Ladies: It's OUR Fault That Men Are Still Asking If Size Matters!

Ladies: It's OUR Fault That Men Are Still Asking If Size Matters!


Well, partly to blame but in very LARGE part.

This is one thing that gets me when I hear about people breaking up. Ladies lie about their men's size and men call their woman a bitch.

I'm not saying this is ALWAYS the case but it happens often. Sometimes there are actual mutual breakups and both parties maintain respect.

So, does size matter? Of course it does-- we all have preferences. But a man's size usually becomes inadequate to woman once he's her EX.

And ladies-- for the most part-- did you hear her complain about his size while they were together....Nope...

But for some reason, this is the ONE area where women seem to lie because they think they can do the most damage to his ego.

So ladies, if you're tired of seeing questiond about whether size matters... here's a likely reason why--- Stop telling people he has a small package!

Just a thought...

But the men have some work to do too...
We all do have work to do.


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Most Helpful Girls

  • I can’t say I’ve ever complained about or made fun of my exes dick size. Never occurred to me tbh. Not that I’ve had many exes

    But I gotta say , like there was a question you posted the other day that I answered and some random guy came on my answer and started asking me about dick size. It took all of the restraint I could muster to not drop a penis size insult on him because it just pisses me off to be constantly pestered by these guys. Every damn day. Penis size messages in my inbox. Penis size question and my takes. Invites to penis size questions. I honestly think that gag should just put up a penis size page with a list of all penis size questions asked and answered and then remove every penis size question that gets asked. It’s annoying.

    • That might actually work! Haha

    • Also sorry about that thread. I got a little aggravated and let my evil side out

    • No worries! It happens

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  • Human males have the largest penises per body size of any mammal. A tiny percentage have micro penises. Another tiny percentage have gigantor dicks. Most men have decent sized penises. The real point is penises usually don't give women orgasms ANYWAY! So what is the big deal about what size they are. Women are equally worried about breast size. Though I haven't heard anything about loose vaginas. Use your assets to best of your ability and few will be dissatisfied. If they are, there's nothing you can do about it.

    • Thanks for your response! The mammal thing... I live out in the country and have you seen a horse's member? That's scary. So I'm not sure if that's an accurate fact. The whole point is that everyone gets bitter after a breakup and this is the one thing I always hear women harp about. Some women do respond more to penetration though, such as myself.

    • A horse weighs 1500 pounds... I'm telling you, we have the biggest... per our size... men weigh 175-90 lbs... no comparison... I'd say size wasn't the issue, but expertise... wasn't skilled as a lover... far more damning, in my opinion...

    • Ok, fair point about the horses... lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • If a man's sense of masculinity is dependent on the size of his penis, then yes, he needs a lot of work to do. As far as women insulting men about it, I think women understand this is a common insecurity that men and a cheap way of hurting his ego after he hurt them somehow during the break up.

    • Exactly.

    • Thanks for the MHO <3 I think everyone needs to be decent and respectful, even during break ups and such

  • If women stopped using penis size as a means of attack to shame men, then it wouldn't be an issue with us.
    Just like if jilted men didn't attack a females insecurities, women wouldn't have issues with their tits, ass, vagina, etc.

    • its all they''ve got on us.

    • I wouldn't say it's all we have... it's just a lame thing to say.

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  • Right on, Sydney! I adore you. You go, girl. You get these kids in line. I've been fighting this fight for the past week or two and I'm tired of writing about it now. Totally agree with your thesis. Enough is enough, right?

    • Ughh sorry you've been fighting it! Enough is enough! 😊😊

  • It’s effective because that is what hurts them. But if they don’t care... that tactic becomes useless.

    I don’t understand why many care when they can’t change it and why they would listen to an ex who is likely to hurt them purposely?

    • Only option left for us to be a gay

  • What a bizzare mytake.
    All of my female friends, peers, relatives, colleagues etc including me who have been through break-ups/divorces, never once have I heard anyone complaining about their partners' sizes, or saying that their partners' sizes are small.
    They do complain about other things though etc, like how he's a womanizer, cheater, bad habits, abuser, being aloof, you get the picture.

    • That's great! Sounds like you have some very mature friends.

  • Ladies: It&#39;s OUR Fault That Men Are Still Asking If Size Matters!


    This again?

    Of all the things that could matter in a person, the focus being on the genitals is primitive to say the least. The equivalent of this would be women asking "what does it mean" questions. And who's to blame for that? Men?

