It is possible to know if you are sexually compatible before having sex?

I know it’s a weird question but what if you want to wait to get married to have sex, is there sign that show that you are sexually compatible or not with your boyfriend?
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  • No I don't think so not reliably. You might determine if you're incompatible though so it's worth trying.

    I'd start with how often each of you masturbates and whether it's heavily impacted by stress/being busy or not. Then into what sort of things seem hot vs not, whether you think romantic sex is good, more vanilla more kinky. What sort of acts you're excited about and not.

    honestly I suspect that will tell you a fair bit. The hard part is you won't be identical but you're in love and you may both think you're happy to adapt and compromise and the compromise sounds good.

    compromise is important but in the long run people seem to find it very hard to cheerfully compromise too much in sex. They need to be in the same range on these issues.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you are both sexually experienced in previous relationships, you could discuss your preferences, turn-ons, and off-limits areas. If either of you is inexperienced, you are less likely to know what will turn you on and what will not and talking about t could be rather pointless.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If the chemistry is there it’s likely you are sexually compatible, but only one way to find out.

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  • Ok well there is but now I have questions for you,, do you have foreplay do you engage in any type of sexual foreplay at all if you do and I can tell you how you can figure all this out send me a message and I would be glad to help you this is one of the best better questions I have answered so I think you for and I think a lot of people will to

  • No, you just have to live with bad sex. It's the price you pay for that decision. Can't have it both ways

  • Honestly no there is not thats why I couldn't marry someone beforehand u could try other stuff in theory but it would never be as clear as having sex and knowing

  • Firstly Small dick is a no

  • nope. there's a few pointers you can look for. but generally you are not able to predict sexual compatibility before you try it out. it's just like buying a car. you can follow all the advice and still end up buying a dud. or you can study an opponent for years, and still lose the fight. such is life.

  • Yes, it is possible. When you "click" you can feel it.

    • Click?

    • You never felt that you guys just... understand each other after a very short period?

    • Yes it’s actually what is happening

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  • Nope

  • There's no way to know

  • Yes definitely

  • How well do you communicate? This is the best indicator you have for compatibility

    • We talk about everything

    • Do you understand each other? Do you empathize?

    • Yes we do, it’s the first time for me that I feel so connected with someone

  • Absolutely not!

  • Actually no.

  • No there is no sign