You don't mention why your hubby-to-be is resistant. Maybe he hasn't articulated the reason (s). I'll take a stab.
Could it be the mess? Not hard to imagine. Fortunately, it's an easily addressed problem. Have a few towels on hand to protect the bed and more. Make sure he notices them and knows why they're there. Moist wipes should leave you both fresh for round 2, 3... And, protect the sheets from unintended staining.
Is he really into oral? I've had oral with a girlfriend during her period. It was more restrained than otherwise, but still hot. Take steps to make sure he knows you're as clean as possible and still into it.
Moisture? Period sex is different than other times of the month. Blood isn't the best lube. A tube of water based happy-gel might help.
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So I don't love it, but I love her. And it wouldn't stop me or our very special wedding night in our lives. But you can't change others if he is against it, but you def need to broach the subject and how important it is to you on your night, and should be to him too. So maybe in the bath together? Maybe the shower? Or Lay down a dark towel on bed and maybe give each other a nice warm oil sensual massage. I would take some oil and massage her body from head to toe, and then her clit and vag and get her engine really going, and then put some on me and then enter her nice and slow and make slow love while on rub her clit, say vs. hard/rough sex. I've done that several times with my lady before she eventually went on the IUD. It wasn't too bad and it was still amazing But! But its a natural human thing! I hope he's OK with it and your night is so special and amazing. PM me if want to know anything else. We've all been there!
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It's never been a great experience for me when one or the other wasn't really into an activity, although actually doing new things has often been quite the happy adventure. Or be sneaky and plead innocence when he discovers it, as in, What? No? Really? I'm bleeding, now? Okay, but don't stop now!
0 0 0 0Mine is mature. Never been an issue. They have me on their own period tracker app, for various reasons. 😂 It certainly hasn’t prevented fun times.
0 0 0 0Main point. It’s personal. You can’t make a man like it.
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7 13Fantastic Planning!
0 1 0 0If he's said he's not into it. There's nothing more to discuss.
0 0 0 0Yes it helps me relive cramps and for his comfort we use a condom so he doesn't have to worry about getting blood on it
0 1 0 0Speaking as a guy, nothing on god's earth would warm me up to THAT idea.
0 0 0 0Tell him to man up and stop being a little girly bitch about it, and that he'll love it!
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