Dominated? Sure, yeah I really enjoy that. But I want a turn to be dominant as well at some point, otherwise I get a bit bored after a while. Used during sex? No. Turnoff. It sounds like that would involve aggressive sexual behaviour and I'm just not into that. Like I don't want to be choked or choke my partner. Being tied up/tying up my partner is great and so much fun, and so is blindfolding and other things.
Submissive, yes. Used, no.
Tied up, yes. Choked...no, to me, that would not be a pleasurable experience. There's excitement and suspense in bed, then there's aggresive sexual behaviour. I like to be dominated but only by someone I truly trust and by someone permanent.
i feel similar
Ok, I understand. Choking doesn't really do much for me, but I just put it up there cause it sort of goes hand in hand with the kind of thing I'm talking about. Thanks for the input!
I don't like neither of them.
Each situation is different than another. Both parts behave accordingly.
And being used, it is an already red alert in any kind of relationship, even in a family. I prefer to be respected and respect.
I mean sexually. Like your body is used for his pleasure, but outside of sex everything else is normal, you're respected and equal
Still same. I believe balance in every subject of my life.
Ok thanks for the reply!
I like when he gets exactly what he wants.. Acd that's kinda hot... So yeah
Seems like the majority say yes to this! That surprises and excites me! :)
90% of the time I like being dominant but sometimes its hot if the girl is dominant and gets aggressive with me.
Eh, not me. I don't ever want to be tied up or anything like that
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I've let myself be used before..
I've enjoyed and liked the sex when being used..
But I'm not sure I'd say I like being used..
if that makes sense
I mean this in a purely sexual sense. Do you mean you enjoy the sex but don't like it?
Like do you mean you enjoy the pleasure it gives you, but don't like the idea of being used for a guy's pleasure? Sort of an internal moral conflict type thing rather than not wanting to have it happen?
I enjoy the sex... I dislike that I'm letting him use me..
look no one likes to be used. I'm just verse and I don't like hard core bondage
I don't think you're right about "no one likes to be used". If you google about submissive girls, something they say often is they love to be used. What is verse?
Look that is psychologically unhealthy
Well then there are more psychologically unhealthy girls than you think.
I do, if you can control me; you are one Hell of a guy
I am submissive to a rather extreme extent lol.
I like being the submissive one.
Yess, i love all of it. As long as he makes me cum in the end.. I mean I get so pissed off if I don't
Hopefully u have met plenty of guys up to the challenge. :-P
Indeed i do
To some degree I do however I do not like hardcore bondage.
Yes, I always prefer the man be the dominant one, in basically every way... but especially in the bedroom.
I want him in control, I want to be his play thing...
That's what gets me off.
I think it's pretty common, yes.
Depends if i trust the guy. It's not only for guys pleasure though, i get pleasure from a little pain so it works for me too. It's not that common i think.
Oh my God, yes! It'd be scary and exciting..I get hurt pretty easily though, physically. :/
Well then I could gently dominate you hahaha. You say "it would" so you have never actually experienced this type of sex have you?
haha i'd be glad lol. Nope, i've never experienced this type of sex before. Guys are very gentle with me (i don't know if this has to do with my short and small frame, But i don't want my body type to hold them back lol. Or they're just simply not dominant at all...
I know I used to be very gentle with girls in general, cause I'm a pretty tall and strong guy (6'2" 185) but it was only cause I didn't know girls like to be treated rough. Try telling the next guy you're with. I'm sure his eyes will light up when he hears that haha ;)
i'd love it i mean, im scared to try it but still would love to have some dominant guy.
I've always wanted to have a relationship like this with a girl, but I have no idea hwo to approach it. I am dominant in general, but not to this extent. I'm afraid of scaring her off
I'm sure you'll find someone that will not get scared of this. I'm scared because im still a virgin..But a guy like Christian Grey is my dream lol. I've always known what i wanted even before those books though. I know myself. I'm extremely submissive in bed. And the idea of a dominant guy doing me hard is just something really thrilling, arousing and amazing for me. And im sure im not the only girl who thinks like this.
You want to be dominated and you're still a virgin? Interesting haha. Hope your first satisfies you
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