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It's watching Cam girls cheating?

So I just found out my boyfriend has been video chatting and talking to cam girls and he's been doing it for a couple months now. I don't know how to feel about it. I'm very upset cause he's even sent dick picks to some of these girls. We've already been having issue because he is constantly watching porn and then wanting to come have sex with me and that isn't the best feeling either. I've told him how I've felt about the porn and he still continues with it just hides it better now. He also has been having a lot of random girls on his snap and insta. I've asked him to take them off and all he says is "I'm getting rid of them slowly" I don't know what to do anymore. I've begged him to get rid of the girls and the porn but he hasn't or just lies about it.
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They are sex chats not cam girls I guess but still have video chats
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  • If you told him it hurts you, and his reaction to that is... I'm going to slowly wean-off the cam girls, he obviously cares more about the cam girls than he does you.

    It says a lot about his character. I think some guys prefer those relationships with women, as there are no responsibilities.

    I think, if you really want to test him... even though you probably wouldn't like it, bring up some males on your computer and watch them jerk-off. Turn-up the volume so he can here your conversation and be sure the bedroom/office door is locked.

    If he freaks-out about you watching other guys, then you can say... that's how I feel when you do it. It isn't nice is it?

    Sometimes, guys need to know how things feel, before they realize what they are doing to girls.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Cheating is a complex issue with a wide range of definitions. Generally, cheating is considered to be any action that breaches trust between two or more parties. This can include physical or emotional intimacy with someone other than your partner, lying, or anything that could be viewed as a betrayal.
    In your situation, your boyfriend appears to be engaging in behavior that is both emotionally and physically intimate with other people outside of your relationship, which could be considered cheating. Furthermore, the fact that he is hiding this behavior from you could also be seen as a betrayal of the trust in your relationship.
    Ultimately, whether or not this constitutes cheating is up to you and your boyfriend to decide. If you are feeling uncomfortable or betrayed, it may be worth discussing your feelings with him and discussing how to move forward.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's just sexual release for them, not a big deal. The girls stop responding when they stop paying, like an arcade machine.

    • I feel like it's a big deal after I've already told him how I'm felt abut him doing it and he still does it. I even tell him I'm down to fuck any time just ask abs he still goes to porn or whatever he finds

  • Girl leave him, he obviously has a porn addiction and isn’t going to change for you.

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  • It may not be cheating but it is very poor judgment. I would consider it a negative move but cheating may be a little too strong.

  • Does it really matter whether it is "technically" cheating?

    • To me it does because I've been dealing with him not being loyal then on top he's constantly watching porn

    • So if it's "technically" not cheatnig, then it's okay?

    • No its not I guess. It makes me feel like shit and I've told him and he doesn't seem to care

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  • Sounds like he is a bit addicted to it. Keep working on him about it. Is he jerking off to them when he watched cam girls or porn also?

    • Both. Its more of a sexting chatting app. He sends dick pic and talks to them like they are his girlfriend or lover and jerks off. Also video calls them too

    • That is just wrong sorry you have to deal with it. How often are you two having sex? Would increasing the frequency maybe make him less likely to jerk off on the video calls? How old is this guy?

    • We have sex just about every day, he's 25

  • He is totally unfaithful to your and obviously just with you for your body.

    You deserve better!

    way better!!!

  • You have allowed him to know your boundaries are flexible so he has no need to change yes I personally wpuld class this behaviour as cheating

  • Just being with this dude make you feel great? From the sounds of it, you're continuously having to deal with his porn addiction. You deserve better than this. He's not going to change unless he seeks counseling. Find a better boyfriend

  • Looking at people playing anonymously is not cheating. If I tune in to a girl that's masturbating or whatever, no. But if I am interactive with her such as in chatting and talking to cam girls, it IS cheating.

  • If you think it's cheating, then it's cheating. But be aware that some people, possibly many people, will disagree with you.

  • Run fast and far! If he's hooked on porn then he's not good for you unless you're into that to.

  • Of course, it is cheating. He is getting his rocks off to someone other than yourself.

  • Yeah, thats an socially interactive thing, so its no longer just porn at that point. I'd say its cheating outside of very specific circumstances.

  • Yeah. It's cheating. Sometimes people forget that, being that it has become more common. But it's still 100% cheating.

  • It is if you are sexting them.

    • He is

    • Then he deserves to be dumped.

    • Sounds like he has an addiction to porn.

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  • It only matters what you think is cheating. If it hurts you this much that you happen to go online looking for help or guidance from strangers, than it's a big enough issue to you. If you think it's a difference that isn't tolerable, leave him. He already hasn't respected your boundaries on the other categories.

  • It’s emotional cheating, but not physically cheating, depends on what you’re willing to deal with, but it’s not good either way

  • Yes, it's cheating

    • You deserve better

    • Still cheating

  • I think it matters how involved in the show he is. I watch camgirls, but I don't tip. So essentially it's free porn for me. Occasionally I will enter the chat, but since I don't tip, I don't ask for anything.

  • Nope, just like those onlyfans girls expect guys to not think of them cheating when they show off their bodies and do sexual things on cam.

    • But he talking to them not just watching

    • So she's doing a lot more than just talking to them, so it ain't cheating.

  • Yeah 😔

  • My previous girlfriend caught me once (this was back when i was in school) and got very mad. We made an agreement after that. She had to be in the room (and part of the fun). I didn't complain

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