    The victim complex and the blame game is a very popular choice for losers. I rather not be one.

    Why don't people get on with their lives (and their genitals) and do something better instead of asking extremely primitive questions 24/7.

    • Did you read what I wrote?

    • I did.

    • Calm down lady

  • If a guy got a skinny squirrelly little dick what are we supposed to do with that? And it really is our responsibility as sister to sister to warn other unsuspecting women about the shortfall and disappointment...

  • You mean there is at least something in this world that is not a man's fault? Oh thank you. We finally have at least one thing on the list.

  • Hilarious! My ex wife told me about the guy she was dating who was supposedly huge.

    I took another sip of my tea.

    Ladies: It&#39;s OUR Fault That Men Are Still Asking If Size Matters!
    • I am sorry. If I were a woman, I would have the dudes in this forum tied up in knots. It so funny how thin-skinned and low on self-esteem so many males are here.

    • Dude if you knew how weak you come across you'd run full sprint to a testosterone evaluation

    • @ronaldo75 Son, you are weakness defined. You want pity. You want someone to feel sorry for you. So here. . . I do pity you. I do feel sorry for you. there. . . there. . . there. . . there. . . :D

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  • I might be the only male in North America who has never actually measured his dick. The closest I've come is kinda comparing myself to others.

    What possible benefit is there to actually measuring it? I cannot possibly alter its size one way or the other.

  • I’m pretty content with my package 😎

  • Psychological problem of men.

  • A lot of Girls think size matters which it's all in their heads , the problem with it. is. social media and brain washing people. to believe that size matters , Now to a. certain extent it does , if the guy is smaller then 2 inches i can see that being a problem but 5 or up should be No issues , so when i hear about a girl bitching about a guys dick size i just laugh and say stop watching porn

  • Huh it's not like men go around saying their ex had issues or something was wrong with them? 🤷

  • Honestly, a shorter d***ck hits the g-spot better. The best feeling sex I ever had was with someone who had a below-average sized penis. He hit my g-spot with every stroke and all I could do is scream. But it has to be just the right kind of short. Otherwise it sucks. Big d***cks feel amazing because they fill you up and hit every wall. The problem is most guys with big d***cks think that's enough and suck in bed overall - or - they come prematurely since if you have a tight vagina like me, that is a big d***ck's worst enemy... the grip is going to make them cum too fast every single time and rarely will you ever get to be satisfied. Therefore, I prefer small d**cks but I don't discriminate lol.

    • Can I ask you something message me

  • Thanks for sharing your MyTake with us , I think it's crazy for couples to
    worry about a Man's size and also i think Men need to grow up and not
    worry about their size.

  • I don't know about that, it's probably more to do with guys in high school locker rooms claiming that the bigger your dick, the more manly you are and the better you're gonna be at fucking a girl and making her want more... which is TOTAL bullshit!! Girls are almost uniformly 4" deep so, a much longer dick than that can actually be painful and probably won't even get all the way into her, anyway so, there's a few inches of dick that are going completely to waste and don't really matter.

    • I've literally never had a conversation about "ideal dick sizes" with other guys. Girls on the other hand will give detailed breakdown of their "perfect cock" lol

  • Oh I didn't have this problem after a break up at all... all my ex's were disappointed well before we separated, so they'd spread the story before the break up lol (@selfdeprecation lol)

    • Lol @AndrewMG 🤣🤣 thanks for the laugh!

  • Uh, no, it has nothing to do with women. The guys that are whining about size are the ones that spend way too much time jerking off to porn - they simply don't cast normal size dicks cuz that's not what sells vids.
    Anybody with a modicum of sexual prowess or experience knows big-o's don't come from dicks in the first place. And the vagina is amazingly elastic, able to expand and contract to fit a wide range. It scares us that you can nearly pass a bowling ball. ;)

  • It does matter, any girl who says this must be lying. Some girls dont want it too big because it hurts, but a small dick is not sexually attractive

  • It matters

    • Of course it matters!! I just think if this didn't happen, men wouldn't ask this question soooo exhaustively.

    • So those who are smaller should become gays?

  • insecurity is a personal issue. women are not at fault for men being insecure about their dicks. you need to learn that not all peoples opinions matter. so if someone doesn't like your genitals, that doesn't mean they are objectively bad.

    • The issue with dick size is it's easily measurable. That makes it feel like an objective standard, same for height.

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