Ladies, how do I get my wife to get more sexually adventurous?

[6newtothis]

I feel like if I suggest kinky things, she's going to think that I'm perverted or something. Any advice is helpful!

[BrandiSue]

move slow! try just blind folding her occasionally... and then maybe handcuffing her later... and then maybe full restraints... She is your wife you should be able to talk to her.. but if you come in like I want to do THIS and it is completely different then anything you have done before then it can be intimidating/scary/ or make her feel like what she is doing isn't good enough.
I know it is late for valentines... but maybe for some other reason you can get one of these books made... it is a lot of fun because you guys are the main characters and do all kinds of things you wouldn't normally... it is like role play but just reading a book so not really having to do anything... but reading it may be a turn on and want to try new things... ustarnovels. com
Good Luck!

[6newtothis]

Great advice! Thanks!

[BumbleDee]

Ask her what turns her on. Tell her to describe what would happen if the two of you acted out her biggest fantasy... What would that look like to her? Hopefully she tells you she wants you hanging from the ceiling in a sex swing, or to ball gag her or whatever you're hoping for, but whatever she says, you'll get an idea of how to get what you want by satisfying her sexual desires.

[HeilenaT]

Before suggesting anything make sure she's properly taken care of in the ways that matter to her. Listen to her unspoken words and thoughts... I honestly believe any woman will do anything in the bedroom for the man that really gets what she's about outside the bedroom.

[6newtothis]

Wow, great advice. Thanks!

[Burgee2803]

Talk to her. Tell her that's what you want and only do it if she's open to it aswell

[Logorithim]

Ask her what her sexual fantasies are. That would be a good starting point.

[6newtothis]

Great idea. We have sex regularly, but she's not really about prolonged play. Just likes to get it done. What if she's like, I don't really fantasize about sexual stuff?"

[Newgirl1979]

Watch 50 shades of grey with her... ask her honest opinion on the sex in the movie afterwards

[fallenstar789]

she's ur wife u guys should feel free to do whatever without feeling perverted. Just get the toys and surprise her maybe she wants to do it tooo but is also shy to tell u. Just break the ice and do it

[6newtothis]

Feels daring, but I like it! ;-)

[fallenstar789]

Yes take the challenge lol

[Kelly6]

Talk dirt kinky during sex

[6newtothis]

I've never tried that. Good idea, but I don't even know what I would say! Haha.

[Kelly6]

Start slow

[tarhan]

wathcing porn together will solve that.