Ladies. Curious. One of the main reasons why you're in groups. It's mainly because of safety reasons?

[Christoff92]

I noticed this here in my hometown of Toronto. That the ladies are staying in groups mostly in the downtown core.

But that's really one of the reasons why. Because of the spread of stalking, public violence, sexually, alcoholism, etc. 🤔

Guys. You're welcome to give your opinions to 🙂

[mandyfire98]

It's a big reason, yes. There are things we have to look out for as women that are daily rituals and precautions that men will never even fathom and it's mainly for safety so that we don't get drugged or attacked or stalked or raped. It's sad that we have to be on alert like that but it's necessary. In college alone I can't tell you how common it was for guys to put things in women's drinks. Sexual assault and harassment were common every weekend.

[SmokyEnrique]

Consider aslo where false rape cases, sexual harrasment are rising. the media shows only half truth

[mandyfire98]

Doesn't negate the fact that guys will still sexually assault women and harass them. I have experienced it and nothing was false about it. You gonna tell me that my experiences were false? I lived them. My friends all went through it as well. It's common and it happens.

[mandyfire98]

But go on and keep gaslighting. You sound awfully defensive. Has your behavior ever been called into question?

[SmokyEnrique]

Look also where women assault men , women rape men , women sexually assault men, you may be the the victim but doesn't mean all are victim too. Look where women murder men. first of all don't look at pseudo media

[Qwertsy]

@SmokyEnrique unfortunately, women are way more likely to be a victim than men. I can honestly say I feel completely safe walking home alone in the middle of the night. But I’m not naive. That’s something very few women will experience.

[Christoff92]

Hey. I don't blame you 😐😊

[mandyfire98]

@Qwertsy I'm glad you understand statistics lol. I'm glad you also can pick up on a very common fear women have. It's not like it's rare or made up. Compare rape cases of men raping women to women raping men. It's not even close. Now let's compare situations to where women get grabbed or groped or sexually assaulted or harassed to men. Let's compare those figures. Smoky Enrique sounds like the type of guy who doesn't want people to recognize or talk about women going through these situations because he probably had either done it himself or might in the future. So he doesn't like people focusing on it. You have to be actively trying to silence women on this issue if you don't recognize that women have more fear of being assaulted or raped than men. Also are sexually assaulted and raped statistically more than men.

[Qwertsy]

Exactly. If any man cares about the women in his life, he has to be aware of the very real dangers they face.

[DizzyDesii]

I haven't been in a group since I was in high school. I much rather go solo or occasionally paired with another girl. And that goes for both in/out of state travel. Now if I went to another country, yes I’d prefer to travel in bigger numbers unless I’m paired with a guy that I think could protect me. I’m comfortable in the states but i dont know how another countries rules work, so I gotta feel protected

[Christoff92]

Are you in the US 🤔 I got families in Manhattan and LA 😊

[DizzyDesii]

Yea im in the US which is why im comfortable traveling solo for the most part

[Christoff92]

Toronto is Manhattan Jr.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i heard. Im debating if i’d go to NY alone cause a lot of mfs from there are rude and lack the southern hospitality that Im used to. And i’d just never go to california after seeing all them hollywood cult and earthquake films 😂 Even if they joking that shit got me paranoid. But i’ve met some of the sweetest cali dudes. Still they’d have to continue to come to me. I have met 3 nice New Yorkers out of like 20. Just no. But places like Vegas, i’d continue to go alone. Debating on FL since i want someone to ride the theme park rides with. And i definitely dont know if i’d be comfortable alone in Miami. But i’m not the partying/drinking type, so i dont put myself in dangerous situations. I just go to shop/eat/enjoy attractions. When i go to Lake Louise in Canada, i attend to go alone. When i go to Aspen, I won't be alone because i attend to ski or some shit and need a witness in case i get hurt 😂 I’m definitely not going to Bahamas or Australia alone. I’d visit Dallas alone just like I did Charlotte and Vegas. I’d also go to Atlantic City alone to gamble.

[asphaltrhymes]

I've often notice 20s women also prefer to hang around in groups. Maybe it's just a social aspect thing or a Canadian thing lol. Ah well. When me and my guys hang out, as a group of 4 or 5, but other times if people noticed me, I enjoy my downtime solo also, so l guess go figure 🙃😃🙃😎😎

[asphaltrhymes]

And older women, middle aged, prefer just to be in two's. Lol. Like they have coffee or shop, as two's.

[Christoff92]

Are you in Canada?

[asphaltrhymes]

Nope. 👍 Cya

[Christoff92]

Cya?

[provokeesmokee]

Bruh, you live where an incel in a van ran down women and you're wondering why we stick together for safety?

This is why I say most men are dumb as bricks. Because you ask silly shit like this.

[Christoff92]

Well, eventually, this can happen anywhere. It's not going to be a specific city or area.

[provokeesmokee]

And yet you still wonder why "safety in numbers" is observed? Do Torontonian men not also gather in groups, or do they avoid each other?

[ushagomez]

Maybe it is the only way of having intelligent conversation in Toronto?

[LazerBean]

Just for fun.

[SmokyEnrique]

Mandyfire98 blocked me because she doesn't want to listen the truth

[SmokyEnrique]

Look also where women assault men , women rape men , women sexually assault men, you may be the the victim but doesn't mean all are victim too. Look where women murder men. first of all don't look at pseudo media

[SmokyEnrique]

There are women also who are convicted rape, sexual harrasment even falsely blaming men for rape

[SmokyEnrique]

@mandyfire98 I can show videos where women falsely blame men

[Anonymous]

we're programmed that way