Ladies how do you warm your man up to the idea of period sex?

Looks like my period may fall on my wedding night next month! Such is luck, my second biggest concern is fainting on my wedding day but I'm much more worried about my fiance who isn't too keen about period sex. Any ideas on how to open up the conversation? I want him to feel as comfortable as I am with it especially on our wedding night. Cause mother nature has a mind of her own and I can't stop her without birth control and it's a little to late to get a doctor's appointment to get on the pill for a month
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Not looking for "don't force him" answers. Obviously this is a consensual relationship. To clarify I'm asking solely for advice on how to bring the subject up and talk openly about it with good pointers! I think one of his biggest concerns since periods are usually pretty awful for me is that it might hurt me! Can anyone attest to it not hurting? I heard it's actually great for cramps
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I feel like I'm just going to keep getting super toxic or neglectful answers so I'm going to shut down this thread. Shame on everyone who just wanted to say their opinion instead of giving advice.
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  • You don't mention why your hubby-to-be is resistant. Maybe he hasn't articulated the reason (s). I'll take a stab.

    Could it be the mess? Not hard to imagine. Fortunately, it's an easily addressed problem. Have a few towels on hand to protect the bed and more. Make sure he notices them and knows why they're there. Moist wipes should leave you both fresh for round 2, 3... And, protect the sheets from unintended staining.

    Is he really into oral? I've had oral with a girlfriend during her period. It was more restrained than otherwise, but still hot. Take steps to make sure he knows you're as clean as possible and still into it.

    Moisture? Period sex is different than other times of the month. Blood isn't the best lube. A tube of water based happy-gel might help.

    Have a great wedding!

Most Helpful Guy

  • So I don't love it, but I love her. And it wouldn't stop me or our very special wedding night in our lives. But you can't change others if he is against it, but you def need to broach the subject and how important it is to you on your night, and should be to him too. So maybe in the bath together? Maybe the shower? Or Lay down a dark towel on bed and maybe give each other a nice warm oil sensual massage. I would take some oil and massage her body from head to toe, and then her clit and vag and get her engine really going, and then put some on me and then enter her nice and slow and make slow love while on rub her clit, say vs. hard/rough sex. I've done that several times with my lady before she eventually went on the IUD. It wasn't too bad and it was still amazing But! But its a natural human thing! I hope he's OK with it and your night is so special and amazing. PM me if want to know anything else. We've all been there!

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  • It's never been a great experience for me when one or the other wasn't really into an activity, although actually doing new things has often been quite the happy adventure. Or be sneaky and plead innocence when he discovers it, as in, What? No? Really? I'm bleeding, now? Okay, but don't stop now!

  • Mine is mature. Never been an issue. They have me on their own period tracker app, for various reasons. 😂 It certainly hasn’t prevented fun times.

    • Main point. It’s personal. You can’t make a man like it.

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  • Fantastic Planning!

  • If he's said he's not into it. There's nothing more to discuss.

  • Yes it helps me relive cramps and for his comfort we use a condom so he doesn't have to worry about getting blood on it

  • Speaking as a guy, nothing on god's earth would warm me up to THAT idea.

  • Tell him to man up and stop being a little girly bitch about it, and that he'll love it!

  • Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. If you and your groom are uncomfortable about period sex, and you want to please him, you can use your mouth and hands and let him know that you're available later, after your period.

  • You can't force him but just talk to him about it and maybe do some research and show him that its not as bad as he may think it is.

  • Be honest with him.
    I've never known a girl who found it painful.

  • If you can't talk about something as normal and natural as a period with your fiancé... then you should revaluate getting married...

  • I dont. If he wants period sex, or cannot wait until after , he has get the wrong , girl...

  • Remind him it’s part of who you are as a woman, and marriage is about being there for each other for better or worse.

  • Period sex is amazing actually and just be open and honest talking about your periods.
    Period sex helps menstrual cramps and orgasms are stronger too.

  • You could do anal.

  • I couldn't ever have sex during my girls period.

  • @rocky07
    just suggest to him that you think you may have to change the wedding date unless he is up for some messy sex that night lol. im sure he won't mind in the end :D else is your bum open for business lol

    • @rocky07 period sex it very intimate and cos its taboo its kinky as fuck you will enjoy it if you have a dirty kinky mind if your vanilla well then either its not happening or you got to change your mindset. just enjoy it for what it is extremely intimate

  • I would rather not have sex on my period. I’ve done it a few times with my ex but I just hate how the way it smells and I just feel embarrassed by it

  • Gross. Why are you so horny like that’s disgusting would you want a bloody cock in you?

  • If you're "all systems go" in your own mind, why are you even asking for advice? Personally, I find period sex fully disgusting. But, whatever floats (or sinks) your boats.

    • Because he's not sure. It's okay if you guys are squeamish about it and don't want to, but I'm looking for advice from people who are okay with it and have done it and what their experiences are. Its uncharted territory for us and there's a lot of mixed reviews from researching the internet 😂 I wanted to hear from people who have tried it

    • I'm not "squeamish" about it. I am revolted by it. Much like I would be if my partner wanted me to eat his poop. But, do you.

    • Yeah but periods aren't dirty, most people bleed the first time they have sex because of the hymen breaking. It's not dirty the first time why would a natural process be different anytime after? Sex and periods are just natural stuff. And honestly all the answers on this thread have been pretty awful. Just avoiding talking about it and don't have it are awful answers to a question where I asked how to talk about it? Not singling you out, I'm just disappointed by everyone on this thread

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  • get it in the ass.

  • It's pretty gross so if he doesn't like that, you can't make him.

    • She should be able to wait a week until it ends for full intercourse. On the honeymoon night, if I were on my period, I would focus on pleasing my husband in other ways, cuddling, and just being close.

    • @Gigi2019 You're right.