Ladies (or gents that been though the same thing), my wife suggested we spice up our sex life by having me cross-dresss. Would you do or try this?

Question

When my wife suggested I dress up in her panties and other girly things, I nearly fell off the bed.

We are both over 40 and have been married for 14 years.

We’ve always had a great sex life, or so I thought, but one night my wife suggested spicing things up.

I didn’t mind the thought of being more adventurous but I’m a 6ft 2in “a man’s man” and I’ve never been into cross-dressing.

I'm still kinda shocked that she wanted to try that of all things.

She says it will really turn her on, but I think it’s weird. I haven’t done it yet and wonding if this is normal.

I am still kinda shocked after my wife suggested we spice up our sex life by me cross-dressing

Ladies (or gents that been though the same thing), my wife suggested we spice up our sex life by having me cross-dresss. Would you do or try this?

Should I try it, have anyone done this before, any of you ladies asked your men to do this. I have questions

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

I kinda came into that situation from the other end (my first girlfriend said she wanted to date me, but her father said "no boyfriends"; I said I'd just be her girlfriend instead, then decided to dress the part in the noble name of seeing the joke through- she loved it, and I kept it up), so not quite the same thing, but if you're not averse to the idea, why not give it a spin?

It's just the two of you, in private; no one else will know. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again. But the feeling of softer fabrics running over your bare skin can be quite nice, and it's fun to keep a dirty little secret. And there's always a giddy little thrill that comes from transgressing a taboo. If it turns out it's not for you, that's fine; it's unusual and can be a little off-putting at first, but I'd suggest you at least think about it. Remember, it's just clothing.

Jaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

Of course! Don't think about what is not good, think about all the new possibilities instead. It might feel weird or wrong the first few times but then you get into it. It's nice , don't worry! I am 188 cm tall (6,1) there is a lot of options out there. Patience and try to see the fun in that, it is very playful and empowers your lady and that is the main aim.

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

Yes, if you are comfortable, I think you should try it. No we’ve never done it. I think it’s great she told you that.

AustinMan · Answer

I guess it depends on how you feel about the reaction. Is she trying to assert sexual dominance? I don't have a problem with cross dressers but it's not something I'd ever do.

KatherineJ · Answer

My husband in lingerie? Definitely a turn off.

Mrmr123 · Answer

As long as she would do something I like I’m up for almost anything.

Pete671 · Answer

Go for it, I been dressing since I was a boy, so it's natural for me, but can imagine it might come across as a shock, maybe just try stockings at first, or a simple dress, much more comfortable in the summer anyway lol,,,