There’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous. Our society is one big double standard, but I’m sure you realize that. You’re damned no matter what choices you make. If you’re overweight, you’re unhealthy. If you’re skinny, you’re on drugs. If you don’t drink, you’re boring; if you do drink, you’re a lush. If you don’t have sex, you’re a prude; if you do have sex, you’re a slut.
Here are my reasons to support female promiscuity
Female Promiscuity Is Natural
New anthropological research on human behavior has found that when it comes to sexual selection, females aren't merely passive objects of male competition, but actively seek out multiple partners as an "evolutionary strategy." According to science, we're all sluts. This result was published by human behavioral ecologist Brooke Scelza in an article titled "Choosy but not Chaste: Multiple Mating in Human Females" which was published in Evolutionary Anthropology journal. (Source)
It is Their Body
It is their body. Who are you to judge? They can do whatever they want to with their body. As long as their intentions are clear and they're sleeping with men for enjoyment and not sabotage, who are we to judge? Who is anyone?
We’re Curious Creatures
Humans are naturally curious animals. Our progress is proof of this. So what's wrong if a woman wants to explore the sexual world? She can and if she wants then she should!
Being Single Makes You Desperate
It is not true for everyone but on G@G, we're familiar how much desperate singles are to lose their virginity and get laid. Living without intimacy can be challenging. I'm not saying it's impossible. Nothing is impossible, but dating and sex go hand in hand. This desperation can lead to depression. Getting laid can help you to reduce it.
It's Experimentation At Its Best
Sex can be part of the day to day life. Promiscuity is just a sexual experiment at its best. It's like one day you eat at McDonald's next day you eat at Burger King. That's all. Just like trying on shoes at the department store or test-driving cars at a dealership, some women feel the need to experiment with multiple men in the bedroom. Experimenting isn't a bad thing, and women shouldn't feel bad because of it.
Men Do It Too
We're living in the 21st century. We've feminism, we've equality (or at least trying to achieve it) I'm not feminist but I do believe in gender equality and equal sexual freedom should be part of it. If we're okay with men sleeping around then why not women? They've right to do so. If we see a promiscuous woman we slut shame her. It isn't fair. Men are promiscuous, and women shouldn't be made to feel bad if they are as well. #StopSlutShaming
What Girls & Guys Said
34 87It's 100% okay for a woman to be promiscuous. It's their choice like men who are promiscuous
should a woman be responsible for her actions and decisions?
8 dislikes lol
A bunch of snowflakes lol
Good take !,!
But some insecure guys won't like that ppov 😆
Sure it's fine - especially if you're on the receiving end. But like all things, don't expect there to not be repercussions.
You can't ride the cock-carousel for a dozen years and then think mr. right is gonna want you. Just ain't happenin'. Like I like to say, 'don't squander your youth and beauty'.
Sure, as long as they're careful.
Your basic assumption that having multiple partners benefits a woman biologically is not entirely accurate. Women benefit from having several high quality male partners, but not necessarily a high number of partners. A slut, by definition, has a high number of partners.
A woman can only get pregnant to one man at a time, which means that she benefits from getting nailed by the hottest stud she can find, while being supported by the most stable guy she can find. This isn't slutty behavior, just inherently manipulative.
Yes of course women can enjoy sex with different people. Men are the same, but they get upset because they can't find sexual partners as easily as women can.
And in my experience men don't care about a woman's past as much as the posters on G@G would make you think. If they like a woman they will feel lucky that they can be with her, not try to weed her out based on her past.
Hahaha men care deeply about her past. Most of us anyway.
Do what you like but don't be surprised when the partner you really want to have in your life sees you only as a party favor. Bounce around and you become a hookup only, not a serious consideration for long term.
Promiscuous = immoral disloyal person that only uses others for sex and doesn't actually care about people.
It is not okay for men or women.
They should at least have the decency to tell people up front that they do that kind of stuff so the others that disagree with that moral choice can avoid any relationships with them.
Well as long as you’re safe about it, and honest with yourself and others and don’t hurt anyone then I don’t see the problem.
Personally, when I date a girl, I never ask nor care to know about her number of sex partners or sexual past in general. What matters most is how she treats me and that she has no STD or kid.
Great article @Political_dude! I agree with what you've mentioned in your article! Women have the right to be promiscuous just as much we men have.
I admit to have been promiscuous as well 😉
Thank you :)
You're welcome mate 😆👍
No..
Of course! But man or woman, I'd be a bit cautious with who I'd tell. Many people still frown upon it and as a woman I'd be a bit extra careful. Before you know it, all men you know will think of you as a potential sex partner first and only as a friend/person second. Men are simple creatures, their brains easily suffer from blood shortage due to their blood migrating to another part of their body, making them even more simple then they/we already were...
Yeah not me.
Well their life, their choices Idgaf
it's ok to be a slut
it's ok to slutshame sluts
how is it ok to slutshame?
@FrenchyRomain how is it ok to be a slut?
because it doesn't hurt anyone, there are no consequences if you take the necessary precautions and the "slut" does what she wants with her body. What is wrong with having a lot of sex?
@FrenchyRomain it hurts society. You have more children born out of wedlock, which means more of them are reliant on state support, which costs the the tax payer more in the end. That and the spread of STDs.
@FrenchyRomain It is a lie that being a slut does not hurt anyone. Interfereing with other peoples relationships, having children and having no idea who the father is, spreading diseases around.
