHOUT the knowledge or unconditional approval of your partner, then you indeed cheat emotionally on your partner. No but or if.

The reason is that while you watch those perverted porn clips, you are not thinking of your girlfriend but you actually put yourself in the role of the perpetrator of this movie. That is enough to justify that you are emotionally cheating on your girlfriend since you also do it against her approval or consent.

[Creampiekarl420]

It’s porn not reality facts don’t care about your feelings

[4eyes2mouths]

It's up to you and your partner to decide what is considered cheating in your own relationship. I mean I've been with women that say it is cheating and then I've been with other women that say it's not cheating and then other women where they're like only if we watch it together is it okay.

[josephinelcajon]

If you are not focused on the person and just masturbating I do not see it as cheating. If you are focusing on the person, It interferes with your relationship, You prefer the porn over your partner then yes it is cheating!

[DonkeyDan]

I don't consider it cheating as no other physical person is interactively involved.

[Dargil]

No because it is not interactive.

[AviatorTom]

I don't consider it cheating. Some women I've known don't like it when their guy masturbates to porn, but even though don't consider it cheating.

[UniquelyBasic]

Talk to your partner about it as they may see it another way. Sometimes its not that deep and you need to get off. Not a big deal in my eyes as long as its done with respect to your partner and not used to compare her to porn actors in a degrading way.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, in the same sense that playing a video game where you kill the opposing team is not the same as murder. You aren't actually interacting with anyone sexually or romantically when you watch porn, so it's not cheating.

Now if you are personally soliciting/communicating with a cam whore or some other person online in a sexual manner, that is cheating.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to your partner about it

[Twalli]

I don't think so. It's really not even something you should care about until someone begins choosing porn over sex.

[In_Trance]

Ask your partner

[michael1469]

Its suppose to add to your days on earth... at this point... i am immortal...

[Anonymous]

Fuck no.

If fantasy is cheating than every female cheats when they watch chick flicks, read 50 shades trash, jerk off to the “force fucked by a stranger” fantasy that 70% of them have. Etc.

[Anonymous]

Nobody considers porn cheating unless it's a video of your ex or someone you know. Unless she wakes me up with head and have sex 3 times daily, porn is always going to be necessary. Just don't watch it behind her back because sexual things should be shared with your girl

[Anonymous]

It's not cheating. You're not actually having sex with the porn stars. It's can be fun to watch with your SO and masturbate together, or do whatever's happening on screen.