I'm expanding on this a bit from a comment I heard Louis C.K. make that applies to questions I've seen some men ask here. Louis C.K. pointed out to men who are like, "Why won't she leave me alone after I cum?" that it is because she wasn't satisfied yet. He said, "Trust me if she is she will leave you alone".
I really appreciated this because it was so true and not something I even thought about. A lot of men don't expect women to have an orgasm, some think most women can't and are fine with that. Sometimes the women fakes it so that is no fault on the man. And hey, most women don't expect to have an orgasm everytime. But if we aren't laying beside you motionless unable to speak then want round two it is probably because we aren't done.
It isn't a bad thing, not at all. It means we want you and want more of you. For women having an orgasm is mental so if you weren't completely the thing that turned us on we would roll over and go to sleep. But you are and we want you and bringing a women to orgasm truly builds an emotion bond, it releases oxytocin bonding us to you whether we like it or not. It's kind of like what Eddie Murphy says in his stand up from the 80's, once he hears his womam orgasm he knows, "I've got this motherfucker now!".
So maybe look at it that way but if nothing else... don't blame your woman if she is all up on you the next time YOU finish sex. Best.
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15 32Im always up for round 2 and sometimes 3 if my girlfriend wants it. She also gets way more oral than I do (not a complaint, i just love giving it)
The prostitutes I went to refused to have sex with me after I ejaculated. They wanted me to pay extra to keep going. I had no money left, so I've never experienced what it's like to go for a second round. :(
Eww dude, gross.
@RationalLioness What?
You're extremely rude. Please don't respond to me. Keep your comments to yourself. I don't like you. Peace.
Do a lot of guys realize how pathetic it is to use brothels to a lot of women? And of course they aren't going to let you keep going---you finished and she pleasured... thats it. ... My opinion doesn't matter though. You reminded me of a guy i was going to date and then found out he slept with prostitutes... so it was a complete turnoff.
@RationalLioness You're extremely rude. Please don't respond to me. Keep your comments to yourself. I don't like you. Peace.
a loving man i guess will try to satisfy his woman. when a woman cheats its usually her man's fault. usually.
do you disagree?
Yes, women don't cheat for sexual, but emotional reasons. If she cheats, he's probably pussy and she can't be attracted to him and emotionally invested. His skill in bed is secondary.
@lilac_flowers well a woman can not be neglected in bed forever and never act on it. if she doesn't like his character as you say she wont/should not date him in the first place.
also i can't get why they all get butthurt over a simple FACT. men are 80% of the time to blame, im' a man but i recognise it.
@fiodor99 Well I don't dispute a man can neglect a woman/disappoint sexually, but that is never the reason women cheat. Maybe a sexually starving man will be tempted to cheat, but female sexuality can't be "starved" by simple deprivation. Female sexuality is emotion fueled so dissappointing her in bed won't make her want a random dick. Eww. Disappointing her emotionally, as the man in the relationship, THAT will make her want someone else emotionally and THEN in extension, sexually.
You're misdiagnosing the problem.
well you are partly right but you can't judge the whole female population by your own standards. my best friend's wife cheated on him cause he was too concentrated on his job and hadn't have sex for her for 6 months. that was way too long time.
@lilac That is a lie. I know women who do cheat when not given sex. Stop putting the wrong unformation out there. @fiodor99 whoever made the choice to cheat is at fault.
@RationalLioness Yep, there are many reasons that women cheat and boiling it down to one is crazy. I've seen girls cheat simply because they have emotional issues and crave attention from many men to compensate. Your second point is good too. I've been in lots of relationships and managed not to cheat in any of them. That was my decision. If the relationship stopped working for me, I walked and found one more suitable. Blaming one partner for the actions of the other is bullshit. If someone feels compelled to cheat, the relationship is probably over. Just end it.
46% of women never experience an orgasm in their life.
56% men pre-ejaculate during sex (Cuz they fapped gallons of semen into the drainage before marriage)
26% of girls are unaware about their own genitalia anatomy.
this kinda is like if we dont finish her we get more sex.
It's true