Kissing with tongue?

[Maebe]

Okay I don't know if this is the right place for this question or not, but I would like both girls and guy's answers on 1) If you enjoy kissing with tongue or not. & 2) Your best way of explaining how? How to kiss with tongue/How you like it? I ask because I've only ever kissed with tongue twice, It was with the same guy and I absolutely hated it. It was wet and slobbery and I did not like having his tongue in my mouth... However, everyone I know says they love it. And so now i'm wondering if i just simply don't like it, or maybe he was bad at it and didn't do it right? Thanks lol

[kaylaS91]

Sounds like the guy you kissed was a terrible kisser. The worst thing to do when kissing with tongue is the dreaded lizard tongue... where you just feel their tongue going into your mouth repeatedly with no rhythm whatsoever.

I love kissing with tongue. If it's the first time I'm kissing someone, I don't use my tongue that much as I like to just feel out what their style is like. I may put move my tongue in their mouth a few times but not forcefully at all. Once you've kissed them a few times, you get a better feel for it and the kisses get much better. :)

[Maebe]

"their tongue going into your mouth repeatedly" yes! that's what he did! and he just kind of swiped it around in my mouth and kdfjgk;djs i didn't like it. good to know that's not how it should be with everyone. Maybe the next guy i kiss will be better but i'll take your advice and not use tongue the first few make outs. Thank you very much for your answer haha.

[Maebe]

Wait so how should I kiss with tongue then?

[kaylaS91]

lol yeah umm.. just put your tongue in his mouth and he should sort of play with it a bit with his? So good kissing isn't a tongue going in and out of the other kissers mouth.

[DumpliingPrincess]

Love it. Too much tongue is always gross (unless your feeling really carnal). It is always wet. I usually just swipe their lip with the tip of my tongue and at one point we just tongues and move em around basically. Some people suck each other's tongues which I'm not really into.

[Maebe]

Do you just keep your mouth open? or do you try to do it in between kisses? /.\

[DumpliingPrincess]

In between kisses. It gets kinda weird (at least fir me) if we just have tongue action the entire time while making out.

[existing_not_living]

OMG! I hate it too. It's kind of gross to me. I've only done it once, but it was a bit of a make-out session so I had a good bit of experience with it. I did not like it at all.

[Nunnew]

there's no way of teaching someone to kiss with tongue. It comes in naturally some get it first try others a little more practice. But to answer ur question tongue kissing is a real turn on for most people. Just the way it feels and makes you feel. And how u described your experience seems like it was a sloppy mess. As for me i love it! Lots of girls say im really good at kissing and really like it. If you didn't like your experience you should find a partner to practice with. Ill bet you'll end up enjoying it too.

[Maebe]

I know this is going to sound awkward, but would it be weird to ask the guy to teach me? or practice with me? or should I just go into it without saying anything and try to figure it out as I go? (I'm not sure if it's worse to admit I don't know what i'm doing when it comes to tongue, or to play it off and end up being really bad...) sigh

[AleDeEurope]

The first times I did it, I didn't like it either, but she was an awful kisser, I had her saliva even on my nose. I kissed her 2 or 3 times, and I hated it. But that didn't stop me to make out with other girls, and so far, after that first girl, I've never had a bad experience, and I really enjoy it.
I don't know how to kiss, just don't open your mouth too wide or use too much tongue. Put some passion to it, and go with the mentality that you're gonna like it, 'cause if not, you're definitely gonna hate it.

[Maebe]

Hmm okay this gives me hope it will get better haha, i want to be able to try it with other people.. is it just the tips of your tongues that touch?

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, it will get better. You're still underage, so guys aren't really experienced in that aspect. It depends on how much tongue you use, but usually it's not just the tip, it's more like the first quarter or your tongue (or something like that).

[Maebe]

Yeah okay that makes sense.. The guy I have a thing with now is 18 (I'm 16) but we haven't kissed yet or anything however I'm hoping when we do he will be better and will help me learn to get the tongue right haha

[AleDeEurope]

Well, at 18, he probably has had more kissing experiences, so he'll be better than the previous one. And when you kiss him, don't hesitate to ask him if you were good, or how should you improve, it's better to ask than to keep doing it wrong.

[Maebe]

Yeah I was thinking he'd have more experience too because of his age. How do you think he'd feel if I asked him that kind of thing though? Would it put him in an awkward position?

[AleDeEurope]

He most likely will tell you you were good, just to nothurt your ffeelings, but insist him to tell you how to improve, that you just want to get the most out of the kiss. He should understand.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I love it. For me, at its basic it's opening your mouth and use your tongue to rub against the other person's tongue.

[bestadviceguy]

Did anyone ever mention to you that a kiss and a personality are related? It sounds like your guy was an overbearing type the way he kissed.

If your new guy kisses you and you feel uncomfortable tell him, 'hey, less tongue, go slow'. He should understand. It should be a soft kiss, leading slowly into more...

Good luck!

[Maebe]

Hahahah he actually was that kind of guy. That's funny i've never heard that before! And thank you, I'll have to keep that in mind. ox

[bestadviceguy]

cool! :)

[Dragan]

I love it.

[Maebe]

If you were with a girl that didn't, would it dissappoint you if she asked to make out without tongue?

[Dragan]

No. I don't dissappoint

[Samayel]

It is a bit wet and slobbery, but I guess that's something that many people like. My girlfriend for example loves it. To me it's not special, but I'm ok with doing it.

[Maebe]

Thank you this helps since not everyone feels the same way about it i guess

[Anonymous]

French kissing is fun with the right person but just lip to lip works for me also

[Maebe]

Lip to lip has always worked for me too, but once I told my guy friend that, and he was so baffled because according to him he's never kissed anyone without tongue! It is crazy how many different ways there are to kiss and how everyone has different preferences... lol xox thank you

[Anonymous]

You probably just had a bad experience with it. It can be great when done right, however, did you know that dogs tongues are much cleaner than humans and you're more likely to get sick from French kissing. It'd be better to French kiss the dog, lol

[Maebe]

hahahaha thank you for the fun fact but I don't think i will be french kissing any dogs anytime soon. And yeah the bad experience seems to be the concensus. I'm both excited and nervous to get the chance to try it again. I hope it will be better but i might still dislike it.

[Opinion Owner]

You must really enjoy it

[YourFutureEx]

seriously man, are our tongue that dirty? o. O

[Opinion Owner]

Should really read up on that shit dude.. for real