It's not that women have a higher sex drive. It's that men aren't letting us finish.

It's not that women have a higher sex drive.  It's that men aren't letting us finish.

I'm expanding on this a bit from a comment I heard Louis C.K. make that applies to questions I've seen some men ask here. Louis C.K. pointed out to men who are like, "Why won't she leave me alone after I cum?" that it is because she wasn't satisfied yet. He said, "Trust me if she is she will leave you alone".

I really appreciated this because it was so true and not something I even thought about. A lot of men don't expect women to have an orgasm, some think most women can't and are fine with that. Sometimes the women fakes it so that is no fault on the man. And hey, most women don't expect to have an orgasm everytime. But if we aren't laying beside you motionless unable to speak then want round two it is probably because we aren't done.

It isn't a bad thing, not at all. It means we want you and want more of you. For women having an orgasm is mental so if you weren't completely the thing that turned us on we would roll over and go to sleep. But you are and we want you and bringing a women to orgasm truly builds an emotion bond, it releases oxytocin bonding us to you whether we like it or not. It's kind of like what Eddie Murphy says in his stand up from the 80's, once he hears his womam orgasm he knows, "I've got this motherfucker now!".

So maybe look at it that way but if nothing else... don't blame your woman if she is all up on you the next time YOU finish sex. Best.

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  • this is why I like older men lol

  • You haven't met my girl then who usually errupts 2-3 times before I do.

  • What type of man doesn't want round two...

  • Thank you, for a short & nicely put sexy summarized topic !
    You have no idea how hard it is to find a really good one that people can keep short !

    Good. Fucking. Take !
    Prochnost !

  • Yes

    "For women having an orgasm is mental so if you weren't completely the thing that turned us on we would roll over and go to sleep. But you are and we want you and bringing a women to orgasm truly builds an emotion bond"

    And yes

  • Whaaaaat? But if I let her finish, I feel like I didn't really win the race.

    • Lol!

    • 8 girls didn't get your joke.

    • @RPGamr It's funny. I imagine them reading this and going "OMG this guy is so STUPID" *HARD DOWNVOTE CLICK*.

  • HAHAHAHAH. I pretty much always make my women cum, if not multiple times. There was this one girl who said any guy couldn't get her to cum; Ill admit she was really hard to make cum but I did it. I always focus on my girl and make her cum before I finish.

    • Do you stop before you cum and/or use your fingers? What's your method?

    • Just letting you know, sometimes if it goes on for too long we fake it so we can stop. Just sayin'...

    • From appearances, you don't look like someone who makes women cum... But I do believe you. Appearances can be deceiving.

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  • TL; DR.
    That's right, fella, you gotta flick the bean, and munch that rug!!!
    Make sure to toss some salads while you're at it!!!

  • I'm a virgin and i have often wondered if this is true or not, like do a lot of women not regularly get to cum during sex?

    • Roughly only 20% of Wemon orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone

    • @Cjanes but i mean like, all of sex

    • Some women dont that is true. Mainly because they are just looking for drunken hookups, and the guys really dont care about anything other than cumming themselves. If you want to increase the odds, romance her, yes romance before hand gets women wet and makes it easier to cum, plenty of time making out, caressing each others bodies, and other foreplay. Oral and good fingering can make her cum on thier own, or get her ready to. There are a lot of things that throw the numbers, such as just counting penetration, no foreplay, basically a quickie, and weather or not the guys she is having sex with care if she comes. But if you include all of sex like you said, then they are much more likely to cum.

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  • oh this mytake is so awesome. I fall asleep like 10-15 minutes after I get off, so I agree completely with this!

  • Well i'm a virgin so i can not say that i am the best , but when i get a girl , i would do anything for her to make her orgasm as she likes , make it oral or penetration , but ur right in many cases

  • This was too short and didn't answer anything.

    • The answer was in the headline.

    • She's stating the obvious. That doesn't count as answering questions.

    • I'm not sure what kind of answers you are looking for but my purpose was not to provide an answer. It may seem like an obvious statement as I presented it but men aren't very good at knowing when a woman has or hasn't orgasmed. My point is not to tell you how to make her achieve one. You have to figure out that part for yourself.

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  • I can't really take an article based on jokes from two stand up comedians seriously...

    • And I don't really think this is as much of a problem as some might claim. Maybe women are just dating lousy guys who don't care.

  • I personally can't help it. When it happens, it happens. umm.. unless we we're to stop having sex and and go oral instead.

    • You can take care of a woman after you get off. Also working up a woman will help her reach orgasm by the time you do.

    • Pregame helps you reach touchdown together.

  • no. its girl not find right guy.

    girl now days let any man in... and things get complicated.

  • Caring about a woman's pleasure is only something betas worry about.

    • They're BETA in bed! yuk yuk yuk

    • @jjmarvin Aaaaah, this guy! No but seriously don't care about a woman's pleasure folks, they have a meme sexuality.

    • And we have ourselves a fucktard. I'm so glad you guys show yourselves to us so clearly.

  • actually I've been with girls who orgasm multiple times is that really that rare?

    • Are you 100% sure none of them were faked?

    • Nope, in my case is the same, and they dont need to fake 3 orgasm, those one just fake one XD

    • Don't think so because she would come back for more

  • I totally understand its a good tging i can't finish until the girl does im more atracted to the emotional than the physical this is problematic for me though lol

  • Once again everything is blamed on men. Gag girls this bullshit is why men attack you on this site. Fucking annoying

    • You really can't be this stupid. Some do, some dont. Period.

    • Of course, it's all your fault you're worthless pieces of crap :D :D

  • Its a bit debateable. Some women masturbate and are horny even after multiple orgasms.
    It depends.

    • There are many kinds of orgasm for women. The ones that "finish" us will only take one

    • I didn't knew that. Just one?

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