Ladies Would it bother you if you couldn't make your boyfriend cum?

So far my girlfriend hasn't made me cum at all. I'm worried she will feel self concious
Yes a lot
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A little
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Wouldn't care
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  • Yeah, I'd be concerned. I guess it'd depend on how long we'd been together and how often we'd had sex though - like with my current partner, after 5 years, I probably wouldn't be too concerned if I couldn't get him off one time because I know that every other time in the past 5 years, it's worked and it's probably just because this time he was tired or something and it just didn't work that time. If this was someone new and I'd tried a couple of times and still couldn't get him off then yes, I'd be super bothered by it.

  • Yes! It's relatively easy to make a man cum. Even a dead starfish can make him cum.
    If he's my man, yes, I want to please him sexually. Sex should be an enjoyable experience for all parties involved.

  • It wouldn't hurt me. I tried my best. It maybe something that he has going on as to the reason why he can not come. He could be stressed out, have a lot on his mind or maybe not in the mood for sex.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It a woman can't make her man orgasm then that should be a concern because it's really not that hard, she'd either have to be just horrible in bed or you have insane stamina or the connection just is not there.

  • it would definitely bother me, and it probably bothers her to

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  • This happened in the beginning of our relationship, turns out he was worried about making babies condom on and still worried about babies I felt like I wasn't doing it for him

  • Sure it would. I would try different ways to make him cum. I get pleasure from seeing him be pleasured. I've never had that problem though 😜

  • Yes it would I would not give up it would be a challenge

  • It would definitely bother me. If about two weeks of attempts go by and I still can't despite my best efforts, I'll just leave

    • Word

  • I would just think something's wrong with him.

  • I've had girls wonder why I didn't.

    The reason? I sprayed on some desensitizing spray.

  • a little , I would think i am not enough for him

  • I've never met a guy who can't cum.

    It would bother me yes, but in that I'd be more worried about what's up than self conscious

  • I'd feel really bad!

  • Your the guy with the problem not her.

    • I don't have a problem, never did with another girl