Iv been doing sexual stuff with my real father every time he’s drunk?

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I’m gonna get judged and hated for this but every time he’s drunk he thinks I’m my mom who died when I was young and he’s been alone since then so I’ve felt bad and been doing that stuff to him. It was never actual sex. He didn’t force me or anything I wanted to do it but he never talks about it the next day. Do u think he doesn’t remember or just doesn’t want to talk about it?

Southernmess · Accepted Answer

Girl, first of all PLEASE STOP DOING THIS!! I'm not judging you or trying to make you feel bad but this is SOOO WRONG and could have some very bad repercussions!! And if he only does this to you when he's drunk and won't talk about it the next day he (HOPEFULLY) knows its wrong and is so ashamed of himself. If you need help telling him to stop then PLEASE CONFIDE IN SOMEONE YOU TRUST TO HELP YOU WITH THIS AND NOT THE INTERNET. This is ILLEGAL. PLEASE STOP LETTING YOUR FATHER DO THIS TO YOU. HE'S THE PARENT AND SHOULD KNOW THIS IS WRONG BUT IF HE DOESN'T HAVE SENSE ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS THEN YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTS ON AND MAKE HIM STOP DOING THIS TO YOU. IT doesn't MATTER IF THERE IS PENETRATION OR NOT TOUCHING YOUR CHILD SEXAULLY IS WRONG AND THIS NEEDS TO STOP. PLEASE GIRL GET SOME HELP AND MAKE HIM STOP!!

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

While I understand why you would, I think it'd be best to not do it anymore. I mean, put it this way: If he doesn't remember having sex with you, how will you feel about it then? Most likely you'll feel horrible. And if he found out about that then your relationship with your father would be ruined forever. If a person is intoxicated then they most likely can't give consent and are just saying/thinking random things. He probably thinks more about your mom when he gets drunk if anything. But is he only getting drunk once in a while or is he doing it almost everyday? If he is doing it everyday, I'd say he needs a doctor to talk to. But don't have sex with him when he's drunk. It's not good to do.

John_Galt · Accepted Answer

That is a complex question. I guess just try and answer the actual question and not give unwanted advice... I would ask if he has any types of other black outs? When he drinks does he ever do any other things and bit remember. Does he not remember driving home, does he break things and not remember, does he have normal conversations and then not remember etc etc. if the acts your talking about are THE ONLY thing he does and then doesn’t remember... I would say he is avoiding thinking or talking about it.
If he has black outs all the time with other things as well, he may truly not remember.

Alan_Walker · Accepted Answer

He doesn't want to talk about it.

Look these things need to be stopped. I understand that he has lost his wife but using your own daughter for these things is not correct. There are many other ways. I won't speak about them here.

This is really serious. No matter how turned on you are, never let him do it again. If this continues, his expectations will increase and the things will go further.

The result won't be good. I hope you understand friend, you need to stop this anyhow. For the better future of you and your dad.

AustinMan · Answer

You're operating in very dangerous territory here. I suggest that you stop it immediately and find a good therapist to work through it with. Does he have some sort of cognitive issues? Why would he think you're your mom?

DizzyDesii · Answer

Its incestual so he probably hates himself for it. You should too. y'all need help and to find fckers outside of the family

katiesmuff · Answer

You are a liar and an Anonymous TROLL!

ohshee · Answer

I don't know ,, I do know that you should say something to him ,, I have a really good friend and she has told me the same story plus 100 more I've tried to understand the reasoning behind it or just why someday it's really going to effect you i know it has effected her in so many ways I've talked her in to seeing someone about it but she stoped going I don't know what to do for her now can I ask you a few question if you don't mind

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

Mikelaughs · Answer

There are many things to consider here. Hmu if you want to discuss

slatyb · Answer

You are an adult. How do you feel about it? He is probably feeling some shame so he’s not talking about it.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Gross.

Angelo75 · Answer

He really neeeeeeeeds to get therapy if he's drinking. You're not helping him. Just prolonging his pain.

TeeSquare · Answer

What you do is your choice. He either doesn't remember or doesn't want to talk about it.

The-Senko-San · Answer

Probably doesn't want to talk about it

AmeerX · Answer

I think he doesn't remember. I think you should not be judged. Just don't do anything sexual with him. That's incest and that's wrong. Otherwise I don't think anyone has any right to judge you.
I think it will get lots of downvotes but I think you can't be blamed. You are only comforting him

okeydoke · Answer

I think you should talk about it.

Gedaria · Answer

Mixture of both. I'm like that been get really drunk. Don't remember anything. That's one reason why I don't drink.
It's a strange situation to be in , one would say you put your self there. You enjoy the time?

Posterboy56 · Answer

The hell? Please tell me you're trolling.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

You need to see a shrink thats wrong an ge should be in jail

Twalli · Answer

He probably feels ashamed that he doesn't have the self control to stop you.

TheRealJokerSA · Answer

I think he knows He fucks you, Anyway if You enjoyed then no harm is done

In_Trance · Answer

Just doesn't wanna talk about it

andy530 · Answer

It’s likely even if he remembers small parts of it he is too embarrassed to talk about it

Valnac · Answer

It smells like a Troll in here!

9Livezzz · Answer

If he doesn't force it on you and you're the one who does it to him then I'd highly advise you to stop doing that to him. Tell him you're sorry and won't do it again. If I was in his shoes I would probably have a hard time saying no if my wife passed away and I was drunk and had that happen to me. He probably doesn't talk about it because he probably feels awkward the next day and he knows that it's wrong but the act has already been done.

msc545 · Answer

Its difficult to know, but don't have intercourse with him, as you might get pregnant.

Not-karen · Answer

I think you are one sick individual for even posting those. I call bull shit. But either way just for a person to think and post this is low. You are skum

Smirnoff23 · Answer

Open to pm if you want to talk about it

Jakeofalltrades93 · Answer

sounds like a porno

Nachowedgie · Answer

Troll

gandolph3 · Answer

he just doesn't want to talk about it, that would make it real. the question is, how are you. i don't judge. if you would like to talk pm me, take care

andybq · Answer

yes he remember i would but he enjoy i would

Anonymous · Answer

Disgusting🤢

Anonymous · Answer

Doesn't want to talk about it

Anonymous · Answer

WHY?

Anonymous · Answer

You need a boyfriend and a therapist; and he needs a girlfriend and AA. You shouldn't do that stuff at all.

Anonymous · Answer

doesn't sound like an easy conversation to have, i guess its possible he doesn't remember though.

Hard to say really.

Obviously what you are doing is pretty weird, illegal (well, sex would be) and not a fix for anything.

Anonymous · Answer

I am sorry to say this, but you both needs serious help. That is DISCUSTING.

Anonymous · Answer

I won't be judgmental, but will just say that I'd feel weird doing this.
Of course, we don't know how our subconscious works.
I've dreamt that I've had sex with my mother, father (not enthusiastically) and even brother! And I don't even define myself as remotely gay.

Anonymous · Answer

Eeww gross

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