@WynterWarrior yeah because having sex = having a child... birth control doesn't exist right i forgot we were in the 18 hundreds ;) second : STDs are OF COURSE transmitted at EVERY sexual relationship i mean isn't obvious? Condoms don't prevent that, i mean i thought a condom wa
was just for using as a water balloon to throw on strangers in the streets OBVIOUSLY...
@WynterWarrior yeah, well said, it's never ok to be promiscuous
@FrenchyRomain sigh. white knights are gonna white knight. First of all ->its the current year<-- is not an argument. no sluts are not responsible and either have abortions after abortions or fatherless children and end up welfare queens. The more sexual partners someone has the more they will spread diseases knowingly or not. The fatherless children of single mothers often grow up to become the people that rob us and end up in prisons. Let me ask you. If someone has 90 sexual partners a year for 10 years. Do they have any dignity / self respect / responsibility? Another consequence of being a slut is females are less likely to pair bond the more sexual partners they have. Also one or more abortions create scars on the uterus that have medical problems regardless if she becomes a mother or not. uscfertility. org/causes-infertility/uterine-scarring/
@FrenchyRomain I get it. encouraging slut behavior puts more pussy on the market so it is better to play the odds. but if you do give a shit about females as your white knighting suggests. Then self-destructive and detrimental lifestyle choices - actions - way of life is something that should not be encouraged.
@WynterWarrior i'm not white knighting shit here, just saying that there is nothing wrong with WANTING and GETTING lots of sex, there are countermeasures to STDs and pregnancy (welcome to 2018) so how is it wrong exactly? They do what they want and live with the consequences (destructive or not)
@FrenchyRomain it's not about consequences but the low self respect
how is that low self respect? having sex is bad? since when? she wants sex and gets it
@FrenchyRomain with that kind of logic you could say that if a person wants to eat, he should just eat. Nevermind the fact that he'd be a glutton.
@ThisDudeHere being a glutton puts yourself at a health risk, sex with the right precautions doesn't. You don't have anything against it (and the other with the "people born from single parents are often criminals" bullshit)
@FrenchyRomain there's plenty against it, including the criminal not-bullshit
@FrenchyRomain having sex is not bad. Being a slut is
since you still didn't answer : why is being a slut bad?
@FrenchyRomain because it shows no dignity
how is that your problem exactly? are you the one showing no dignity? And so what if she has no dignity exactly... you sound like those religious retards refusing Gay marriage : you ain't gay why are you pissed off
@FrenchyRomain Actually you are White Knighting. There is nothing wrong with wanting sex. a sex drive is healthy. However things done to excess - things done that are detrimental to oneself and others. Destructive patterns can and should be shamed - discouraged. You are being childish >It is current year< is not an argument. The same shit happens throughout human history. Use logic. They are countermeasures to Aids and HIV but should people go out of their way to get or give to others Aids and HIV?
@FrenchyRomain You are wrong that they live with the consequences. The people whose lives and relationships they ruin live with the consequences. Their families and friends that watch them walk a destructive road live with the consequences. The children who has no idea who their father is lives with the consequences. The fathers that are cucked and deceived into raising another mans child lives with the consequences. The people who now have STDs that they did not have before some fatal like Aids others incurable lives with the consequences. Destructive behaviours and lifestyle should never be encouraged.
gotta catch em all
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lol... I see
@TripleAce she means diseases
Do you find that sexy? Just wondering lol The boys in that gif i mean?
@COCOCHANEL
@TripleAce i like it
thought you didn't like guys like that ...😛 is that Japanese or Korean? Korean right? so you prefer lean guys? it's sexy... not denying it... just wondering if I got some of that right... 😏
@TripleAce ya korean what guys did i say i didn't like? prefer lean to what? i can't imagine being with a guy who isn't lean, that's natural
Yes, this world have huge double standards, but all of them are against men.
You can do whatever you want with your life. You can love also animals if you like.
Nobody will care about that, and you can still find someone to love you after it, but that is just your very personal problem
The men are not promiscuous at all, this is just a huge cultural stereotype propagated by movies and stories. A man can have 1-2-3-4-5 girl friends until he marry. Some of them are stooping at first, some at second some at 5. These numbers are not showing any promiscuity.
Any man or women is expected to do that when is young, nobody will condemn you.
To be promiscuous means to have over 5 partners, but until 10 is still acceptable.
Over 10 you are indeed in the promiscuous realm.
Men just love to see women having good initiative, but that doesn't happen at all in the real life. They just wait for the man to do everything, to think everything, to plan everything, and this is really really tiring for any human being. For that, at a given point can give up and move away from you.
In rest you just wrote here you imagination, far far far away from the real world, and what different people do consider.
Nobody is retaining you from anything on this world, other than maybe you mother. And your father, if you have one or consider you have one. The feminists do consider with loud voice that men are not parents and the fatherhood is a male invention. Still this kind people (women feminsits) are free to speak and write books and spread their poison and silly learnings to the young women, destroying their life and the happiness of be on this world. Also this is destroying the society and any positive future.
No it's not okay they should have good moral values
It's OK for anyone to be that way just as it is OK for people to reject them over it too. Everyone has their own preferences
Be as sexually active as you want. Just don't go crying to your gender studies teacher when the man or woman you like rejected you because they aren't attracted to promiscuous people.