Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?

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Too many potential partners have either already done it (and the thought turns me off to the point i never wanna put their dick in my mouth) OR they obsess over the thought of trying it. Wheres the guys who just dont want anal? 🤣🙌😂
Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?
I have done anal and love it
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Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?
I have done anal but didn't like it
Vote B
Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?
I have not done anal but want to
Vote C
Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?
I have not done anal and dont want to
Vote D
Is your partner wanting to do/not wanting to do anal a dealbreaker for you?
I dont care for anal but like anal fingering
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  • If a woman wants to try anal she is not for me.
    It means she watches porn, reads smut, or has done it in the past.
    If I wanted to fuck an asshole, I would just be gay and commit sodomy all the time.
    Pussy>Anus

    • For starters, i watch porn but im not into anal and find it disgusting. And yea i do see anal as pretty gay

    • Thanks for the mho!

  • i dont like the idea of anal , if it was meant to be penetrated it would not smell like crap , that should tell you its not a good idea XD

    • I fully agree 🤣

    • Quiet a sensible evaluation 👏

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  • Wanting to do anal is a complete dealbreaker for me. If you were supposed to do that what would be the point of your vagina? An extra hole? I never want to think of doing anal and putting that same pipe into my vagina. That screams yeast infection to me. Plus I would be concerned about his mental state, why would you want to put your genitalia into the same whole that shit comes out of... like my guy😂😂 what the hell is wrong with you? You have two holes already... choose one and stfu. But hey, some people are into that stuff, and I will never understand that. I won't judge, I'll just politely decline and cut all ties.

    • I’d think he's slick gay

    • @dizzydesii Same XD

  • I've been having anal sex for decades without incident or health issue. I love it and it would be a show stopper if she told me it's off limits. I suspect that as you get older and gain a lot of sexual experience, you'll come to be at least curious but for now, it's a no go for you.

    • I've experienced it and it wasn't by choice. Im not into it and even if that didn't happen to me, i wouldn't be into it

    • I get that. I'm sorry you were raped up the ass. That can't help but reinforce your resistance to taking it up the ass.

    • Anal sex is so easy for men anyway lol...

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  • It took my last boyfriend in my third relationship to get comfortable with the thought of anal and come to enjoy anal sex. Took awhile into the relationship, some convincing and trust, a few trials and attempts. It isn't something I personally ask for, and was definitely something I opened up to (pun intended!) for wanting to please the boyfriend more than my personal desire/curiosity. I have received some euphoric and awesome orgasms through anal. But I do prefer vaginal sex.

    • Ahh i see

  • Anal can be good, but it's not so amazing that it's a deal breaker if we don't do it.

  • No anal ever with this girl

    • Ikr lol

  • I fucked a partner in the ass once. That was before on-line porn, so I wasn't influenced by the current fascination with anal. We were both in our mid-30s, I had had lots of girlfriends since the time I was 16, and the idea had never even occurred to me until then. My partner was uninhibited and super sexual. We had amazing sex once or twice and day and sometimes for hours at a time.

    So, one time, I was taking her from behind and was getting carried away in the moment. She had a gorgeous ass and a cute butt hole. As she orgasmed, I couldn't get enough and wanted to fill her completely. I pressed my thumb against her anus and said, "OK?" She indicated yes, so I pressed my thumb inside, wishing I would fill all her holes at once. I started wondering what it would be like to fuck her there. I asked if she would be okay with it and she said yes. So I put on a condom, lubed up, and entered her. She acted like the entry was a strain, but once I was inside, she took it. I have no idea if she had been fucked in the ass before.

    The idea was erotic. It felt good, but not as good as her wet, orgasmic pussy. Again, it was more like a desire to fill her completely in every way possible. But I have an aversion to poop, so the idea of anal, for me, is just a little bit off putting and distracting. Plus, it seems kinda gay.

    Anyway, that was it. I came but I never asked her again and she didn't act like it was something she desired.

    Although, sometime later, I discovered her vibrating dildo. It was a bullet-shaped cylinder, maybe 6" long and under 1 1/2" in diameter, large enough to hold an AA battery. So, we were having doggy-style sex another time, I was looking down at her unusually pretty butt hole, and got the idea of filling it with that dildo while I fucked her. Now THAT turned out to be amazing. The sensation was indescribable and she orgasmed like crazy. After that, we wound up doing it occasionally. It satisfied my occasional desire to fill all her holes and once and to completely fill her up.

