Isn't this guy creepy? What do you think of someone like that?

[Lothlorien77]

So, I know this guy, who lies about his age on online forums to lure much younger women in (and says he's 42 instead of 55). His excuse is that no women would be interested in him, if he confessed his actual age.

He also seems to be interested in much younger, barely legal women than him and calls most women past their late 20s, ugly hags and cougars, even very beautiful women, like Natalie Portman, Monica Bellucci, Adriana Lima, Margot Robbie

[TonyV]

Well if telling women he's 55 makes them ignore him what do you expect him to do?

I don't like liars but in today's toxic dating game that's the only way out guys get girls to give them a chance. Hrs just playing the game, don't hate the player hate the game.

Maybe if women would just except men as they are there wouldn't be so many liars. The dudes just adapting to the unrealistic expectations women have set.

Aren't women always going on about having a type? Why you gonna shame him cause is type is early 20s? How is an age preference any worse than having a hight preference of 6 foot or more?

[Demarco67]

You can't be serious. Lying about something so important like your age, is always wrong, dishonest and unethical. Also, the fact he's pushing 60 and he's calling women 20-25 years younger than him, but wants to date girls young enough to be his daughter or granddaughter, shows that he's shallow in his preferences and creepy in my opinion

[Anonymous]

The young girls he wants will see no difference between 42 and 55 because they are both just old. He shouldn't lie about his age because girls with daddy issues won't care that much. Why doesn't he just find a girl who aged well? Ask him what he thinks about Shauna Rae

[Demarco67]

That girl has some medical disease, so she looks like a kid. I can't believe you're using her as an example, of someone who has aged well. Plus she's only 22. Ageing starts in your late 20s, not at that age.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

There’s a lot of people like that, and they are indeed creepy, and I think they shouldn’t lie.

[Cherry234]

Yes, definitely creepy. It's even worse that he lies about his age by 13 years.

[KolonKby]

Ew, creepy

[Dargil]

Simple answer: Yes.

[Agagagagaga]

Um... why the fuck do you care?

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Uh... wait a minute... who told you I do that?
Nah. Just kidding. That is creepy

[sirderpsalot123]

Very creepy

[Valso]

I smell double standards here. So if a 23 yo girl goes after a 55+ yo old man, that's perfectly OK but if a 55+ yo man goes after a 23 yo girl - that's creepy?

[Reeva80]

Where exactly did OP say that she goes after 55 y. old men, or that she considers this ok? Besides, lying about your age is always dishonest. Period.

[Valso]

@Reeva80 You women do it all the time. Again - a double standard. And I was referring to young women in general who go after old men (who are always filthy rich), not specifically to the OP.

[Reeva80]

@valso That's a generalization and overstatement. Most women prefer guys close to their own age or slightly older (3-5 years) than them. Statistics show that the majority of couples are approx the same age, or the man is slightly older than the girl. Couples with 10 year age gaps are rare, let alone 20 and 30 years. I wish I could post links here, but I'm only level 1

[Valso]

@Reeva80 Maybe. But the topic here is about age differences. The OP says a 55 yo guy going after barely legal women is creepy, so I ask how come a barely legal woman going after an old guy is not creepy. I've never heard a guy saying that about women but women do say that ("creepy") about old guys going after young women - just like what the OP wrote in the title. That smells like a double standard to me.

[Mangospacho]

That is creepy. Like 42 makes someone sound young.

[888theGreat]

this guy will always be 13 years younger than he is on here until he dies.

[pizzalovershouse]

Sounds like he lies to get sex

[driven159]

he lies about his age like both sexes do online this is the problem with online dating sites

[jimmy2]

Lying is alway my dear breaker

[Reeva80]

In my opinion, yes.
It is also wrong and unethical to lie about your age.. That's like catfishing

[Anonymous]

I know who he is. He has a lot of IRON like MAN in him. He likes them young. Little girl on little girl , then they please Daddy.

[Anonymous]

It's really none of your business unless he is contacting you. No one should lie about their age but younger women like older guys anyways, like it or not. And when you're 50 you will be called a cougar.

[Anonymous]

The dude is a fool! I'm 58 and found a 27 year old that I absolutely adore, who's crazy about me. It's possible. It happens. There's NO need to lie.

[Anonymous]

He sounds weird.
There's also a woman here who presents as 34, but messages in private wanting to give guys nude massages. Then she admits she's 54, then she asked how I would feel if she was actually 60? Lol.

[sirderpsalot123]

Was the user starfish or something like that?

[Lothlorien77]

Would this happen to be a user named Jezzie bel or something? Her profile says she's 34, but she looks kinda older than that

[Opinion Owner]

@sirderpsalot123 I don't want to say her name, but she has a habit of following guys right away. In the past she always asked me really weird questions about how I'd feel if I had a 14 year old and he was having sex with a neighbor lady in her 50's? I just ignored her. Just recently she was trying to get me to meet her for a nude massage, then she started admitting that she's older and older. I'm not gonna let her follow me anymore.

[Cherry234]

Wow that's one wacky lady for sure. Like I said before, there are a lot of catfishes and crazy people on here. You're definitely better off unfollowing her. I still ask myself where all these crazy people come from.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cherry234 Yeah there's also some guy who seems to follow me every time I come back to gag. He either asks me some creepy question about his sisters molesting him, or his mom getting assaulted everday she walks home from work because of her big boobs, and what would I do? I just learn to ignore these strange followers. I'm not sure what game they're playing, but I'm not interested. Another weird one was a 15 year old girl who was trying to talk to me. I really didn't want to talk to her and I was glad when that conversation ended.

[Cherry234]

@Anon Yeah there are always going to be those random wackos. I especially find that 15 year old girl trying to talk to you inappropriate.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cherry234 Yes, she sent me a message because apparently I liked one of her comments somewhere. I was trying to be nice so I explained to her that I have a son her age. I talked to her a little bit about how to play the guitar because she seemed interested. Then she started saying weird things like "I sing my best in the shower." I just stopped talking to her right there and never replied again.

[Cherry234]

That's good. Continue to ignore her.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cherry234 Yeah, it was on my old account so I'm likely not going to run into her again. Now I set it so people have to follow me first, and I can avoid getting messages from randoms. I imagine it's so much worse for the women here.

[Cherry234]

@Anon Yes it is really bad for women. I've had randoms message me and one of them was creepy. I restrict messages for only people I follow to message me too.