Isn’t this super weird?

[ColeBrighton2]

Maybe it’s just me but I have always been very weirded out by the “oh I just think it looks better” argument about circumcision. Especially from moms, like you’re never really going to see your sons penis past a young age so why should your preference about it’s appearance really matter, y’know? Is it just me lmao?

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe guys have a preference but obviously didn’t get to make the choice. Same with girls in a way. Some of us have neatly tucked away lips and others have inner lips that stick out. You get what you’re dealt 🤷‍♀️

[ColeBrighton2]

I get that 😂 I’m just saying I find it weird that it’s an argument parents use to change their child’s genitals. If that makes sense, I mean it’s a whole procedure for boys so I don’t think girls vulvas are 1:1

[PrettyPriya]

I guess that is my point. We don’t even get a choice. Not that you did as an individual but someone had a choice, even if you view it as the wrong one 😉

[ColeBrighton2]

Well that’s fair but could you see how you might feel uncomfortable if say, your father got to choose how you looked down there? I’m assuming you agree with the practice? Which is fine by the way, I’m not here to start anything just looking for people to talk to about it lol

[PrettyPriya]

Yeah, I suppose it is weird to make the decision. Maybe just leave them natural just like girls have to be 🤷‍♀️

[ColeBrighton2]

Haha well I’m not sure either, but thanks for answering!

[ColeBrighton2]

What’s your opinion on the whole matter? Do you care if a guy is cut or no?

[PrettyPriya]

Nope. Not at all.

[ColeBrighton2]

Ah I see I’ve found some people are pretty adamant about it on here and some moms who really care about it being done to their son 🤷‍♂️ Strange huh? Least you don’t have a dog in this race lol

[PrettyPriya]

I really don’t care either way. It is more important that he know how to use it correctly than what it looks like.

[ColeBrighton2]

Yeah I agree with you, for a partner it’s much more important that they know what their doing I don’t know why people make that descision for their kids tho, that’s always been strange to me

[loves2learn]

It is a strange argument coming from a mother. From a father maybe. Or for heath reasons or religious. But you are right that is strange.

[ColeBrighton2]

Yeah I’m in agreement I mean both parents is a little odd, but from moms especially, like your not gonna see it really so why does your preference matter

[loves2learn]

From the dad it makes sense for a few reasons. Like he is happy his parents did it, he wants his son to look like him in the shower, that sort of thing.

[ColeBrighton2]

Yeah I mean I can kinda see that, but still you’ll only shower with them for so long, and weirdly it’s mostly moms I’ve seen use the argument

[loves2learn]

True. But think about it. Man is circ’d he likes it. He is proud of his penis. He wants his son to look like him. I have heard the same about uncirc’d.

[darkvsbright]

To me, one isn't going to see it so ya why so bothered about a penis yes.

[ColeBrighton2]

Well I mean still, it’s one thing to be proud of your penis but I mean is it really better to get your son to look like you when it requires blades to snip off some skin right when he’s born

[loves2learn]

There is the cleanliness argument too. Which I know is bunk. But many parents do it it with good intentions.

[darkvsbright]

Honestly Id be weirded out if they were that like appearance like they would never see it erect or not so to me it's creepy to be obsessed with appearance.

[loves2learn]

I see little boy erections every day. Won’t see them when they are grown hopefully

[darkvsbright]

It's one thing to realize a son at say 15 is having ejaculations and all but to be interested in what it looks like the penis is creepy. Id be VERY disturbed if I had a parent like that.

[loves2learn]

Nope. I would not need to see that

[darkvsbright]

It's like a parent saying they want to touch it or see it. It's normal for my hand wrapped around it and see it, not a parent ofcourse.

[ColeBrighton2]

I mean I can see that the cleanliness argument is coming from a good hearted place but at the same time, it’s blades to your babies genitals. I don’t know it’s just hard for me to understand

[Brianbrake]

I have heard that from many women but never from my mother. Yes, super weird that your mother told you that

[ColeBrighton2]

It’s weirdly not so uncommon as you might think I’ve seen a lot of mothers on here use the same reasoning

[LisaAnn34]

No I don’t think it’s weird, only natural for a mom to make sure her son looks his best!

[ColeBrighton2]

I’m not sure lmao it seems so weird to me that it’s importantnto some moms to get their sons a “designer” penis