It really hurts when he thrust so fast?

[Anonymous]

I hate rough intercourse. I'm into slow and passionate but he likes to thrust very fast and deep. I feel like he is jackhammering me and I really don't like it, it is painful. I have told him many times to slown down and he does but after a while he starts going fast again. He puts me on top because of this and so I can decide which is great until he takes over and starts going fast and even starts spanking me!! We're not getting anywhere with this and last time we had intercourse we got angry at each other for not getting along. He has made it clear that he does not want to hurt me and he does not want to do it if I find it painful, we'll simply stop and that's no big deal to him but whenever we do have intercourse this is what happens. What's wrong with slow and passionate intercourse seriously? And what's up with the spanking? I don't know what to do. I feel like we can't have intercourse.

[Chirinéonmä]

He is in a hurry to get to the end of the trip instead of enjoying the trip itself. Why do some people go the interstate instead of the scenic route?

He has probably always used hurried masturbation to get relief and is using that same timing now. You should talk to him when you are not engaging in sex.

That's just satisfaction for him, he couldn't care less about you, if you want a boyfriend, find a real man, one that cares about you too, and take pride in yourself, don't let yourself be fodder.

Jungle love gets boring after a while.

Wishing you the best of luck.

[Jxpxtxr]

Sounds like you're on completely different evens sex wise. But you like what you like and I don't think you can change your kinks so easily so if you're sexually incompatible only a break up and finding a partner who's more into the same things as you sexually can solve that problem.

[candi12]

Fast thrusting can be really pleasurable but it's tends to be what certain guys like to do... I think it's can be a way of controlling with their cock

[dovido]

well u need to explain to him that its painful for u only when he thrusts fast and deep.. so u can't have sex like that and if he doesn't wanna say goodbye to his sexlife, he should listen to u. be open with him, its alyas good. it took my girlfriend too long to tell me these things, and since then she doesn't regret being open with me =)

[Anonymous]

I think... this isn't going to work out.

Basically you can't have satisfying sex for him. He could have slow intercourse for you, then you could give him fast hand stimulation, and he'd probably find that crappy, plus the spanking means its not just the stimulation level, it's the overall sex style. You two are a bad, bad match.

[Asker]

I don't mind a bit of fast thrusting but he is jackhammering me. I don't see how anyone can find that pleasurable.

[Berethor]

You might miss it then you both would get older, your boyfriend is having a lot of energy.

[Mesonfielde]

You should spank him hard so that he knows it hurts like a bitch

As for the other one, just say "that HURTS"

[mojo_jojo]

I like slow too and my girl likes fast n hard. If you really care tell him after a few drinks. or take control and do everything real slow.

[Anonymous]

He is probably just that way and you can't really change the way one thrusts during sex.

I know I for one can't do shallow thrusting at all.

[Anonymous]

He's a natural porn star if you ask me

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's trying to turn it into porn. He needs to be considerate of you too