Just mini orgasms? Why can't I have big ones now?

Stressed having a hard time getting big ones and nothing has changed much! Even when he spends ages eating me!

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2 mo
Might be from stress but even when every button as the guys say is pressed.
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  • You stressing about it is a disservice to you.

    You need to learn to relax, let yourself go and enjoy it.
    Also if you're too much in your head that can cause problems too.

    The female orgasm is very much linked to your mind.

    Create the mood with your partner - or aline, and find out what works for you. Pause on the chase and focus on the pleasure.

    For one I've learned that proper dirty talking is such a gamechanger for me. Like where he talks about what he wants to do to you, what he's thinking, what he's doing, or something else entirely.

    • Thanks so much maybe that will help! We do talk but often my mind wonders 😂. Just to the stresses and work! I'm so not good at it how can I get better at it?

    • Exactly, your mind wanders too much about everything else. You need something that grounds you and make you solely focus in what is happening.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Try mornings especially on the weekends. You will be more relaxed then. Stress is a killer and I have noticed that girls take longer after a stress day.

  • is it like this?

    Just mini orgasms? Why can't I have big ones now?
    • Lol no ew I'm not black 🖤

    • Hahahaha

    • Thanks for the MHO😎

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Use a vibe

    • But it won't help and makes me take forever! My sucker toy is way better

    • @roseysarah i can be your sucker toy

    • @BrookeS only if your good enough to be mine!

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  • Stress maybe

    • Maybe things have been going on

    • Yea maybe that's why

  • Do you get stronger by hand than from a partner?

    • No from my partner

  • Being stressed doesn't help. Perhaps he's not hitting thr right spots when giving you oral. Tell him where to lick/suck

  • Forget him n find Urself. Then give directions 👌

    • What?

  • Does this happen when you masturbate also?

    • Don't really any more

    • Ugggg maybe try some sex toys?

    • We use them but I don't really like them as much

  • Not the right partner queeny

  • Mini.. orgasms❓

  • dm me so we can sext.
    i promis i can give u big orgasms..
    u just learn me a little bit about u then i go on

  • Well whatever the hell’s wrong, he’s a fcking saint.

  • you can't have big ones by yourself either?

    • Why be by myself when I'm married?

    • you can still masturbate if you are married... there aren't any rules against it lol

  • Wear warm socks,, I read somewhere that if a girls feet are cold it will prevent her from having a good orgasm

    • Nedi pot is calling u

    • Listen here fury, your the one that can’t orgasm 😂

  • I think there is a lot going on in your mind. You need to find rest again and enjoy every Touch you do and feel.

  • you need to try something different, your body get use to of it.

    • Try something different like what?

    • @roseysarah different from the things you doing, give your body some good experiments.

  • I’m sorry

  • It's probably the stress, when your mind and attention is divided into parts, you're not totally into the act. I think that's what deprives the ultimate pleasure. Try relaxing your mind, pick a time when there's nothing else to do and sex is the main priority. And I've heard those who masturbate more have better and stronger orgasms with their partner as well.
    Can't wait to see your next post saying "Goddamn I was SHAKING!" Haha. Good day.

  • Stress you already wrote it. You need to have a beautiful soul connection