Ladies can most men really not make you cum or is it just a joke that women like to say a lot?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It’s true for the most part. Most of the guys I’ve been with didn’t make me cum or I had to teach them how over time. It seems like guys in my age group are either clueless sexually or they’re just selfish and they cum quickly themselves and then leave me hanging. The best sex I’ve had was from guys older than me and more experienced. When things click sexually, it changes everything. I hear guys complain constantly that they don’t get sex enough from their girlfriends. We’re more likely to be into it if we’re getting as much out of it as you are. No one wants to just lay there and service their partner.

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on the female. I've never had a guy make me cum. However, I can't do it to myself either, believe me I've tried. But I hardly think that's the case for all women

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply 👍

[Little_Bumblebee]

I can have difficulty getting myself to cum and it's so much harder for a guy.
It's not a joke on my behalf and it doesn't really sound like a pleasurable joke to make...

A problem is those men who don't want to learn and those women who fake it.

I've never faked, I'm brutally honest. Faking won't benefit any.

[Asker]

How do the men take it?

[Asker]

As in do they get annoyed when you tell them that they can't make you cum?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Differently. Accepting, trying, some "give up", some try harder.

[Asker]

I'm surprised you haven't got punched in the face before to be honest 😂. I'm glad that you haven't though.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I haven't experienced someone getting annoyed, usually, the guy I'm with has feelings for me, often rather strong and so they're very sweet (usually)

[Little_Bumblebee]

Punched in the face? Why would someone do that just because I don't cum?

[Asker]

Well some men would take extreme offence to someone saying that they aren't good in bed.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Doesn't mean they're bad in bed just because I don't get an orgasm though...

[Asker]

True. But most men probably wouldn't see it like that. I know I wouldn't. If we had sex and I didn't make you cum I wouldn't blame you I would blame myself.

[Little_Bumblebee]

It's not about blame either way. You find a way to enjoy it. You communicate, open to try stuff, and don't put pressure on the other person. The pressure can ruin everything.

[Asker]

True. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[Billie_]

we mean it, sorry.

[babysteph]

It def depends on the man! I’ve heard that in general most men don’t know how to please a woman, but I’ve only been with one and he totally does. Maybe I just got lucky haha

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I've had exes that occasionally failed to make me orgasm.
I didn't want to bruise their egos.
So, I occasionally faked my orgasms.

[postempestas]

I've been with a guy for a month or so and we fucked many times and he didn't make me cum once, he came every time tho, he didn't have a problem. He was good in bed but ig the size hurt me and that stopped me from reaching heaven.

[ABritonInAmerica]

Sometimes

[Asker]

Does it have anything to do with looks? In the sense that a better looking guy may turn you on more so it would make it easier for him to make you cum.

[ABritonInAmerica]

Nope it's just if he's good in bed

[Anonymous]

It is the truth most women don't orgasm from straight sex alone.

[Anonymous]

most guys can make me cum and if they can't i can move myself around enough to cum if i want to. sometimes just the sex itself feels good

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply 👍