Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Every single time I talk to my girlfriends, it turns into quite a debate. That is because they wonder why their men are so inclined to watch porn or even have a straying eye, when their ladies lay on the bed like a starfish and expect sex to just happen. I am appalled when I hear my girlfriend, Vicki tell me that sometimes she is too tired for sex, so she just tells her man to "do as you please, and lets hurry up i'm tired". Needless to say, she can see that this ruins the mood. So from my experience and those close to me, here are some things I have learned over the years.
1. Myth: Men should initiate sex 100% of the time.
Of course a woman likes to feel loved, chased and wanted... but a man does too! A woman should initiate sex once in a while and make the man feel that he is valued and loved in the relationship. By a man's nature he would want to take the lead anyways.
2. Myth: Men should do all the work during sex 100% of the time.
A man loves to show his manly side by taking charge and dominating his woman for the most part. However, a woman can be on top once in a while and spice things up by doing some of the fun sexual work!
3. Truth: Men like women to be enthused about sex, and not just "get it over with".
Nothing turns off a man like a woman who looks like she is enduring an unpleasant experience. In fact, a woman should show her enjoyment and appreciation for a man. Of course a woman can get tired, but perhaps a late night coffee is the key to keeping things vibrant again.
What Girls & Guys Said
46 67Well written, good take
Dear girls, if u already have ur him then please enjoy him everyday if u can. Solution of ur every problem.
Yes there is an two simple rules for woman to keep her man happy. :)
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fkn starfish exes now u can understand why i do what i do ya digg?
I stay wanting sex at night! loveeee to ride and bounce on the pony! That title is hilarious lol
I think all women prove these myths wrong whenever it comes down to having sex with the "right one" who is gonna reward her or give her something to brag about in the long run after the sex is over.
She's not interested in you, cuz she's sleeping with your boss.
Lol too cold.
EXCELLENT TAKE !
Right on. What happened? You actually get it!
Well done. I've walked away from many women because of this.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I am not afraid to initiate. And as par as just laying there, that isn’t who I am. I am an active participant when we are having sex.
I agree. A lot of ladies need to realise that sex is 50/50. If it's bad or unsatisfactory is it 50% your fault.
Even though I like her take and it's in good spirit I believe, her saying "once in a while" or being active sometimes, still insinuates that she thinks women shouldn't be a star fish, but it's fine as long as it's not 100% of the man doing the work. A woman doing just a tiny bit more is enough or the big difference. That's nice, but I still like more effort than that.
Women I've been with rarely just lay there, in my experience women are just as turned on as me, get your girl to ride you always at some point, she can find her spot and be really physical and frees up your hands for... you know, I've had several women instigate, and it's such a turn on, insta boner, and giving her what she wants is good for both of you...
Well then loosen the ropes lmao!
LOL quiet, you'll have your turn...
Very interesting
This made my night.
Say it louder for the people in the back!! :D
This is so true! * wipes tear form eye*
very much agree.
i've always been a jellyfish
I'm not sure how many women actually believe these myths. I'm guessing the ones in the south probably do.
I'm not sure what goes through their minds? I guess they're savoring it because it feels that good? But then if thats the case why do women make it harder than it needs to be?
Well at least I can get seven points out of this