Ladies who like giving blowjobs, do you like being submissive while doing it or dominant?

[Jakey29]

[chrissykerdock]

totally into being submissive... i'll wear the extremely short skirts... often on my knees servicing a man until completion... always swallowing his cum which a submissive doesn't have to ask the man if he'd like that... but love to service a man like that.

[Anonymous]

Even though I’m controlling the action, I’ve always felt like servicing a guy is a submissive act.

[Jakey29]

Physiologically I guess its a submissive pose because the giver is on her knees. Emotionally perhaps its dominant. “Servicing a guy” is a subtle term for submission though, thought ladies didn't like this term. 😆

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not that I like or dislike the term. It’s just what oral sex is. It’s not a mutual act. It’s for the pleasure of one partner, basically submitting to their will. I think that’s why a lot of guys are less than enthusiastic about performing it on their partners, they see it as submissive.

[Jakey29]

I do want you to know that there is actually a sense of irrational doubt if his lady will still respect him, but most guys live giving head as well, the moans... gosh they turn us so on.

[KrisPW]

I'm submissive sexually, was from the first. I've learned and acquired the ability to take control, but still feel like it's submissive in nature as I'm doing it for his pleasure. When a man takes over at the end because he can't help it, I've done my job well. Love the animalistic last desperate thrusts.

I swallow. While the taste isn't always pleasant, why in the world would I want to hold it in longer to go spit it out?

[mandyfire98]

Mainly dominant but submissive sometimes too.

[Jakey29]

How would you describe each feeling? Submissive because you're on your knees? And dominant because you're controlling his pleasure?

[mandyfire98]

Dominant because I'm taking charge and doing the work and submissive when the guy takes over and has sex with my mouth basically.

[Jakey29]

I see! I thought lots of ladies dont like a hands on their head. Do you like a guy to guide your head? Or do you like him to take charge?

[mandyfire98]

I'm perfectly fine with a guy to put his hand on my head. I like him to take charge sometimes

[Jakey29]

Is it something you liked from your first blowjob? Or was it acquired? Sometimes a man takes charge in heat of moment, or do you like him to say beforehand? Also how do you like to handle cum?

[mandyfire98]

Yeah I've always just been good at it and I've never had a gag reflex so that's always worked in my favor lol. No, I like the heat of the moment. I swallow

[Jakey29]

I mean gag reflex isn't exactly a turn off :P But yes at least it takes off to a steady rhythm of in and out. Do you like giving spontaneous blowjobs? Do you swallow directly or taste it before gulping down?

[mandyfire98]

Yeah I'm all for, while watching TV on the couch, to surprise him with a blowjob. Spontaneous can be fun. It normally always hits the back of my throat. Sometimes if there was no warning I would taste it.

[Jakey29]

Now that sounds wonderful. Its a treat when a lady is comfortable with taking her man’s dick in mouth in a playful way. Spontaneous blowjobs are sure fun. What about wake up blowjobs?

[mandyfire98]

Only if ahead of time he gives me the go ahead to do it. Consent needs to be involved.

[Jakey29]

Fair enough, fair enough. How long do your blowjobs last? Do you want it to get over with or do you enjoy your time while blowing?

[mandyfire98]

I always enjoy it. It depends on the guy really. Some guys cum quicker than others. Especially if they aren't use to deepthroat

[Jakey29]

Ah thats cool to know. Were you always fascinated with blowjobs or was it an acquired taste? What size is comfortable when you deepthroat? Also cut or uncut?

[mandyfire98]

I wasn't really fascinated by it really. Just enjoyed the reactions I got on my first blowjob and thought I might be good at this haha. I've been comfortable with most any size really. I've taken down huge ones before and been ok.

[mandyfire98]

No preference for cut or uncut

[Jakey29]

Im sure you're a Queen in that area ;) Which areas do you focus on? Have you ever tried rubbing it on your face? Dick slaps etc? Also, do you always require favor to be returned?

[mandyfire98]

I don't always require the favor to be returned. Plenty of times like I said that I give head just while watching TV on the couch and don't require him to go down on me.

[Jakey29]

you're a gem lol

[mandyfire98]

Haha thanks

[Generic_User26]

It can go either way personally

[Jakey29]

What is the deciding factor?