Ladies does expensive jewelry as a gift make you lower your sexual boundaries?

Just curious if your man gave you expensive jewelry as a gift would you let him do more adventurous or kinky sexual stuff that you hadn't before?
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  • No. The only women who would go for such a thing are those who are gold diggers in the first place because to them this would be an exchange. In a relationship based on love a gift is a nice gesture that you choose to make out the the pure motivation that you love someone and you want to make their day. But to give it to someone with the expectation that now they're obligated to give you what you want in return is very wrong. As I said this is a sugar daddy/baby mentality where the entire relationship is based upon exchanging expensive goods for sex.

  • No. Would make me uncomfortable unless we were in a serious, longterm relationship. Then he'd never have to GIFT me to get me to do anything adventurous. If I'm in love and serious about someone, I'm game for most things.
    You can't buy that.

    • Excellent response 🙌

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  • Hmm I am an adventurous soul anyway but I only allow it with someone I truly trust, respect, and have communication with. But jewelry does nothing except make me stare at them as if trying to buy me and in that case let me show you the corner hun where the ladies of the night need to get paid. We communicate, or we don't fornicate.

  • No
    Also my sexual bounderies are prettty low as it is

    • Understandable.. when you say low do you mean there is not much that is off limits or most things are off limits?

    • I mean that i like sex and like to experiment

    • That's awesome! Your boyfriend is lucky

  • You really have no idea about women and what they want do you?

  • Obviously not.

  • I have very few boundaries to start with, but he's gotta get paid somehow

    • I can see that for sure

  • gifts are nice but for me it has no effect on what we do in the bedroom. I think you have to develop a connect first and talk about

    • That certainly makes sense and is what makes a relationship work when you can freely share and discuss the sexual part of your relationship

  • It's not a bribe so that wouldn't work, women are too smart for shallow gestures. One guy I loved used to buy me jewelry as a way of expressing his love. It wasn't for sexual favors.

    • That's what my thought process was. I just wanted to buy her something nice no hidden agenda. I told my friend and he said well when you give it to her try any kinky shit you want with her. I was kinda taken aback by that.

    • I see. Doing sweet things for her will win her heart. Trying to use her for buttsex won't. Hope that helps.

    • It does, I have no alterier motive other than just being loving. My friend just made it sound like a thing that was a given. Thanks for the response

  • Nope because I have standards, my body and Will cannot be bought and my boundaries are beyond contestation

  • Hecc no.

  • No that's something that can't be bought with gifts.

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