It takes him longer to go flaccid after a bj?

When my boyfriend and I have sex and he cums, he usually goes back down in a couple minutes, which is normal I know. But when I give him a bj amd he cums in my mouth, sometimes it takes several minutes for him to go flaccid, like 5 to 10 minutes? Is that a sign that I'm not really satisfying him with the blowjobs? What is the difference here? Lol

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  • Fact: to guys,

    PIV is always top.

    PIA is great, a "must try" but eventually lose to PIV.

    Fellatio is very intimate. Guys love it, all the more if she swallows. But it's different from PIV. And it never beats PIV except in intimacy.

    Hand job is fun. Good as a form of foreplay. But we would prefer to cum from above 3.

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    To conclude, you're good enough for him. Stop being so insecure. Many here would die to get a chance to have you as their girlfriend. 😁

    • But why does his dick stay hard for a long time after I blow him and he cums? It goes back down after sex.

    • Man's orgasm is associated with an ejaculation. We're satisfied when we masturbate. But not that satisfied. The ultimate is PIV. Get my point? Ejaculation = orgasm. Yet they are all different. Apple orange pear watermelon are all fruits. They all satisfy a desire but are all different. Important is we get an ejaculation that equates an orgasm. Confirm he's satisfied. Why not instead use him still hard for a quick PIV. You may discover something great next time. Sorry. Can't answer why he stays hard.

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  • My erection takes a minute or so to go down after ejaculating. A blow job feels different from vaginal sex, but feels good.

    You give him a blow job until he cums, he is lucky. I don’t receive blow jobs, I would be very happy to receive a blow job and would be satisfied. Think he likes it too.

    • His takes like 5 to 10 minutes to go down after a bj tho? That seems like a long time doesn't it?

    • It’s quite long but sounds like he is excited by it, his penis feels good. My penis stays hard and tingly for a bit after ejaculating too.

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  • it means your really exciting him if he takes 10 minutes to go down... but you could be squeezing any cum he has and lick it up for him... and lick his shaft kiss it etc... i think he likes your blowjobs more than you think he seems to get really excited by them from you

  • Ignore the loser guys!

    This means he is not tired not being on top pushing away at you during sex!

    His body is still happy to push blood to his thing. Not suddenly go into rest mode after tiring sex.

    He is getting plenty of pleasure from you don't doubt your skills!

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  • Why would you think he was less satisfied? That doesn't even make sense.

    • Because he stays hard for a long time after a blowjob but goes back down after sex? Feels like he's not completely satisfied from my bj?

    • No, no. That has nothing to do with it.

  • It’s a sign you should keep going! I never stop if I’m not soft. Went soft because U2 stopped working on it. No, this is no indication that he is unsatisfied.

  • It is how quickly hormones like adrenaline wash out of the blood. It's nothing personal.

    • Why does it take longer to go away after a bj tho?

    • By guess is that receiving a nurturing BJ depletes less hormones than bronc riding sex.

    • Why? Lol

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  • After the bj just strattle him and finish him or you off. Worked for me sometimes.

    • He cums when I give him a bj tho. Why does it stay hard for longer afterwards tho?

    • I don't know. But so what if he cums. Jump on and enjoy the ride.

  • This happens when we're not 100% exited or horny enough.. there will be some ejaculation but not completely... Do things which excites him more

    • So the blowjob wasn't very good then?

    • But with sex he goes back down within a couple minutes.

    • If u mean he cums early.. then it's good thing it's a compliment.. don't know why some women don't get it.. if your man cums early then he finds u very sexually attractive n things happen quickly.. if he's taking times then it's problem..!

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  • This one's easy.. when be he on top penetrating, he doing all the work, when he getting a bj, he relaxing. This is the cause for the difference

    • His takes like 5 to 10 minutes to go down after a bj tho? That seems like a long time doesn't it? After sex it takes only a a minute or two? I feel like that means im not satisfying him during head?

    • If he gets off, then it was satisfying enough. The time it takes to go from hard to flaccid us dictated by how much prolactin his body releases after orgasm

    • Not how much pleasure he received

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  • I’m wondering if it’s the same amount of time and you just perceive it differently. I mean after he cums it will slowly go away

    • No there is a noticeable difference. It goes away verrrry slowly after I give him a bj. But it goes down within a few minutes after sex. Am I not emptying him completely after a bj?

  • You are doing everything right, he is just still turned on. Do you ever go for round 2 or 3? Does this happen when he gets a handjob? How old is he?

    • I offered another bj and he refused and said it was good. Sometimes we go for round 2 during sex. I don't know. He's 25

    • Sometimes after a bj guys are very sensitive. As long as you both are having some fun orgasms I would not worry about it!

  • It means you did a good job. Why don't you jump on it and ride it down if it's still hard

  • Just over thinking. It's just male anatomy doing its thing

    • Why does it take longer to go away after a bj tho?

    • I'm not a doctor, lol. Probably something to do with blood flow. It could be that he is just really turned on from it. If I'm still hard after ejaculation then that means I was really horny

    • Still horny after bj? Not because he's unsatisfied tho?

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  • probably sucking more blood into his dick keeping it erect longer? Also, could mean he was really really horny. Could mean a lot of things. Definitely doesn't mean you aren't satisfying him. If he came, he was satisfied.

  • Thats odd

    • Not too good of a bj then? Lol

  • Shouldn’t make a difference, once he has cum it’s over, unless u continue to suck him

  • You are over thinking it,

  • I assume he was the one that asked you out and hit on you

  • Perhaps he likes (and gets more sexually aroused over) bj's more than p-v sex? To me bj's are meh, it's not real sex, nothing is more electrifyingly pleasurable than vaginal sex !

    • Does it mean my vagina isn't very good if he prefers bj? Lmao

    • Noooo, it's not you, some guys (including him by the sound of it) have this weird thing where they think a bj is better than vaginal penetrative sex - don't ask me why tho !