    In answer to your question, it would absolutely not be a deal breaker for me if a woman didn't want to get fucked in the ass. I wouldn't pressure her. I wouldn't even have much of a desire to do so and probably wouldn't even ask. If we were having a conversation and she expressed a desire, I would accommodate her, but it wouldn't be something I would want to do regularly. If she craved it, I'm not even sure if I would want to continue being with her. There is so much more fun involved in fucking an orgasmic pussy.

    I think guys these days are obsessed with the idea because it's prevalent in porn. I think anal sex is unsanitary. I wouldn't do it without a condom and the fact that you need to use lube indicates how unnatural it is. I don't know. Does it give guys a greater sense of dominance? And, as I said, there is a certain gayness about it in my mind.

    But these are only my own thoughts on the subject. I'm not judging others.

    • What made you try it without having seen porn

    • I already tried to explain why. I was mostly psychological. But there was also some curiosity. I wouldn't have been disappointed if she had said no and I wouldn't have asked again.

  • I don’t know. Not really a dealbreaker for me. But I do believe in trying everything once.

    • Shoot not me 🤣

  • Its not my favorite, but if Hubby wants to do that I will normally let him.

  • An ex wanted to try and it was nice but its not a deal breaker for me. Its great but not as great as vaginal sex

    • Yea the vagina is whereb its meant to go

    • Sometimes its fun tobput things where they don't belong. Like pineapple on pizza lol. I do agree with you though.

  • I find it weird because I find it icky but at the same time in some VERY HORNY moments I find myself wanting to experiment with someone I'm with or by myself but in the post-nut clarity I'm horrified by what I was thinking ahahah but usually it never comes up while jerking off only when I'm having sex

  • No it's not a deal breaker if she wants it I will do it if she doesn't like it I respect that in hopes she respect I want nothing up my ass lol

  • I don't see the point, doing anal with her, especially since she has the most perfect parts that I ADORE, for natural loving!!
    Some want to try, and a few enjoy, being the 'dominant' and loving a man, anally.
    Some guys do it, some tolerate it, and other love it, and they share a special relationship!

    • Yea im not into anal

  • Done it but not a big fan.
    If I was with a woman who wanted it I'd oblige but it's not my first choice.

  • My answer didn't fit any options good enough.
    I like anal sex, but it isn't something I must have from a woman. If we are together a while, it comes up and she's down? Great. If it's a no go for her that's fine too.

    • Yea i mentioned the poll wasn't related to the question

    • I missed that, it's not important.

  • Personally I'm curious enough to want to try it but not enough to make it a pivotal choice in my relationship.
    If she doesn't want it I won't insist but I will definitely make an attempt just to see where she stands.

    • Alright

  • It would be very disappointing to be In a serious relationship and not even try it once, at least give it a shot 1 time before saying you dont like it. It could be a deal breaker if it's just like a short term relationship

    • Yea well some of us tried and it wasn't by choice. So no i dont like it

    • Hey I get that, not trying to argue, your body your choice and the guys got to except it or leave, just saying I want to try it is all

  • It is not a requirement from either of us, we just enjoy it when we do do it. Missionary anal is my favourite.

    • That sound hard to do lol but i rather not hear the deets 🤣

    • Very easy to do, and less stressful

    • Missionary anal is also our favourite it works like a charm, so natural. Her juices simply runs down keeping us well lubricated as I thrust in and out.

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  • Not a deal breaker at all, but it's kinky and nice to do occasionally, even if it's just a finger or small toy. I honestly wouldn't want someone to do something for my pleasure that would hurt them (other than in a 'nice' way, like a bit of hair pulling if they were into that, etc), however if they're open to using or at least trying a plug or super slim/small vibrator, it USUALLY means (IMHO) that they are a little less sexually inhibited, and more adventurous. That's a rule of thumb (no pun!) not empirical fact, and is just in my experience. Those girlfriend's I've had who did enjoy it always said that it gave them the best orgasms when they were able to have either a cock or a plug in the butt, and could rub their clit while getting stim from the other two holes as well. When it went well, they both made enough bloody noise to wake the dead, and had legs shaking and shuddering afterwards etc. Happy (pre covid!) days!!!

  • Its not necissarily a deal breaker but i will be miserable if she won't consider it.

  • I've yet to do anal but I'd be open to it... It depends on the wants... Overall it seems a little messy but I guess if both are aggressive about being clean before it would help. Also making sure their bowels were comfortable too 😂

    • There's nothing worse than poo poo on your dipstick

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